{"id":36974,"date":"2019-05-22T07:38:40","date_gmt":"2019-05-22T07:38:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=36974"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:46:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:46:38","slug":"8-ruoli-falsi-che-in-realta-vi-rendono-infelici","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-ruoli-falsi-che-in-realta-vi-rendono-infelici\/","title":{"rendered":"8 ruoli falsi che ti rendono davvero infelice"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nell'assumere un ruolo in una relazione, purch\u00e9 tale ruolo non influisca sull'intera personalit\u00e0 della persona.
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It\u2019s desirable to present the traits of a certain role but when a man becomes just a role without his own personality, it becomes toxic for a relationship, which therefore ends in a break-up.
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Alcuni uomini non sono abbastanza forti per mantenere la loro personalit\u00e0 in una relazione. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sometimes they are too insecure to just be themselves so they choose to be something else \u2014which is, by the way, never a good idea.
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The woman they are dating learns to live with that \u2018false\u2019 type of person, with a man who pretends to be something he is not. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After some time, he can\u2019t pretend anymore, so he drops the act.
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Questo porta a litigi, a farle pensare che lui sia cambiato in peggio, e alla fine la coppia si separa.
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Questo scenario lascia entrambe le persone coinvolte nella relazione deluse e ferite e le spinge a rinunciare del tutto agli appuntamenti e alle relazioni.
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Per evitare di distruggere una relazione, un uomo deve essere intelligente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deve adattarsi al suo nuovo ruolo di relazione e prendere solo le cose migliori da ogni ruolo successivo per dare alla sua donna tutto ci\u00f2 di cui ha bisogno e per soddisfarla pienamente dal punto di vista emotivo.
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1. Il burlone<\/strong>
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Sure, he\u2019s fun to be around, he jokes all the time, but sometimes he doesn\u2019t know where to draw the line. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A volte si spinge troppo in l\u00e0 e finisce per ferirti.
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\u201cI\u2019m just kidding,\u201d is the most common phrase you\u2019ll hear from him. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because if he says something inappropriate, probably unintentionally, it will hurt you and when you get fed up with it, you\u2019re going to tell him how you feel.
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When you let him know that you feel bad and his words upset you, he\u2019ll try to calm you down by saying that he is just joking around and there\u2019s no need to be hurt. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This will become devastating after some time because you won\u2019t be able to put up with it and in the end you\u2019re going to split up.
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2.Il Padre<\/strong>
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It\u2019s nice to have a man like this by your side. He really acts like a father figure. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c8 protettivo nei vostri confronti, vi fa sentire al sicuro e amati. Ma c'\u00e8 anche un rovescio della medaglia.
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Di solito, gli uomini che si comportano cos\u00ec si considerano superiori a voi, proprio come un padre lo \u00e8 ai suoi figli.
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Quando commettete un errore, cercher\u00e0 di dominarvi e di farvi capire che avete commesso una cattiva azione. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non sar\u00e0 mai uguale a voi perch\u00e9 vi vede in modo totalmente diverso.
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3.Il parlante<\/strong>
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Parla sempre di s\u00e9. All'inizio era molto interessante, perch\u00e9 non c'erano problemi a conoscerlo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ti ha detto tutto di s\u00e9 fin dall'inizio.
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But after a while, it became a problem. When you\u2019re out with your friends, he simply doesn\u2019t know when to shut up. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He talks over you with your friends, thus indiscreetly letting you and them know he doesn\u2019t care about your opinions because his are the only ones that matter.
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Gli uomini che si comportano in questo modo sono di solito molto insicuri e si vantano costantemente dei loro successi perch\u00e9 cercano di nascondere il fatto che sono molto insicuri.
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4.Il cattivo ragazzo<\/strong>
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Who can resist a bad boy? It\u2019s a fact that women innamorarsi dei cattivi ragazzi<\/a> per qualche motivo sconosciuto e inspiegabile. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A bad boy doesn\u2019t play by the rules and he doesn\u2019t care what anyone thinks.
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That is a positive thing and it\u2019s very attractive but there is another side to it. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because he doesn\u2019t care what anyone thinks and because he does whatever he wants too, you can’t trust him.
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E se un giorno decidesse di tradirvi? Vede una donna attraente e vuole andare a letto con lei. Niente gli impedir\u00e0 di farlo.
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5.Il manipolatore<\/strong>
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In the beginning, he\u2019ll be just perfect. You\u2019ll seriously wonder how you got so lucky to land such a guy. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Maybe you\u2019ll even be suspicious in the beginning but with time you\u2019ll get used to it.
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Far\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 che gli chiedete. Esaudir\u00e0 i vostri desideri e manterr\u00e0 le sue promesse, ma solo finch\u00e9 non riuscir\u00e0 a farvi fidare di lui.
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Once he manages that, once he has you and you open your heart to him, he\u2019ll use you and drain your energy to get what he wants. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And when he\u2019s done with you, he\u2019ll do that all over again to another woman.
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6.Il fobico dell'impegno<\/strong>
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He\u2019ll lie from the start but you won\u2019t be able to see through his lies. He\u2019ll pretend that he is not ready to define your relationship.
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He\u2019ll constantly stall and change the subject if you try to talk about your relationship. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you, on the other hand, manage to force him to talk, he\u2019ll guilt-trip you into leaving things as they were by telling you about the girl he once had who broke his heart so he is not ready to fully trust someone yet.
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He\u2019ll also say that he has a feeling that you are different from the others but nothing will be defined. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questo funziona perfettamente per lui, perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2 andarsene in qualsiasi momento, senza alcun vincolo.
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7.Mr. Perfect<\/strong>
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\u00c8 il tipo di persona che vorresti presentare ai tuoi genitori. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll take him anywhere and show him off like a prize because he is just perfect, almost too perfect to be true.
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When you look more closely, this is really a bad thing because he is the type of a guy who\u2019ll do anything for someone\u2019s approval.
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Vuole accontentare tutti, quindi non dice mai quello che pensa veramente e decide invece di essere d'accordo con voi su tutto. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s why he looks so perfect. He does whatever you want.
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Believe me, you don\u2019t want a man who doesn\u2019t have an opinion of his own.
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8.Il bambino<\/strong>
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He is like Peter Pan\u2014he\u2019ll never grow up. Dating such a guy is so much fun. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He cracks jokes, he is free-spirited and he is not afraid to do anything. You’re always laughing when you\u2019re with him.
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That\u2019s really cool but the truth is that everyone needs to grow up at some point in their life. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dovete sapere che potete contare su di lui quando avete un problema. Dovete sapere che \u00e8 in grado di affrontare la vita reale e i problemi reali.
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