{"id":37109,"date":"2019-05-23T11:09:07","date_gmt":"2019-05-23T11:09:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37109"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:54","slug":"7-punti-da-spuntare-prima-di-fare-la-domanda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-punti-da-spuntare-prima-di-fare-la-domanda\/","title":{"rendered":"7 punti che sta controllando prima di fare la domanda di matrimonio"},"content":{"rendered":"

Cosa spinge un uomo a decidere di sposarsi? Quali sono i punti che gli uomini spuntano dalla loro lista prima di decidere di fare la domanda?
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Men, just like women, have this imaginary \u201clist of things\u201d that they find important to follow when it comes to deciding with whom they want to spend their life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, they don\u2019t look for the perfect, hot woman who will be able to make them the perfect sandwich.
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Prestano attenzione ad altri aspetti che sono di estrema importanza quando si tratta di stabilire una matrimonio sano e felice<\/a>.
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So, if you\u2019ve already talked about tying the knot, you\u2019ve made it clear that you want to spend the rest of your lives with each other, and he still hasn\u2019t popped the question, chances are that he\u2019s still checking the following points to make sure that you\u2019re the one!
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7 POINTS HE\u2019S CHECKING OFF BEFORE HE POPS THE QUESTION<\/strong>
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1. Familiari\/amici come voi
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Prima di fare la domanda, ogni ragazzo deve assicurarsi che la sua famiglia e i suoi amici vi apprezzino e vi approvino. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t get along with the people who are an important part of his life, some issues may arise in the future. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That is why he will never pop the question until he\u2019s one hundred percent sure that you will be able to form a healthy and positive community together.
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2. I bambini
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One of the most important things that every man wants to make sure of is seeing that you\u2019re good with kids and, most importantly, hearing your opinion on having children someday in the not too distant future.
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That\u2019s why he will always observe how you get along with kids when you have the opportunity; he will notice if you don\u2019t feel that comfortable or if children don\u2019t really like you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In ogni caso, la cosa migliore \u00e8 essere onesti riguardo alla propria opinione sull'avere figli un giorno. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The worst thing you could do is pretend that you\u2019re crazy about children only to win his affection.
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3. Supporto
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Ogni uomo vuole assicurarsi che la sua futura moglie <\/a>saranno di supporto e non puramente giudicanti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He wants to see that he can always ask you for advice and come to you with new ideas, without fearing that you\u2019ll discard all of them and tell him that he\u2019s a lunatic.
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So, if he likes to spend lots of time playing video games or doing something else, he wants to make sure that you\u2019re okay with that because if you\u2019re not, confrontation will be inevitable.
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4. Fare l'amore \u00e8 fantastico
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No, he doesn\u2019t expect from you to fulfill his deepest fantasies, yet he wants to see that you two are compatible in bed, because making love is one of the most important things when it comes to marriage and maintaining passion.
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He will conclude that lovemaking is great if he sees that you\u2019re fare uno sforzo<\/a> just as he is and you\u2019re willing to reciprocate, try something new (if you\u2019re okay with that), and tell him if he\u2019s doing something wrong.
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5. Obiettivi e interessi simili
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\u00c8 davvero difficile immaginare di passare la vita con qualcuno i cui obiettivi e interessi differiscono drasticamente dai vostri. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per questo motivo, prima di fare la domanda, vorr\u00e0 assicurarsi che abbiate obiettivi, interessi e sogni simili. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vuole trascorrere del tempo con qualcuno che lo capisca e che lui capisca in termini di raggiungimento di obiettivi e di perseguire la felicit\u00e0<\/a>.
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6. Intelligente
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Ricordate la citazione: \u201cLooks fade, but personality lasts forever<\/em>\u201d? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Yes, he wants to make sure that you\u2019re not just a pretty face, but that he can always have a meaningful conversation with you and learn something new from your perspective.
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But, don\u2019t get me wrong. Intelligence doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that you have to have Albert Einstein\u2019s IQ. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Una persona intelligente \u00e8 quella che non ha paura di dire quello che pensa, che sa ascoltare gli altri e dare risposte soddisfacenti invece di stare in silenzio e annuire sempre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that\u2019s exactly what men want from their women and future wives. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vogliono qualcuno che li ascolti e che sia anche disposto a contraddirli quando sbagliano.
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7. Onesto e di buon cuore
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Senza onest\u00e0, non esiste una relazione o un matrimonio sano. L'onest\u00e0 \u00e8 alla base di tutto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se si fida di voi con tutto il cuore, non dubiter\u00e0 nemmeno per un secondo di farvi la proposta.
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L'onest\u00e0 va di pari passo con la gentilezza. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vuole vedere che siete una persona calorosa, che ama le coccole con gli animali, che si diverte ad aiutare gli altri e che si prende cura dei suoi cari. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vuole vedere che si affida a voi con il corpo e con l'anima e, una volta che si \u00e8 assicurato di tutto questo, non avr\u00e0 mai un ripensamento nel chiedervi di sposarlo.
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