{"id":38298,"date":"2019-06-13T09:48:20","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T09:48:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38298"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:28:19","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:28:19","slug":"5-modi-in-cui-ti-stai-facendo-del-male-tornando-con-il-tuo-ex-tossico","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-in-cui-ti-stai-facendo-del-male-tornando-con-il-tuo-ex-tossico\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi in cui vi state facendo del male tornando dal vostro ex tossico"},"content":{"rendered":"

Have you ever felt like you’re trapped in an endless circle of love and hate with the guy you know isn\u2019t right for you?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando continuate a cercare di tirarvi fuori da questa relazione tossica ma, in qualche modo, finite sempre per trascinarvi di nuovo dentro?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Well, it\u2019s time for a reality check. It\u2019s time you finally put a stop to these games and to stop going back to the man you have no future with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And what is a better way of doing so then by coming to terms with all the ways you\u2019re hurting yourself by going back to your toxic ex.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Il passato vi perseguita<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014we can\u2019t run away from our past, as much as we\u2019d want to.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Everything we\u2019ve been through up till this date has shaped us into becoming the people we are today and there is nothing you can do to forever erase your past traumas.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, \u00e8 molto pi\u00f9 facile guarire quando ci si allontana fisicamente e mentalmente dalla fonte del dolore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is one thing if you\u2019re recovering from the damage someone you\u2019ve cut off caused you and it is something completely different if that person is still a part of your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is exactly what you\u2019ve been trying to do\u2014you\u2019re trying to guarisci il tuo cuore <\/a>accanto a colui che l'ha rotta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Lasciate che vi dica che questo \u00e8 impossibile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Iniziate a pensare che questo \u00e8 ci\u00f2 che vi meritate<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dopo aver trascorso anni accanto a qualcuno che ti tratta come un pezzo di merda, con il tempo inizi ad accettare questo comportamento come standard e come qualcosa di normale.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After a while, you stop seeing the truth: that you\u2019re actually settling for less and you start thinking this is what you deserve.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Somehow, your toxic boyfriend managed to convince you that every other guy will be just like him because you\u2019re the one who\u2019s causing him to be this way.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your miserable love life and bad mental health are exclusively your fault and you\u2019re the one to blame for everything, right?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Gli dai il permesso di spezzare il tuo cuore ancora una volta<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando si continua a dare infiniti seconde opportunit\u00e0<\/a> to someone who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve them and to someone who has hurt you more than once, you\u2019re also giving him an opportunity to do so again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E quando si tratta del vostro fidanzato tossico, non c'\u00e8 dubbio su una cosa: questa \u00e8 un'opportunit\u00e0 che sicuramente sfrutter\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

However, this shouldn\u2019t surprise you, as you were the one who gave him the green light, the permission to keep on breaking your heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That is exactly what he\u2019ll continue on doing because by forgiving him, you are indirectly telling him that there is nothing wrong with his behavior and that it is perfectly acceptable.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. L'autostima \u00e8 sparita<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Trascorrere anni in un circolo infinito di rotture e ritorni con qualcuno di tossico scuote l'intera personalit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tutto questo rovina la salute emotiva e mentale e danneggia l'autostima.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is when the person you love puts all of his efforts into diminishing your worth, into putting you down, holding you back and convincing you that you\u2019re good for nothing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter whether this guy emotionally, verbally or even physically abuses you, if he cheats on you or doesn\u2019t give you enough attention\u2014the point is the same.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This guy obviously isn\u2019t aware of your true value and after a while, you start believing that you\u2019re not good enough.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Di conseguenza, le insicurezze aumentano e si dice addio alla fiducia in se stessi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Ti privi del vero amore<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"5<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One of the saddest things you\u2019re doing to yourself by constantly getting back together with your toxic ex is the fact that you\u2019re depriving yourself of an opportunity to find true love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ogni giorno in cui rimani accanto a quest'uomo \u00e8 un giorno in meno in cui hai la possibilit\u00e0 di incontrare l'uomo che dovrebbe essere tuo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I\u2019m not saying that you have to be in a relationship in order to be happy.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tuttavia, vi posso assicurare che da qualche parte l\u00e0 fuori esiste un uomo che vi dar\u00e0 tutte le l'amore che meriti<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though you don\u2019t have to actively seek this man, as long as you\u2019re stuck in this unhealthy relationship you aren\u2019t giving your forever person a chance to enter your life.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This way, you\u2019re allowing your toxic boyfriend to ruin your future as well, after doing the same with your past and present.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\"5<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Have you ever felt like you’re trapped in an endless circle of love and hate with the guy you know isn\u2019t right for you? When you keep on trying to pull yourself out of this toxic relationship but somehow, you always end up dragged back into it? Well, it\u2019s time for a reality check. It\u2019s…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":38307,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38298","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_190924184-1.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38298","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38298"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38298\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38307"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38298"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38298"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38298"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}