{"id":3800,"date":"2017-08-24T08:13:41","date_gmt":"2017-08-24T08:13:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3800"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:50:58","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:50:58","slug":"13-motivi-a-sinistra","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/13-motivi-a-sinistra\/","title":{"rendered":"13 motivi per cui se n'\u00e8 andata"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>She left because she couldn\u2019t do it anymore.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>She couldn\u2019t pretend everything was fine. She couldn\u2019t keep counting on you when you were no longer there. She couldn\u2019t be in a relationship with <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/guy-stopped-giving-damn-girl-loves\/\">somebody who doesn\u2019t feel her anymore.<\/a> She just couldn\u2019t sit next to you and feel she doesn\u2019t have you.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>She left because you didn\u2019t want to know what to do with her.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You couldn\u2019t tell when she needed a hug, when she needed you to tell her she\u2019s panicking without a reason and that everything will be fine, or when she needed to be left alone. At the beginning of the relationship, there were times when she didn\u2019t even need to say what was wrong and you\u2019d know. With time, you became oblivious, and you let that instinct of yours go. You shouldn\u2019t have gotten her used to it if you planned on denying it to her after some time.<\/p>\n<p>With time, you became oblivious, and you let that instinct of yours go. You shouldn\u2019t have gotten her used to it if you planned on denying it to her after some time.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 il vostro amore si \u00e8 esaurito.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You just forget she needed your love and you forgot that love builds slowly over time, but it also fades away with time. You thought it\u2019ll all be alright and you never even bothered to see where you stand. You hoped that because she loved you once, she\u2019ll love you forever. How could you expect her to love you forever when you gave her nothing to love?<\/p>\n<p>You hoped that because she loved you once, she\u2019ll love you forever. How could you expect her to love you forever when you gave her nothing to love?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3802 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX.jpg\" alt=\"Coppia che si tiene per mano\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/StockSnap_J0PSNOMPKX-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 ha dimenticato come essere felice.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You made her forget what happiness looks like and she let you do that. She lost her smile and it got replaced with the sadness in her eyes. She just wasn\u2019t the same person because she was worried sick for both of you. It\u2019s not a one-man job to take care of the relationship. It takes two to tango.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/lamore-unilaterale-non-merita\/\">L'amore unilaterale non \u00e8 quello che vi meritate<\/a><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 l'hai fatta sentire insicura.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You made her feel like she wasn\u2019t good enough. You made her feel like you could leave anytime and never look back. Sometimes, you behaved like she meant nothing to you and that if you could take the time, you\u2019d make her disappear from your memory.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 l'avete scelta una volta e mai pi\u00f9.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>L'hai trascinata nel tuo uragano e poi l'hai lasciata ad affrontarlo da sola. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/vigliacco-che-fa-cadere-senza-intenzione-lamore-indietro-2\/\">You chose her only so she\u2019d chose you<\/a> and that\u2019s where the story ends. And it shouldn\u2019t have been like that. It should\u2019ve been different.<\/p>\n<p>You should\u2019ve chosen her and her love and everything she has to offer every day and in return, given her at least as much love as she has given you. But you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 ti amava.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>She loved you from the bottom of her heart. She wanted to have everything with you, but she was insecure about you wanting the same. She didn\u2019t want to put you in chains.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to make you feel miserable. She left because she thought that\u2019s what you wanted and that\u2019d make you happy. And the only thing what she wanted was to make you happy.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 la vostra relazione \u00e8 diventata solo un guscio di ci\u00f2 che era prima.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>La scintilla che c'era tra voi due non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9. Non c'erano pi\u00f9 chiacchiere a letto, non c'erano pi\u00f9 risate, non c'erano pi\u00f9 flirt, non c'erano pi\u00f9 confidenze l'uno con l'altro. Tutto \u00e8 scomparso con il tempo.<\/p>\n<p>She didn\u2019t want to remember you as the man who hurt her. She wanted to remember you as the man who made her feel loved and whom she loved with her whole heart, once upon a time.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 aveva bisogno di qualcosa di nuovo.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>She didn\u2019t need somebody new, she needed something new\u2014she needed a change. You trapped her and made her age even though she was so far away from being old.<\/p>\n<p>You never brought excitement into the relationship\u2014it was all only about where and what you\u2019ll eat or if she wanted to go out, but there was nothing done with excitement or thrills, the hint that something fun might happen down the road. You were unwilling to try new things. You made your love boring.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 avete smesso di darle ci\u00f2 di cui ha bisogno.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Ogni giorno ha avuto sempre meno di te. Ha ricevuto meno attenzioni, meno tempo e meno amore. E lei non ha mai accettato questo. Meritava di pi\u00f9.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 si \u00e8 stancata.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>She became tired of trying and you became obsessive. You held on too tight thinking that\u2019s the way she\u2019ll stay with you. That wasn\u2019t the way. She didn\u2019t do anything bad, she didn\u2019t hate you, and you screamed at her in vain.<\/p>\n<p>Non c'\u00e8 mai stato nessun altro. C'eravate solo voi fin dall'inizio, ma lei si \u00e8 stancata di dovervelo dimostrare in continuazione.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-3803 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1.jpg\" alt=\"Donna che si allontana\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1-180x120.jpg 180w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/ryan-moreno-96901-1-262x175.jpg 262w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>Se n'\u00e8 andata perch\u00e9 ha provato di tutto.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>Ha provato a prendere le distanze, ha provato ad amarti pi\u00f9 di quanto tu ami lei, ha provato a parlarti, ha pianto, ha implorato, ha spiegato, ha cercato di farti ricordare, e poi si \u00e8 arresa.<\/p>\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><strong>She left because you didn\u2019t try anything.<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p>You didn\u2019t try to stop her. You never cared to tell her how much she means to you or how you wanted her to stay. You never gave her the reasons to stay. You only showed her why she should leave and that\u2019s what she did. That\u2019s why she left.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vedi anche:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/this-is-how-you-pushed-her-away\/\">Ecco come l'avete allontanata<\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She left because she couldn\u2019t do it anymore. She couldn\u2019t pretend everything was fine. She couldn\u2019t keep counting on you when you were no longer there. She couldn\u2019t be in a relationship with somebody who doesn\u2019t feel her anymore. She just couldn\u2019t sit next to you and feel she doesn\u2019t have you. She left because&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":3801,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/08\/rosalind-chang-121445-1.jpg",800,531,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. 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