{"id":37182,"date":"2019-05-24T10:53:59","date_gmt":"2019-05-24T10:53:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37182"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:44:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:44:17","slug":"10-cose-che-vi-rendono-davvero-poco-attraenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-cose-che-vi-rendono-davvero-poco-attraenti\/","title":{"rendered":"10 cose che vi rendono davvero poco attraenti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Let’s face it. We live in times in which physical appearance has overshadowed everything else and become the main focus of our attention when we want to impress someone.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Molte persone pensano che essere attraenti significhi avere un corpo perfetto<\/a>capelli perfetti, unghie perfette e, naturalmente, l'abito perfetto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma questo non \u00e8 affatto vero. Anche la ragazza\/il ragazzo pi\u00f9 sexy della stanza, con un corpo e un abbigliamento perfetti, pu\u00f2 apparire davvero poco attraente se il suo atteggiamento e la sua personalit\u00e0 sono ripugnanti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Speaking of that, I remember going on a date with a guy who looked really hot (black hair, handsome, blue\/green eyes that can easily distract you, and well-dressed) but the moment I heard him complaining to the waitress that he\u2019d been waiting too long for his order (and we hadn\u2019t even waited for a minute), I immediately realized that his exterior certainly didn\u2019t match his interior (and on top of that he was also full of himself).<\/p>\r\n

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Anche se all'esterno sembrava un figo, il suo atteggiamento e la sua personalit\u00e0 erano cos\u00ec ripugnanti che ho dovuto inventare una scusa per andarmene.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I told him that I\u2019d just realized I had left my oven on and I was in a real hurry to go home and turn it off.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questo \u00e8 solo un esempio, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che ci sono tonnellate di altre cose che possono farci apparire davvero poco attraenti, a prescindere dal nostro aspetto esteriore perfetto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

To make sure that you don\u2019t fall into such behavior, here is the list of things making you really unattractive!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10 COSE CHE VI RENDONO DAVVERO POCO ATTRAENTI<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. You don\u2019t connect with people<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Sorridete agli altri quando li salutate o li guardate negli occhi quando parlate con loro?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re only interested in exchanging information without exhibiting human traits and asking them how they are doing, then you\u2019re not connecting with people which is really repulsive and a little bit annoying.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. You don\u2019t express gratitude<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Quando qualcuno vi fa un regalo o quando una cameriera vi porta l'ordinazione, non esprimete mai la vostra gratitudine semplicemente dicendo: \u201cThank you!\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Also, when someone goes out of their way to help you, you don\u2019t express your amazement by showing them that you apprezzare i loro gesti<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If all of this sounds familiar to you, then you should definitely work on it because you don\u2019t want other people to see you as selfish or spoiled and feel insulted by your unwillingness to show gratitude.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. You\u2019re jealous<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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La gelosia \u00e8 una vera spina nel fianco e distrugge sicuramente le relazioni, il matrimonio e quant'altro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly exhibiting signs of jealousy by deliberately downplaying other people\u2019s importance and looking for their flaws, others will think of you as an immature person who lacks confidence and self-respect.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. You\u2019re inserting yourself into other people\u2019s personal lives uninvited<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Avete costantemente l'impulso di dare consigli agli altri e di offrire la vostra assistenza su questioni importanti?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though your intentions are let\u2019s say positive, inserting yourself into other people\u2019s personal lives uninvited is nothing but being intrusive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If others didn\u2019t ask you for advice, do not offer them any. Otherwise, they will seriously think of reminding you to mind your own business.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Sminuire coloro che vi servono<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Apprezzare chi si trova in posizioni pi\u00f9 elevate e sminuire chi si trova in posizioni pi\u00f9 basse sono tratti estremamente poco attraenti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Trattare tutti con la stessa compassione e gratitudine dimostra che si \u00e8 educati e non c'\u00e8 niente di pi\u00f9 attraente di questo. Indipendentemente dalle circostanze, ricordatelo sempre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Pretending to be something you\u2019re not<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Pretending to be something you\u2019re not means deliberately ignoring your own qualities and traits only to give other people a false picture of yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This includes copying other people\u2019s outfits, hair, behavior, etc.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se volete essere davvero attraente per gli altri<\/a>allora dovrete mostrare loro chi siete veramente, perch\u00e9 la genuinit\u00e0 \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 potente della falsit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Parlare troppo di s\u00e9<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you talk too much about yourself, it means you\u2019re not interested in what others have to say but only in what you have to say to others about yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Being full of yourself is really an  unattractive quality, and it makes other people think there\u2019s no point in wasting their time with someone who is only interested in themselves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Spettegolare<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Gossiping is another form of sticking one\u2019s nose where it doesn\u2019t belong.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se l'argomento principale di ogni conversazione \u00e8 il pettegolezzo sugli altri, allora avete sicuramente un problema e la gente non si fider\u00e0 pi\u00f9 di voi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If they see that you always have something to say about others, they will know that you\u2019ll do the same thing to them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se volete apparire davvero attraenti, allora ampliare i vostri argomenti e occuparvi dei vostri affari \u00e8 un buon inizio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. You don\u2019t believe you\u2019re attractive<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Not believing that you\u2019re attractive will make you unattractive because thinking only negatively about yourself means you lack confidence.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se avete difficolt\u00e0 guardare gli altri negli occhi<\/a> and if you\u2019re constantly anxious about your appearance, other people will see you as insecure.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sicuramente non vi vedranno attraenti nonostante il vostro abito o la vostra acconciatura perfetti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Fare il passo pi\u00f9 lungo della gamba<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Do you have this tendency to constantly tell others that you\u2019ve experienced worse things and that their problems are nothing because you\u2019re always the one who has or had it worse?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One-upping the conversation means downplaying other people\u2019s problems and making yourself look selfish and self-centered.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma ascoltarli con attenzione e capire i loro problemi vi far\u00e0 apparire calorosi e attraenti!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Let’s face it. We live in times in which physical appearance has overshadowed everything else and become the main focus of our attention when we want to impress someone. Many people think that being attractive means having a perfect body, perfect hair, perfect nails, and, of course, the perfect outfit. But, this is not true…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":37196,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37182","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/shutterstock_1015027387.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","parent":29643,"count":442,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29648,"category_count":442,"category_description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. ","cat_name":"dating tips","category_nicename":"dating-tips","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37182","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37182"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37182\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37196"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37182"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37182"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37182"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}