{"id":37120,"date":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-23T12:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37120"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:40:23","slug":"se-non-sono-pronti-ad-amarti-devi-lasciarli-andare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-sono-pronti-ad-amarti-devi-lasciarli-andare\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non sono pronti ad amarvi, dovete lasciarli andare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In tutte le nostre vite arriva un momento in cui dobbiamo smettere di fuggire dalla realt\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quel momento in cui si deve semplicemente affrontare la verit\u00e0, per quanto dolorosa e dura possa essere.<\/p>\r\n<p>Il momento in cui si deve fare i conti con il fatto che alcune persone sono <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/soulmate-simply-not-meant\/\">non \u00e8 destinato ad essere<\/a>, per quanto si voglia che lo siano.<\/p>\r\n<p>Che <strong>you can\u2019t keep on waiting for love that will never come<\/strong>, and that you can\u2019t keep getting all your hopes about someone who will never give you what you deserve.<\/p>\r\n<p>Arriva un momento in cui bisogna accettare che ci sono persone che non vi daranno mai l'amore di cui avete bisogno e non potete farci nulla. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Quindi, per favore, smettete di mentire a voi stessi.  Smettete di cercare scuse e di dare infinite seconde possibilit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, your love won\u2019t inspire them to become the people you need and want them to be.<\/p>\r\n<p>They won\u2019t change their ways or understand how much pain they\u2019re causing you. They won\u2019t try hard not to lose you before it\u2019s too late.<\/p>\r\n<p>No, you won\u2019t save them. They won\u2019t miraculously come to their senses and see that you don\u2019t deserve to be treated this way.<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121337 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg\" alt=\"una donna delusa siede sul retro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/a-disappointed-woman-sits-on-the-back-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Invece, continueranno a usare il vostro cuore gentile finch\u00e9 potranno.<\/p>\r\n<p>Continueranno ad approfittarsi di voi e a pretendere che vi diate sempre completamente a loro stessi senza che voi riceviate nulla in cambio.<\/p>\r\n<p>Continueranno a trattarvi come spazzatura senza mai apprezzare i vostri sforzi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>Continueranno a prendervi per i fondelli e a chiedere tutto senza dare nulla.<\/p>\r\n<p><strong>This goes for everyone in your life who doesn\u2019t love you back and who doesn\u2019t appreciate you: for your romantic partner, that toxic friend, and even your closest family members. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Remember: whoever doesn\u2019t treat you the way you deserve to be treated doesn&#8217;t deserve a place in your life. It\u2019s as simple as that.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>Dovete capire questo: <strong>whoever isn\u2019t ready to love you now won\u2019t ever love you. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Chiunque vi manchi di rispetto ora non vi dar\u00e0 mai il rispetto di cui avete bisogno.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Chi vi tratta ora come un premio di consolazione non vi dar\u00e0 mai un posto nella sua lista di priorit\u00e0. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p><strong>Whoever doesn\u2019t value your presence needs to feel your absence right away.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>So when do you plan on putting an end to all of these relationships in which you\u2019re the only one who\u2019s trying?<\/p>\r\n<p>When do you plan on accepting that you\u2019re just wasting your time on those who don\u2019t deserve you, never did, and never will?<\/p>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-121336 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg\" alt=\"la donna lascia l&#039;uomo\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/the-woman-leaves-the-man-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\r\n<p>Remember that we all accept the treatment we think we deserve. You\u2019re the one who settles for this half-ass love, the one who accepts zero effort.<\/p>\r\n<p>You\u2019re the person who keeps on giving people the green light to continue hurting you, by giving them all those second chances.<\/p>\r\n<p>Quello che si accontenta di finte amicizie e relazioni pseudo romantiche.<\/p>\r\n<p>So, when will you accept that it\u2019s about time you take your life into your own hands and stop putting the keys of your happiness into someone else\u2019s?<\/p>\r\n<p>Quando capirete che l'unica vera opzione che avete \u00e8 quella di lasciarvi andare?<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p>To leave everyone who doesn\u2019t love you in the past and to move on in your new future, without anyone holding you back or putting you down?<\/p>\r\n<p>That it\u2019s time you stop choosing others over yourself and time to start loving yourself more than anyone else?<\/p>\r\n<p>I won\u2019t lie to you \u2013 doing all of this will be everything but easy and it won\u2019t happen overnight.<\/p>\r\n<p>Cutting ties with people you love, despite them not loving you back, is one of the hardest things you\u2019ll ever have to do.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma vi aiuter\u00e0 a crescere. Vi aiuter\u00e0 a vedere la vostra vera forza interiore e a diventare una versione migliorata di voi stessi.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, you\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re breaking your own heart. But it is the choice you have to make \u2013 for your own good.<\/p>\r\n<p>Tuttavia, voglio che vi fidiate di me: tutto il dolore che proverete ne varr\u00e0 la pena.<\/p>\r\n<p>It will teach you that you don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need you back, that you can always make it on your own. &nbsp;<\/p>\r\n<p>Ma soprattutto, <strong>vi insegner\u00e0 a conoscere meglio la prossima volta.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n<p>To always give exactly as much effort as you\u2019re getting and to never put your life on hold, waiting for someone to become ready to love you.<\/p>\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><\/figure>\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-121335\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Se non sono pronti ad amarvi, dovete lasciarli andare\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There comes a moment in all of our lives when we have to stop running away from reality. That moment when you simply must face the truth, no matter how painful and harsh it might get. The moment when you have to come to terms with the fact that some people are not meant to&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":121334,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37120","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/If-They-Arent-Ready-To-Love-You-You-Need-To-Let-Them-Go-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37120"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37120\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/121334"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37120"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37120"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37120"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}