{"id":37487,"date":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","date_gmt":"2019-05-28T10:39:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37487"},"modified":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","modified_gmt":"2022-04-28T23:53:08","slug":"i-5-killer-piu-distruttivi-delle-relazioni-e-come-combatterli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/i-5-killer-piu-distruttivi-delle-relazioni-e-come-combatterli\/","title":{"rendered":"I 5 killer pi\u00f9 distruttivi delle relazioni (e come combatterli)"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una relazione \u00e8 un santuario tra due persone che possono essere se stesse, senza paura di essere giudicate.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

And every relationship is based on certain fundamentals that help it run smoothly and keep it from running into glitches and obstacles. It\u2019s really simple\u2014if you don\u2019t take care of your relationship, sooner or later it\u2019s doomed to fail.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quindi, se volete mantenere la vostra relazione sana, felice e farla durare nel tempo <\/span>molto tempo<\/span><\/a>\u00c8 necessario conoscere gli elementi che, come \u00e8 stato dimostrato, fanno la differenza in termini di qualit\u00e0 e longevit\u00e0.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Dopo un po' di tempo, la maggior parte delle coppie si sente troppo a proprio agio l'una con l'altra e dimentica di fare attenzione a certe cose che mettono la loro relazione ad alto rischio di rottura precoce e disordinata.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Per evitare complicazioni e mantenere la vostra relazione idilliaca cos\u00ec com'\u00e8, fate attenzione a questi 5 killer relazionali pi\u00f9 comuni.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\r\n

1. Scarse capacit\u00e0 di comunicazione<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Let\u2019s face it, we all believe that we\u2019re really good at communicating and getting our points across, but the truth is, we all mess up and let the intensity of the situation get the better of us at times.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s almost too easy turning a normal discussion into a yelling session where nothing productive gets done, and all that\u2019s achieved is getting you both that much more agitated and annoyed at each other.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

La prossima volta che volete scattare a <\/span>il tuo uomo<\/span><\/a>provate a fare cos\u00ec. Per quanto possa essere fastidioso in quel momento, contate fino a dieci, raccogliete i vostri pensieri e ascoltate ci\u00f2 che ha da dire.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Non interrompere, non urlare e non puntare il dito.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Hear him out, and try to understand where he\u2019s coming from. In turn, he\u2019ll do the same for you. Peacefully talk it out whilst trying to find common ground as opposed to assigning blame, which leaves nobody happy.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

2. Incapacit\u00e0 di fidarsi pienamente dell'altro, anche quando si tratta di fare un salto nel buio.<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

If you can\u2019t trust your partner, you\u2019ll never be truly happy in your relationship. The whole point of partnership is knowing that you\u2019ve got each other\u2019s backs no matter what.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But it doesn\u2019t work if you doubt every other thing he says and does, which is ultimately a toxic waste of your time. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sometimes, being in a relationship means taking a huge leap of faith and believing them even when you have no proof that they\u2019re telling the truth.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Questo \u00e8 <\/span>la tua persona<\/span><\/a> and your rock. Would he lie to you? I think you know the answer to this. So give him the benefit of the doubt, and trust that he\u2019s making good decisions and keeping you in the loop.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Fino a quando non dimostrer\u00e0 il contrario, scegliete di avere fiducia in lui e di essere felici senza l'inutile peso del sospetto.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

3. Identifying yourself solely as somebody\u2019s girlfriend<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Mantenere la propria identit\u00e0 nel corso della relazione \u00e8 fondamentale perch\u00e9 questa duri e abbia successo.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s cute when you\u2019re so close that you finish each other\u2019s sentences and don\u2019t mind just napping when you\u2019re together with no need to actually do anything. It feels nice whatever you do, as long as you\u2019re together.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But don\u2019t let your girlfriend role be your whole identity!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Remember who you are outside of your relationship,m and keep doing your own thing. Don\u2019t neglect your people and passions, and make sure to find a balance between your two worlds.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re an amazing girlfriend and that\u2019s a fantastic part of your life, but there is so much more to you than just that. So don\u2019t lose sight of your other world, and be true to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

4. Cercare scuse l'uno per l'altro per paura di restare soli<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sure, there will be times where you\u2019ll both screw up, and the adult thing to do is forgive, learn from it, and move on.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ma quando si tratta di comportamenti di merda e <\/span>abuso emotivo<\/span><\/a>Non dovete assolutamente trovare una scusa per questo tipo di comportamento. \u00c8 immensamente meglio stare da soli che con qualcuno che vi sminuisce.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Make sure you\u2019re being treated right, and forgive only when your heart tells you it\u2019s the right thing to do. If you sense your partner is genuinely sorry for certain actions that resulted in you being hurt, find it in your heart to forgive.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

But never let it happen twice. One time is a mistake, two times \u2013 it\u2019s a choice.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

5. Not having each other\u2019s backs through thick and thin<\/span><\/h2>\r\n

Sometimes, your partner will take on more than he can handle. At times, you won\u2019t agree with his choices, but you need to let him do his thing, and if need be, let him learn from his mistakes.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Si suppone che sostenersi a vicenda<\/a> no matter what. Even when it feels like it\u2019s a bad idea, let him try, and cheer him on as loudly as you can.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s important that you have his back and vice versa because without each other\u2019s support, where would you be?<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Be your partner\u2019s biggest cheerleader, and show him that you\u2019ve got him\u2014always. If he fails, be his shoulder to cry on, and if he succeeds, be a proud girlfriend!<\/span><\/p>\r\n

A volte, essere presenti e non interferire \u00e8 la cosa migliore che si possa fare. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You won\u2019t always agree with his choices, but that doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t root for him to succeed. <\/span>Essere presenti<\/span><\/a> even when it\u2019s hard to do, and he\u2019ll do the same for you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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