{"id":37365,"date":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T13:14:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37365"},"modified":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","modified_gmt":"2022-03-01T23:17:59","slug":"4-motivi-brutalmente-onesti-per-cui-vi-sta-dando-per-scontati","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-motivi-brutalmente-onesti-per-cui-vi-sta-dando-per-scontati\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi brutalmente onesti per cui ti sta dando per scontata"},"content":{"rendered":"

Essere dati per scontati \u00e8 una delle cose pi\u00f9 umilianti e dolorose che si possano subire.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 particolarmente difficile se il vostro partner di vita vi tratta in questo modo.<\/p>\n

This is exactly the situation you\u2019re in right now.<\/p>\n

In fondo, siete consapevoli che il vostro fidanzato o marito \u00e8 convinto che ci sia un'altra persona che non ha mai avuto problemi. Non c'\u00e8 nulla che possa fare per farti smettere di amarlo. <\/a> .<\/p>\n

Vedete che si sta approfittando del vostro cuore gentile.<\/p>\n

Vedete che si gode la vostra presenza solo perch\u00e9 gli piace avere qualcuno che lo ami cos\u00ec tanto.<\/p>\n

And you know it very well that you\u2019re on the bottom of his priority list.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, perch\u00e9 queste cose accadono in primo luogo? Come si fa a sapere che un'altra persona \u00e8 una vittima adatta a questo trattamento?<\/p>\n

Per essere concreti, perch\u00e9 il tuo ragazzo ti d\u00e0 per scontata? Perch\u00e9 ti sta usando, quando questa \u00e8 l'ultima cosa che una ragazza come te si merita?<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 pu\u00f2<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Il primo motivo per cui qualcuno potrebbe trattarvi in questo modo \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 piuttosto semplice.<\/p>\n

Possono semplicemente farlo. Gli permettete di comportarsi cos\u00ec e non hanno coscienza delle loro azioni.<\/p>\n

E il vostro ragazzo probabilmente non fa eccezione.<\/p>\n

Even though I\u2019m not claiming that him taking you for granted is just your fault (after all, he is the one who is emotionally hurting you without thinking about the consequences), maybe it\u2019s time to think things through and ask yourself whether you\u2019re the one who\u2019s been giving him permission to act this way.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s make one thing clear. If a guy is an asshole, he\u2019ll probably try hiding his negative personality traits in the beginning and start revealing them over time.<\/p>\n

That means that your boyfriend wasn\u2019t this big of a douchebag from the very start. Instead, he started with little things.<\/p>\n

E cos\u00ec l'ha fatta franca ogni volta.<\/p>\n

After a while, he realized that you\u2019re giving him the green light for his behavior.<\/p>\n

He noticed that he doesn\u2019t have to show you any appreciation and you\u2019ll still continue being there for him or do him favors, so he kept on taking you for granted more and more.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t give a damn about you<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

I hate to be the one to burst your bubble, but here is the harshest and the truest truth: if a guy is taking you for granted, he is probably doing it because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n

Almeno, non abbastanza da pensare alle proprie emozioni e stare attenti a non spezzarsi il cuore.<\/p>\n

He might like you enough to spend time with you, but he doesn\u2019t give a damn whether he\u2019ll emotionally damage you.<\/p>\n

He couldn\u2019t care less about you feeling underappreciated or hurt.<\/p>\n

This guy is obviously a selfish jerk who only thinks about his own needs and could never put you first, despite everything you\u2019ve been doing for him.<\/p>\n

Ricordate una cosa: if a man treats you like he doesn\u2019t care <\/a> \u00e8 meglio iniziare a credergli.<\/p>\n

Inoltre, quale migliore prova della sua indifferenza vi serve?<\/p>\n

You\u2019re too nice<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, esiste una cosa come essere troppo gentili<\/a>troppo gentile, o troppo amorevole.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re a girl who gives her entire self to a man who will never be able to reciprocate and that is exactly why you feel like you\u2019ve been taken for granted.<\/p>\n

You try too hard and you put too much effort into someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve it.<\/p>\n

Besides, you never get angry. Even when you notice his wrongdoings, you forgive him easily and he knows he\u2019ll always get away with the way he\u2019s treating you.<\/p>\n

Quindi, perch\u00e9 dovrebbe preoccuparsi di cambiare le sue abitudini?<\/p>\n

Consequently, the man you\u2019re dating doesn\u2019t have any paura di perderti<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He knows that you\u2019ll stick around, no matter what he does, because you\u2019ve convinced him in your love and you showed him your feelings.<\/p>\n

Therefore, it is easier for him to lie back and enjoy the attention he\u2019s been getting from you than to continue winning you over.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t know how to say \u201cno\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re taken for granted, your biggest problem is probably the fact that you don\u2019t know how to turn someone down.<\/p>\n

Hai problemi a stabilire dei limiti e le persone, compreso il tuo ragazzo, se ne approfittano.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re someone who is always available and ready to do whatever it takes to please the person you love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always there when he needs a favor, a shoulder to cry on, or some company, while in his eyes, you\u2019re ranked far from first place.<\/p>\n

In parole povere, siete un professionista che offre seconde opportunit\u00e0 <\/a> e accettatore di false scuse.<\/p>\n

Even when deep down you know that someone won\u2019t ever change and doesn\u2019t deserve a place in your life, you go against your principles and always take them back.<\/p>\n

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