{"id":37798,"date":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","date_gmt":"2019-05-31T13:37:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37798"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:36:40","slug":"4-cose-che-succedono-quando-si-passa-da-un-traditore-a-un-uomo-fedele","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-cose-che-succedono-quando-si-passa-da-un-traditore-a-un-uomo-fedele\/","title":{"rendered":"4 cose che succedono quando si passa da un traditore a un uomo fedele"},"content":{"rendered":"

When you break things off with a cheater, you feel like you\u2019ve ha raggiunto il suo punto di rottura<\/span><\/a>. Perdi ogni speranza per un domani migliore e ti aspetti che ogni uomo del tuo futuro ti tratti come ha fatto questo stronzo.<\/p>\n

Then, all of a sudden, you meet someone worthy of your love and attention. You meet a mature man who is faithful and loyal and who acts as if he\u2019d never do anything to hurt you.<\/p>\n

Una volta che questo accade, l'intera visione del mondo diventa diversa. Per la prima volta, iniziate a vedere voi stessi e tutto ci\u00f2 che vi circonda in modo pi\u00f9 chiaro e subite numerosi cambiamenti. Ecco i 4 pi\u00f9 importanti.<\/p>\n

1. Avete ancora problemi di fiducia<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

I have to disappoint you\u2014not everything goes smoothly the moment you find a loyal man because sadly, you still have a lot of past traumas to get over. These issues you\u2019re still carrying around as a heavy burden don\u2019t go away as easily and unfortunately, they impact your new relationship.<\/p>\n

First and foremost, you can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone so different from your ex. You\u2019re wondering if this new guy has some kind of secret agenda and if he plans on screwing you over the same way your ex did. You can\u2019t believe that you\u2019ve found someone this nice and you\u2019re worried that this guy is too good to be true.<\/p>\n

2. Vi rendete conto di quanto fosse tossica la vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s be honest here\u2014throughout your entire relationship, deep down, you always knew that things shouldn\u2019t be like that. You knew that you shouldn\u2019t keep on forgiving that infidelity and mistreatment but you kept on doing so anyhow.<\/p>\n

Simultaneously, you also lied to yourself. You kept convincing yourself and everyone else that your relationship wasn\u2019t that bad after all and you kept on ignoring your strong intuition, despite knowing the truth.<\/p>\n

However, now, things have changed. Now that you have something to compare it with, you see how awful and toxic your past relationship actually was. For the first time ever, you realistically see all of its horrors and the pain you\u2019ve been through.<\/p>\n

Finally, you see what a healthy and normal partnership should look like and you understand that this wasn\u2019t anything similar to what you had. Of course, all of this negative experience from the past taught you to be even more grateful for this uomo fedele<\/span><\/a> che avete al vostro fianco.<\/p>\n

3. Vi rendete conto di ci\u00f2 che vi meritate<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

For years, your ex was putting all the blame on you. He kept diminishing your value and manipulating you to think that you weren\u2019t worthy of love and that you deserved everything that had been going on.<\/p>\n

After a while, you started believing him. He managed to persuade you that you really weren\u2019t destined to be loved and that he was the best you\u2019d ever get.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, ora vedete che nulla di tutto ci\u00f2 \u00e8 vero. Ora vedete che per tutto questo tempo vi siete accontentati di poco e che meritate molto di pi\u00f9 di quello che stavate ottenendo. Vedete che l'amore \u00e8 destinato a voi, dopo tutto, e che potete essere amati pi\u00f9 di quanto non lo siate mai stati.<\/p>\n

4. Ritrovate la fiducia in voi stessi<\/h2>\n

\"4<\/p>\n

Essere traditi destroys everyone\u2019s confidence<\/span><\/a>. You wonder why you weren\u2019t enough for the man you loved so much that he had to find someone else. What was he missing in your relationship, that he had to look for outside of it?<\/p>\n

Le cose peggiorano ulteriormente quando un traditore rifiuta di assumersi le proprie responsabilit\u00e0 e fa di tutto per convincervi che non siete buoni a nulla e che avete causato tutto quello che \u00e8 successo. Di conseguenza, le vostre insicurezze aumentano e la vostra immagine di s\u00e9 diventa un vero e proprio disastro.<\/p>\n

Ebbene, fortunatamente per voi, tutto questo cambia quando scaricate questo traditore e passate a un uomo vero, maturo e leale. Quest'uomo vede il vostro valore e vi fa pensare di pi\u00f9 a voi stesse.<\/p>\n

He appreciates and respects you, which inspires you to regain your self-respect as well. This man\u2019s love makes you look at yourself through different eyes and it makes you love yourself more. And that is the whole point, isn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n

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