{"id":3760,"date":"2017-08-22T11:58:19","date_gmt":"2017-08-22T11:58:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3760"},"modified":"2021-08-26T12:21:49","modified_gmt":"2021-08-26T12:21:49","slug":"10-ottime-ragioni-per-perdonare-lodio-di-qualcuno","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-ottime-ragioni-per-perdonare-lodio-di-qualcuno\/","title":{"rendered":"10 ottime ragioni per perdonare qualcuno che odiate di pi\u00f9"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se volete perdonare qualcuno, ricordate il detto: \"Come si fa il letto, cos\u00ec ci si deve coricare! \"<\/p>\n<p>You must bear in mind that we are all human beings, and we have all done something \u2018unforgivable\u2019 at some point in our lives. And deep down, we all crave forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Quando<a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/blog\/happiness-in-world\/201002\/how-forgive-others\" rel=\"noopener\"> trovare il modo di perdonare gli altri<\/a>creeremo lo spazio sicuro in cui anche le nostre azioni sconsiderate possano essere perdonate.<\/p>\n<p>Try and forgive the ones you hate the most. It\u2019s not easy, but if you do it, your ego will fall apart and get this\u2014it\u2019s a good thing.<\/p>\n<p>If you really try, you won\u2019t have any excuses left for not forgiving the one who broke you. And the reasons which can inspire you to do exactly that, are the following:<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono ci rende responsabili della nostra felicit\u00e0<\/h2>\n<p>The larger part of what we are and what we attract into our lives is only a reflection of what is actually within us. Our thoughts and actions create the world we\u2019re living in. Our lives teach us that opposites do not attract and that we\u2019ll never have a happy ending to an unhappy journey.<\/p>\n<p>But, if we stick to anger and rage, we are already making our journey filled with these negative thoughts\u2014we\u2019re inviting negative things to our lives. The way we feel and emotions we keep inside are our tools for creating our own happiness.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono ci fa vedere la nostra vita come un'insegna<\/h2>\n<p>Our family members, spouses and friends\u2014they all came into our lives and they all played an important role in our discovering our true selves. We have to be grateful they are part of our lives and that they have taught us important life lessons which are responsible for broadening our consciousness.<\/p>\n<p>The same goes for all the negative relationships we\u2019ve had. Once you\u2019ve learned your lesson from a negative relationship, you will no longer attract negative situations and future relations that try to teach you the same lesson.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il potere del perdono ci aiuta a smettere di fare la vittima<\/h2>\n<p>By being able to forgive and being grateful for all good that is happening to you, life won\u2019t let you play the role of a victim. Most of the time, you\u2019re not a victim of anything else other than your own actions and your own self.<\/p>\n<p>As long as you continue putting the blame on someone else, you\u2019re automatically giving control of your life to others. In that way, you\u2019re making yourself a victim of your life for good.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">La maggior parte delle persone fa del proprio meglio<\/h2>\n<p>Mostrate compassione per le altre persone e cercate di capire a che punto sono della loro vita. Mettetevi nella loro pelle.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t have to have the same life perspectives as you do. Remember that most people are doing their best, depending on their level of consciousness and understanding.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Come si fa il letto, cos\u00ec ci si deve sdraiare<\/h2>\n<p>Tutti abbiamo sperimentato il desiderio di perdono. Ricordate come vi sentivate e ricordate che vi dispiaceva per quello che avevate fatto.<\/p>\n<p>Put yourself into their shoes and look for the right answer\u2014and that is to forgive.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Saper perdonare ci fa crescere<\/h2>\n<p>We grow constantly\u2014throughout our entire lives. But the moment we stop learning and seeking life lessons, our false ego appears and takes matters into its own hands.<\/p>\n<p>Ricordate che ci muoviamo sempre verso qualcosa di pi\u00f9 grande e pi\u00f9 grande, e il perdono ci aiuta ad arrivarci prima. Ci aiuta a seppellire il passato e a vivere per il futuro.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono ci insegna ad essere realistici<\/h2>\n<p>We should know that we don\u2019t have to expect anything from anyone.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/siete-lunico-creatore-della-vostra-felicita-dipende-da-voi\/\">Siamo gli unici artefici del nostro destino e della nostra felicit\u00e0.<\/a> Siamo noi a essere connessi con la nostra anima e il nostro io interiore, e questo dovrebbe essere tutto ci\u00f2 di cui abbiamo bisogno.<\/p>\n<p>On the other hand, it is nice to get stuff from people, but we mustn\u2019t rely on those things to be able to move forward in life. We mustn\u2019t expect anything. We have to have faith only in ourselves.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono abbatte i nostri meccanismi di autodifesa<\/h2>\n<p>We are hurting each other too often, only because we are trying to protect ourselves. We\u2019ve all been there and we\u2019ve all done that.<\/p>\n<p>Diventare consapevoli di questo modello di comportamento ci permette di porre fine a tutto il dolore inutile che causiamo agli altri per ottenere qualcosa per noi stessi.<\/p>\n<p>But, as you already know\u2014as you make your bed, so you will lie in it\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono ci rende capaci di lasciare andare le persone<\/h2>\n<p>It makes us able to let go of those who aren\u2019t supposed to stick around any longer. Not every person and every situation is meant to be a part of our lives. Sometimes, they are here only to help us to start a new chapter of our lives.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Il perdono \u00e8 la miglior vendetta<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3761 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319.jpg\" alt=\"Donna che sorride\" width=\"800\" height=\"586\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319-300x220.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/stephanie-liverani-124319-768x563.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It may be a bit sarcastic, but it\u2019s true. A positive way of getting even with someone is to simply move on and create a better future for yourself.<\/p>\n<p>Nothing will annoy and piss off your opponent more than seeing a big smile on your face after you\u2019ve truly forgiven them and moved on with your life.<\/p>\n<p>But remember, revenge shouldn\u2019t be a motive for forgiveness.<\/p>\n<p>Avete davvero perdonato qualcuno?<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to say: \u201cI forgive you\u2026\u201d But still, deep inside our minds, anger and rage are still present. And their presence will affect our future lives and our future experiences.<\/p>\n<p>But, once you truly and sincerely forgive someone, you will feel free and light as a feather\u2014released from captivity.<\/p>\n<p>Think of someone who is waiting for your forgiveness. Is there anybody out there whom you want to forgive so you don\u2019t leave this world with any regrets?<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you want to forgive someone, just remember the saying: \u201cAs you make your bed, so you must lie in it! \u201c You must bear in mind that we are all human beings, and we have all done something \u2018unforgivable\u2019 at some point in our lives. And deep down, we all crave forgiveness. 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