{"id":37959,"date":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","date_gmt":"2019-06-07T06:48:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=37959"},"modified":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","modified_gmt":"2022-08-16T07:46:35","slug":"una-ragazza-per-sempre-single-non-e-facile-da-amare-ma-ne-vale-la-pena","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/una-ragazza-per-sempre-single-non-e-facile-da-amare-ma-ne-vale-la-pena\/","title":{"rendered":"Una ragazza \"per sempre single\" non \u00e8 facile da amare, ma ne vale la pena"},"content":{"rendered":"

Non \u00e8 abituata ad avere qualcuno intorno. Non \u00e8 abituata a gesti romantici e abbracci calorosi la sera.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s a ragazza abituata a stare da sola<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because ha bisogno di tempo.<\/a> Tempo e pazienza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get upset if she doesn\u2019t text you back or if she refuses to hug you when you\u2019re asking for it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t let it hurt your feelings. She will be like that\u2014quiet and distant on some days and loving on others.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She wants to commit to you and trust you, but she can\u2019t. <\/strong>Non \u00e8 colpa sua.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vuole davvero lasciarsi andare a quella bella sensazione che l'amore provoca, ma c'\u00e8 sempre qualcosa in fondo alla sua mente che la preoccupa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

C'\u00e8 sempre quel piccolo seme di dubbio che non riesce a scacciare. E se tu la abbandonassi?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E se ve ne andaste senza spiegarle il motivo? E se le si spezzasse il cuore un'altra volta?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She can\u2019t do it anymore. She can\u2019t keep patching up her broken pieces. She cannot stitch her heart back once again. There is no place to stick the needle in anymore\u2014only scars are left. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Conosce la sensazione di abbandono. Sa cosa si prova a essere lasciati soli, a essere abbandonati senza una spiegazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to try to find closure in a place where you can\u2019t have any.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She knows what it feels like to deal with it and move on. She has done it already, but she doesn\u2019t want to do it again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ha fiducia solo in se stessa.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedete, lei ha un sistema di difesa. Ha delle mura cos\u00ec spesse che niente pu\u00f2 sfondarle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Puoi passare solo se lei ti lascia entrare. E vi lascer\u00e0 entrare se ve lo meritate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After being on her own, isn\u2019t it logical that she would learn to live like that? Isn\u2019t it obvious she would try to get the best out of it?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And now that you are here, you\u2019ve messed up her plans. She prepared herself to live like that. She made her life easy to live.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ora deve cambiare tutto questo. Deve includervi e iniziare a pianificare la sua vita dall'inizio. Lasciatela fare passo dopo passo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, ogni volta che vi passa accanto senza mostrare che le importa, lasciatela fare. Ogni volta che vi allontana per evitare il contatto fisico con voi, lasciatela fare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will know better\u2014soon. Let her find her way. She\u2019s scared. <\/strong>She has no idea what is happening to her, but to you, she looks like she doesn\u2019t care.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She looks cold and uninterested. But, I\u2019m telling you, she\u2019s not. She\u2019s used to being on her own\u2014she has been single forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Una<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c8 padrona della sua vita. Non ha mai chiesto aiuto a nessuno perch\u00e9 non ne ha mai avuto bisogno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When she needed something from the top shelf, she\u2019d take a chair and reach up to grab it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, she has you to call when she needs help, but she still doesn\u2019t get that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ascolta, ha gi\u00e0 fatto pace con se stessa riguardo alla ricerca del vero amore. Ha capito che \u00e8 impossibile e se ne \u00e8 fatta una ragione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has crossed that item off her life list\u2014it\u2019s gone. All of a sudden, you show up in her life, bringing back something she never thought was possible.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You show up, and you\u2019ve brought love back from the dead.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has no idea what to do with that love. Can\u2019t you understand? She is not that scared of you leaving her. She has gotten used to that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She has been through that so she knows the drill. But what happens if you stay? What happens if that reborn love turns out to be \u2018it\u2019?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She\u2019s scared as hell of that love because she has no idea what to do with it nor where it will take her.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Do you know how she went all in when she decided she\u2019ll be forever single? I promise you, she\u2019ll go all in when she decides to be yours forever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You aren\u2019t even aware of how much her love will mean to you. You have no idea how hard she\u2019s going to love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Bisogna solo aspettare un po' di pi\u00f9 ed essere un po' pi\u00f9 pazienti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Amer\u00e0 tutto ci\u00f2 che farete. Amer\u00e0 ogni secondo trascorso con voi. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Amer\u00e0 il modo in cui la baciate prima di andare al lavoro e il modo in cui la baciate prima di andare a dormire. Amer\u00e0 tutto di voi, ogni minuto di ogni giorno.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

She will open her heart and let you in. She\u2019ll do something she was the most afraid of\u2014she\u2019ll fall in love once again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t abuse that. Don\u2019t take advantage of someone like her. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"Una<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

She\u2019s not used to having someone around. She\u2019s not used to romantic gestures and warm hugs in the evening. She\u2019s a girl who is used to being on her own. So, don\u2019t force her to change. Don\u2019t force her to accept your love because she needs time. Time and patience. Don\u2019t get upset if she…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":37961,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-37959","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/allef-vinicius-398692-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","parent":29643,"count":114,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29645,"category_count":114,"category_description":"How to rock being single? Or how to (and why you should) stop worrying about what others will think of your love status? Here's exactly how.","cat_name":"being single","category_nicename":"being-single","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=37959"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/37959\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/37961"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=37959"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=37959"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=37959"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}