Do you suspect your partner may be hiding a bad habit, but you\u2019re afraid of approaching him about it? If you\u2019re thinking of moving to the next level, you\u2019ll want to have as much transparency in your bond as possible. But sometimes it can be downright difficult to confront your mate about a behavior he may be hiding. And, not confronting him about it could mean that things will only get worse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There are many proverbial \u201cbad habits\u201d that we look for when we start to fall for a significant other.<\/b> <\/p>\n\n\n\n
At some point, you may have even made a list of must-haves and a list of things to avoid when searching for a soulmate. Everyone\u2019s list is different, but many of the must nots are typically similar. For instance, many people see laziness, procrastination, and other counter-productive traits as off-putting. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Others feel \u201cweighed down\u201d by partnering with someone who has little motivation and low self-esteem or can never see the bright side of things. Still others tolerate anything short of illicit drug use and physical abuse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The problem is that by the time many of these things start rearing their ugly heads, it\u2019s too late. We may have seen the red flags sooner, but little bits and pieces here and there rarely offer the full picture. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
The only way to fully understand a person\u2019s habits \u2013 good or bad \u2013 is by asking them outright about them.<\/b> Even then, if people are being confronted about the bad, they may try to downplay negative traits, or they may not even realize they are doing these things. It\u2019s a tricky subject.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Il self-handicapping \u00e8 quando scegliamo di non affrontare i nostri partner riguardo ai difetti percepiti. I ricercatori suggeriscono che questo \u00e8 il pi\u00f9 grande rimpianto che avremo nelle nostre relazioni nel tempo. Infatti, la rivelazione inavvertita di segreti dannosi di solito porta alla sfiducia e impedisce alla relazione di passare a un livello significativo. Often, when secrets are finally uncovered, it\u2019s in an unexpected or backhanded way, and this is not something a bond can easily withstand.<\/b><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Alcune persone sono, per natura, pi\u00f9 dirette di altre. Ma quando si tratta di costruire una partnership reciprocamente vantaggiosa che durer\u00e0 nel tempo<\/a>\u00c8 utile uscire dalla propria zona di comfort. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
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