{"id":37730,"date":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","date_gmt":"2019-05-30T12:41:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37730"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:37:46","slug":"7-cose-da-ricordare-quando-sei-ossessionato-da-qualcuno-che-non-e-ossessionato-da-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-cose-da-ricordare-quando-sei-ossessionato-da-qualcuno-che-non-e-ossessionato-da-te\/","title":{"rendered":"7 cose da ricordare quando siete ossessionati da qualcuno che non \u00e8 ossessionato da voi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Oh, quella sensazione che si prova quando si pensa a qualcuno che ci piace davvero. Con il passare del tempo, si fantastica su di lui giorno e notte.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though you haven\u2019t had any physical contact with them, you already know how it feels to be held in their arms because you\u2019ve imagined it one too many times.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Diventano la vostra priorit\u00e0 principale e concentrarsi su qualsiasi altra cosa che non sia loro \u00e8 semplicemente impossibile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The only problem is that they don\u2019t feel the same way about you. They barely know that you exist, or they only see you as a friend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Or perhaps they have already told you that they don\u2019t have feelings for you, but you still believe that things will eventually change.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When that happens, you know that you are officially obsessing over someone who isn\u2019t obsessed with you and even though you\u2019re aware of it (somehow), you still can\u2019t stop doing it.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What to do when you can\u2019t stop pensare a qualcuno<\/a> che non pensa mai a te?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What to do when you can\u2019t stop hoping that things will change, even though you know they won\u2019t?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In questa situazione c'\u00e8 solo una cosa da fare: ricordare le 7 cose che seguono!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Obsession is a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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The first thing to remember when you\u2019re obsessing over someone is that obsession is actually a reflection of what\u2019s missing on the inside.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You blindly idealize someone because you envy something that you don\u2019t have or because of feelings of loneliness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When you\u2019re desperate to be in love with someone, you subconsciously start idealizing a specific person and imagining that they are your perfect partner (even if you don\u2019t even know them yet).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Per questo motivo \u00e8 importante essere consapevoli del fatto che i pensieri ossessivi si verificano per una ragione e la ragione \u00e8 dentro di voi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Lasciarsi andare alle fantasie non far\u00e0 altro che peggiorare le cose<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Quanto pi\u00f9 a lungo si fantastica su di loro, tanto pi\u00f9 a lungo you\u2019ll be in pain<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If deep down in your heart you know that you\u2019ll never be with them or if they\u2019ve given you signs that they are not romantically interested in you, then (no matter how harsh it sounds) it\u2019s high time to give up and come back to reality.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Continuare a fantasticare su di loro non far\u00e0 altro che rendervi pi\u00f9 infelici perch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 difficile dimenticarli.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. There\u2019s a thin line between loving them and loving the idea of them<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Quando si tratta di amore, il nostro cervello \u00e8 in grado di farci credere quasi tutto senza alcuna ragione valida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re constantly thinking of someone, your brain will understand that you\u2019re in love with them and you\u2019ll feel like you really are.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, there\u2019s a fine line between loving someone and Adoro l'idea di loro<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ossessionare una persona significa di solito amarne l'idea e ammirarne le qualit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know it\u2019s hard to accept it, but it has nothing to do with real love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. L'ossessione \u00e8 un modo per evadere<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Fantasticare e sognare a occhi aperti su qualcuno significa occupare la mente con qualcosa che piace.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

that\u2019s the main reason why you often find your thoughts wandering toward the same direction.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

L'ossessione per una persona specifica diventa un modo per evadere dalla routine quotidiana, dal lavoro o dai problemi che si stanno vivendo al momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s important to understand that it\u2019s not real. It is more of a daily mini vacation that you have become addicted to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Experiencing unrequited love doesn\u2019t mean the problem lies in you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you\u2019re constantly thinking about someone and you would do anything to be with them, yet still they are not changing their minds regarding it, this doesn\u2019t mean that the problem lies in you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

They just think you won\u2019t be compatible, which has nothing to do with changing yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Proprio come \u00e8 impossibile che vi piaccia chiunque vi piaccia, la stessa cosa vale per loro, ma \u00e8 pi\u00f9 difficile rendersene conto quando i ruoli sono invertiti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Le cose migliori della vita arrivano quando meno te lo aspetti<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Rilassarsi e seguire la corrente della vita significa diminuire i livelli di stress non necessari.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ricordate sempre che le cose migliori della vita arrivano quando meno ve lo aspettate, non quando le anticipate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re determined to think about the same person for the rest of your life even though you know there will be no progress, you\u2019ll miss some great things on the journey called life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if you absorb the idea that the best things will happen when you least expect them, you\u2019ll change your perspective and be much happier!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Il tempo guarir\u00e0 tutti i vostri sentimenti non corrisposti<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you feel hopeless about the situation you\u2019re in, don\u2019t worry.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Proprio come per tutti gli innamorati, il tempo guarir\u00e0 tutti i vostri sentimenti non corrisposti<\/a> e un giorno vi ritroverete a ridere di voi stessi per essere stati cos\u00ec sciocchi nell'ossessionarvi con qualcuno che non ne \u00e8 mai stato degno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Con il tempo imparerete a concentrarvi sul miglioramento di voi stessi e a trovare l'equilibrio perfetto che non vi permetter\u00e0 mai pi\u00f9 di diventare cos\u00ec facilmente ossessionati.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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