{"id":37361,"date":"2020-08-27T13:04:35","date_gmt":"2020-08-27T13:04:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37361"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:34:53","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:34:53","slug":"5-modi-geniali-per-farsi-inseguire-da-lui-senza-fare-il-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-geniali-per-farsi-inseguire-da-lui-senza-fare-il-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi brillanti per farsi inseguire da lui senza fare il difficile"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per quanto giocare duro per ottenere<\/a> might seem like the perfect option when you\u2019re trying to win over your dream guy, in many situations, it\u2019s actually quite ineffective.<\/p>\r\n

Il motivo \u00e8 che gli uomini sono stanchi di giocare.<\/p>\r\n

They don\u2019t want to go after a girl who keeps sending them all these segnali contrastanti<\/a>e continuare a dover decifrare cosa diavolo voglia davvero.<\/p>\r\n

They are done with chasing somebody who clearly can\u2019t be bothered to show the slightest interest in them for the purposes of appearing untouchable and therefore worthy of being chased and adored.<\/p>\r\n

It doesn\u2019t work that way anymore.<\/p>\r\n

By no means am I saying that you should put all your cards on the table at once, but you definitely need to show him something worthy of being pursued, otherwise he\u2019s out the door!<\/p>\r\n

Quello che volete fare \u00e8 trovare l'equilibrio perfetto tra il fare il difficile e l'offrirvi su un piatto d'argento.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t want him to see that you\u2019re playing him, so the ideal thing to do is Fatti desiderare da lui<\/a>Ma mantenete comunque un'aria di mistero che lo far\u00e0 ritornare per avere di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\r\n

E questo \u00e8 esattamente il modo in cui lo otterrete, passo dopo passo.<\/i><\/p>\r\n

 Let him in, but don\u2019t reveal too much too soon<\/h2>\r\n

\"coppia<\/p>\r\n

If you really dig this guy, you\u2019re probably going to be tempted to be fully transparent with him and give him il tuo cuore<\/a> un po' troppo presto.<\/p>\r\n

That\u2019s understandable, since you don\u2019t want to lose him, so your first instinct is to just lay it all on the table at once.<\/p>\r\n

But that\u2019s exactly what you shouldn\u2019t be doing.<\/p>\r\n

As you\u2019re getting to know him, what you want to do is let him in bit by bit so as to not overwhelm him, and to always have something new to share as your relationship progresses.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t want to scare him away by sharing the gruesome details of your recent breakup (and appear needy or desperate) or by telling him about your painful period cramps on the third date.<\/p>\r\n

Ci sar\u00e0 molto tempo per condividere tutti i lati positivi e negativi di voi stessi.<\/p>\r\n

All'inizio mantenete un tono leggero e, man mano che la vostra relazione si approfondisce, anche gli argomenti di conversazione si amplieranno.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t be a copy of other women, stand out by being 100% your authentic self<\/h2>\r\n

\"donna<\/p>\r\n

Questo \u00e8 davvero triste. Le donne tendono a distorcere la verit\u00e0 su se stesse, dicendo cose che ritengono le rendano pi\u00f9 attraenti o attraenti per gli uomini.<\/p>\r\n

But the real truth is men don\u2019t want just another woman who doesn\u2019t know how to be herself and needs to play pretend in order to win him over.<\/p>\r\n

Le possibilit\u00e0 di Far s\u00ec che un ragazzo ti insegua<\/a> by posing as somebody you\u2019re not are slim to none.<\/p>\r\n

Ma ci\u00f2 che vi far\u00e0 attirare la sua attenzione \u00e8 essere il vostro vero, impenitente s\u00e9 stesso!<\/p>\r\n

Se pensate che alcuni aspetti di voi possano far s\u00ec che lui correre verso le colline<\/a>\u00e8 davvero un uomo con cui vuoi stare?<\/p>\r\n

Be yourself. Don\u2019t change how you look, talk, or act in order to attract anybody.<\/p>\r\n

The only person you\u2019re doing harm to is yourself. If a guy likes you for YOU, that is who you want to be with.<\/p>\r\n

Men like women who stand out and don\u2019t cater to anyone\u2019s needs. That is what will far s\u00ec che ti insegua<\/a>, so keep being you and don\u2019t let anyone steal your shine.<\/p>\r\n

Be fiercely independent but don\u2019t shut him out<\/h2>\r\n

\"elegante<\/p>\r\n

Nowadays, men are finally learning to appreciate women who can stand their own ground and don\u2019t take anybody\u2019s shit!<\/p>\r\n

But don\u2019t let your awesome independence make you closed off to him. It\u2019s important to let him see that you\u2019re a self-sufficient woman, but he still needs to feel wanted and welcome in your life.<\/p>\r\n

Let him know how much you appreciate having him around. Just because you don\u2019t run to him for help for every little thing does not mean you don\u2019t need him.<\/p>\r\n

All it means is that you\u2019re perfectly capable of taking care of things by yourself, but he is still somebody whose thoughts and ideas you will always want to hear.<\/p>\r\n

Siate interessati, ma tenetelo sulle spine di tanto in tanto.<\/h2>\r\n

\"giovane<\/p>\r\n

For sure let him know you\u2019re into him. But don\u2019t tell him tutto<\/i>.<\/p>\r\n

Let\u2019s say you\u2019re going for Friday night drinks with your girlfriends.<\/p>\r\n

Simply let him know you won\u2019t be able to make it to his on Friday, but you\u2019ll make it up to him on Saturday.<\/p>\r\n

That way, he doesn\u2019t really know where you are and who you\u2019re with, which will make him want to know even more.<\/p>\r\n

And that\u2019s where you\u2019ve got him hooked.<\/p>\r\n

Of course, you know that you\u2019re not doing anything sketchy (you would never), but his mind can go to a billion different places.<\/p>\r\n

And sure, on Saturday you\u2019ll tell him everything, but keep him in the dark that one night, and I assure you he\u2019ll be dying to see you the next day.<\/p>\r\n

Fategli capire che lo volete, ma non a tutti i costi.<\/h2>\r\n

\"coppia<\/p>\r\n

Okay, so you\u2019ve probably really fallen for this guy. Every time you see him it gets harder and harder to leave him.<\/p>\r\n

Potreste accoccolarvi con lui tutto il giorno e non fare assolutamente nulla.<\/p>\r\n

But don\u2019t let him see just how much lo vuoi<\/a>. That\u2019s when you lose the edge.<\/p>\r\n

When he senses how deeply you really need his presence in your life, he\u2019s going to know he\u2019s under your skin, and you don\u2019t want that. At least not this soon.<\/p>\r\n

You want him to see that you love having him around, and enjoy spending time with him, but you\u2019re still totally fine on your own.<\/p>\r\n

Yeah, he makes your life so much brighter, but he\u2019s not your sun. (At least make him think that.)<\/p>\r\n

The only way he\u2019ll chase you is by easing into this thing, and no matter how badly you want him, don\u2019t overwhelm him prematurely.<\/p>\r\n

Procedete lentamente e tenetelo incollato a voi rimanendo un flirt misterioso.<\/p>\r\n

You want him, but you don\u2019t NEED him. And that is what will make you so irresistible and keep him on your tail.<\/p>\r\n

Give him something worth chasing, and he\u2019ll stick to you like white on rice.<\/p>\r\n

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