{"id":36892,"date":"2019-05-20T13:44:20","date_gmt":"2019-05-20T13:44:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36892"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:48:09","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:48:09","slug":"5-modi-comprovati-per-evitare-di-entrare-in-una-relazione-destinata-a-fallire","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-comprovati-per-evitare-di-entrare-in-una-relazione-destinata-a-fallire\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sarebbe bello se ci fosse un modo per scappare da quelle persone che non sono destinate a stare insieme fin dall'inizio. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That there would exist a possibility of us knowing when things won\u2019t work out <em>prima<\/em> ci innamoriamo con tutto il cuore dell'altra persona e <em>prima<\/em> diventa troppo tardi.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Well, even though nobody can give you a recipe which guarantees that you\u2019ll never have your heart broken or that you\u2019ll never make the wrong choice, there are some ways that can help you avoid getting into a relationship without a future.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>1. Smettete di aspettarvi che gli altri cambino a causa vostra<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1173702439-1.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36893\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1173702439-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1173702439-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1173702439-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The first thing you need to admit to yourself if you want to save yourself from a lot of unnecessary relationship headaches is that you won\u2019t like everything about the guy you\u2019re into. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avr\u00e0 sempre dei difetti che voi dovrete semplicemente accettare come parte di ci\u00f2 che \u00e8.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Actually, to be more precise\u2014when you first meet a guy, you have to be honest with yourself: can you accept the real him or are you hoping to modify the parts you don\u2019t like? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ricordate che anche se voi e il vostro partner scenderete a compromessi su molte cose, l'essenza della sua personalit\u00e0 rimarr\u00e0 sempre la stessa.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quindi, se sperate che <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/il-vostro-amore-non-puo-cambiare-un-uomo-finche-non-decide-di-farlo-lui-stesso\/\">il tuo amore pu\u00f2 cambiare un uomo<\/a> who doesn\u2019t want to do it himself, think again because that can never work.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>2. E smettere di cambiare a causa degli altri<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_447769960.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36894\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_447769960.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_447769960-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_447769960-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The same goes for your personality, as well. If you want to avoid getting into a relationship which is doomed to fail, you have to stop pretending to be someone you\u2019re not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The last thing you should allow is for some douchebag to mold you his way and to manipulate you into thinking that you\u2019re not enough just the way you are.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sooner or later, all of this acting will tire you, and you\u2019ll lose yourself in the process. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, you want a guy to fall in love with the real you and not some imaginary person that doesn\u2019t even exist.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pertanto, invece di cercare di piacere agli altri, iniziate ad amare voi stessi prima di aspettarvi che lo facciano gli altri. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi assicuro che un rapporto sano con voi stessi \u00e8 la base per un rapporto sano con tutti gli altri, compresi i vostri partner romantici.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>3. Imparare dalle relazioni precedenti<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1055745629.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36895\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1055745629.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1055745629-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1055745629-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Una delle regole d'oro degli appuntamenti \u00e8 liberarsi di tutti i bagagli emotivi del passato prima di buttarsi in una nuova relazione. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should put aside or completely forget all the harsh but valuable lessons your relationships taught you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Everything you\u2019ve been through happened for a reason, and now is the time to take advantage of all the pain you\u2019ve experienced. <br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your previous relationships helped you realize what you want or don&#8217;t want. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi hanno aiutato a capire cosa non dovreste mai accontentarvi e cosa meritate. Ora \u00e8 il momento di mettere a frutto questa conoscenza!<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>4. Don\u2019t lower your standards<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1296424726.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1296424726.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1296424726-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1296424726-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you should be too picky when it comes to men. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I\u2019m not telling you to wait for a Prince Charming who will magically appear in your life. \u00a0<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth is that there is no such thing as perfection, and you shouldn\u2019t look for it either.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, this doesn\u2019t mean that you should ever lower your standards. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Always be aware of what you want and need, and don\u2019t let anyone convince you that you\u2019re asking for too much. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember\u2014it\u2019s always better to remain single until the right guy comes along then enter new relationships which don\u2019t have any chance of surviving.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. <strong>Siate onesti sulle vostre aspettative<\/strong><br><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_743858932-2.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36897\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_743858932-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_743858932-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_743858932-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Un'altra cosa che pu\u00f2 aiutarvi a evitare di intrappolarvi in una <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/ha-smesso-di-impegnarsi-in-una-relazione-che-e-destinata-a-fallire\/\">relazione che \u00e8 destinata a fallire<\/a> \u00e8 essere onesti su ci\u00f2 che si sta portando nella relazione e su ci\u00f2 che si vuole da essa. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E lo stesso vale per il vostro partner.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parlate tra voi dei vostri progetti e delle vostre aspettative future. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">See if you\u2019re compatible and if you can meet each other halfway. Besides love, this is a recipe for success.<br><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-20T154324.437-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"5 modi provati per evitare di entrare in una relazione destinata a fallire\" class=\"wp-image-36898\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-20T154324.437-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-20T154324.437-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/PINTEREST-2019-05-20T154324.437.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It would be great if there was a way for us to run away from those people who aren\u2019t meant to be from the very start. That there would exist a possibility of us knowing when things won\u2019t work out before we fall in love with the other person wholeheartedly and before it becomes too&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":36899,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29622],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-36892","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-relationship-advice"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29622,"label":"relationship advice"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_362867441.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29622,"name":"relationship advice","slug":"relationship-advice","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29622,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Making all aspects of your relationship work is one of the biggest challenges. 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