{"id":38337,"date":"2019-06-13T10:31:32","date_gmt":"2019-06-13T10:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38337"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:27:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:27:37","slug":"il-tuo-amore-tossico-le-ha-insegnato-ad-andarsene","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-tuo-amore-tossico-le-ha-insegnato-ad-andarsene\/","title":{"rendered":"Il vostro amore tossico le ha insegnato ad andarsene"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So che pensavate che questa ragazza non fosse all'altezza. Che non fosse abbastanza coraggiosa e audace. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That she\u2019d never have the guts to do the right thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I know you were convinced that she\u2019d always love you more than she could love herself. That you\u2019d forever remain her priority, no matter what you did.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s face it\u2014you could bet your life on the fact that this girl would forever remain by your side. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That she\u2019d never say her final goodbye, and that all of her threats of leaving you were empty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">To be honest, she kept warning you that one of these days, you\u2019d force her to stop caring about you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Che una delle vostre mosse sar\u00e0 la goccia che far\u00e0 traboccare il vaso e che vi mander\u00e0 all'inferno.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>So, why do you act so surprised now when she\u2019s fulfilled her promises? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Why do you have trouble believing that this girl walked away on you and that she doesn\u2019t plan on coming back?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_597490313-1.jpg\" alt=\"Il vostro amore tossico le ha insegnato ad andarsene\" class=\"wp-image-38343\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_597490313-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_597490313-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_597490313-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">S\u00ec, hai dato per scontato di poterla avere quando volevi e di poterla trattare come volevi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That you could come crawling back into her life whenever you felt like it and that she\u2019d be right there where you left her, patiently waiting for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That she\u2019d never grow tired of all the second chances. That she\u2019d never have enough of empty excuses and false promises.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So che pensavate di non poter fare nulla... <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/la-triste-verita-e-che-non-ce-nulla-che-tu-possa-fare-per-farmi-smettere-di-amarti\/\">per far s\u00ec che questa ragazza smetta di amarti<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Che potevi continuare a spezzarti il cuore per tutto il tempo che volevi e che niente l'avrebbe mai allontanata da te.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I guess you were wrong because she did leave, didn\u2019t she?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Se n'\u00e8 andata e ti ha lasciato a chiederti cosa fosse successo. Cosa \u00e8 cambiato in lei? Cosa le ha dato la forza di lasciare il tuo culo dispiaciuto nel passato?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Come ha osato spezzarti il cuore? Come ha potuto avere la decenza di farti assaggiare la tua stessa medicina?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando \u00e8 diventata cos\u00ec spietata? Dov'\u00e8 sparita la ragazza dal cuore buono e indulgente che ti amava cos\u00ec tanto?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Beh, lasciate che vi dica cosa \u00e8 successo<\/strong>\u2014<strong>\u00e8 successo. <\/strong>Hai ucciso la ragazza che era quando le hai spezzato il cuore per mille volte di seguito.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You destroyed that girl when you damaged her beyond repair. And you\u2019re the one who created the strong <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/life\/la-donna-che-state-diventando-vi-costera-molto-ma-sceglietela-lo-stesso\/\">woman she\u2019s become<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Sei tu che le hai insegnato a badare solo a se stessa.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The one who taught her never to put anyone\u2019s needs in front of her own and the one who showed her that the ones who love themselves the most go smoothly through life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Per anni avete continuato a dimostrarle che era una sciocca a credere nell'amore incondizionato e che era stupida a pretendere che gli altri fossero come lei. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Che doveva prendersi cura di s\u00e9 e pensare al proprio bene.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You kept convincing her that all of her efforts to make you a better man were in vain. That people don\u2019t change and that she\u2019d never manage to save you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, after all those years, she finally gave up on you. No, don\u2019t be surprised because you are the one who made her do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>After all, you\u2019re the one who kept teaching her the art of departures. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quello che le ha mostrato come abbandonare qualcuno, senza mai pensare alle conseguenze. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Come allontanarsi senza mai voltarsi indietro e come lasciarsi alle spalle tutto il bagaglio emotivo.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Soprattutto, le hai insegnato come tirarsi fuori da una situazione completamente illesa. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Your toxic love taught her how to leave, and she\u2019ll be forever grateful for that.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Quindi, credo che lo studente sia diventato pi\u00f9 bravo dell'insegnante. Questa ragazza <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/10-passi-per-battere-il-gioco-del-giocatore\/\"><strong>batterti al tuo stesso gioco<\/strong><\/a><strong>E di questo dovreste congratularvi con lei.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Besides, at the end of the day, you\u2019re the one who lost much more. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth is you\u2019re the worst thing that ever happened to her, but at the same time, you brought her some good. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You helped her learn these valuable life lessons she\u2019ll never forget, and you helped her discover the inner strength she never suspected herself of having.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-81-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Il vostro amore tossico le ha insegnato ad andarsene\" class=\"wp-image-38342\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-81-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-81-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-81.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I know you thought this girl didn\u2019t have it in her. That she wasn\u2019t brave and courageous enough. That she\u2019d never have the guts to do the right thing. I know you were convinced that she\u2019d always love you more than she could love herself. That you\u2019d forever remain her priority, no matter what you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38337","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_703947307.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38337","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38337\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}