{"id":38429,"date":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","date_gmt":"2019-06-14T12:33:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38429"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:25:00","slug":"finche-non-dimostri-di-essere-degno-non-verro-a-letto-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/finche-non-dimostri-di-essere-degno-non-verro-a-letto-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Finch\u00e9 non dimostri di esserne degno, non verr\u00f2 a letto con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

I am sick of this hookup culture; whatever happened to good old dating? I don\u2019t want my relationship finishing before it even had a chance to start. I don\u2019t want to feel broken after someone who just started warming to me disappears. <\/span><\/p>\n

Enough is enough. I am setting some new rules. Until you prove you are worthy, I won\u2019t sleep with you. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are not a player, you will stay by my side even without boyfriend benefits. I don\u2019t want to waste my time on someone who is solely interested in getting to know my body, not my soul. <\/span><\/p>\n

If you are like that, I will let you leave and I won\u2019t shed a tear. I value myself too much to sell myself short. <\/span><\/p>\n

Certo che voglio venire a letto con te, ma non subito. <\/b><\/p>\n

C'\u00e8 un piacere nascosto nell'attesa, nel desiderio di un'altra persona, nel sapere che a qualcuno piaci in pi\u00f9 modi. <\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio sapere che siete diversi dagli altri. <\/span><\/p>\n

Che siete interessati a conoscermi e a tutto ci\u00f2 che ne consegue. Voglio sentirmi apprezzata e rispettata. <\/span><\/p>\n

I am not a saint and I don\u2019t wear a chastity belt but I need to feel all the right feelings before jumping into bed with someone. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ho bisogno di un'intimit\u00e0 emotiva piuttosto che sessuale. Sono attratto da te come tu lo sei da me, se non di pi\u00f9, ma sono disposto ad aspettare. <\/span><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a checkmark on the list of women you slept with. I want to know that I matter. <\/span><\/p>\n

I felt like that a few times in the past and I don\u2019t want to feel like that ever again. I don\u2019t want to confuse sexual desire with a genuine emotional connection.<\/span><\/p>\n

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That\u2019s why I need time. Time to get to know you. Time for you to get to know me. And with that time, the <\/b>tensione sessuale<\/b> <\/a>between us won\u2019t disappear. The chemistry will turn into an emotional bond if we are the real deal. <\/b><\/p>\n

If we are not\u2026 if we are fleeting\u2026 then it\u2019s better we don\u2019t get into bed together. <\/span><\/p>\n

Pagher\u00f2 quei momenti di piacere solo con lacrime e delusioni. Avr\u00f2 una gioia istantanea e lunghe notti di solitudine dopo, mancando i tuoi baci e il tuo tocco. <\/span><\/p>\n

Se mi vuoi davvero, guadagnati un posto nella mia vita. <\/b><\/p>\n

I need reciprocity. I need to know that investments go both ways. I need to see efforts, that\u2019s what sexy is all about. <\/span><\/p>\n

Voglio vedere nelle vostre azioni che ci tenete. Ti far\u00f2 entrare se mi dimostrerai che ci si pu\u00f2 fidare di te. Voglio sentirmi al sicuro e amata, niente di pi\u00f9 e niente di meno. <\/span><\/p>\n

I know that you won\u2019t mind the wait if you are the right man for me. <\/b><\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy on either of us but we can hold on until the timing is right. Until we know the sounds of each other\u2019s laughter and what keeps us up at night. <\/span><\/p>\n

Finch\u00e9 non sapremo che questo legame che sentiamo \u00e8 pi\u00f9 di una semplice attrazione fisica.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Un'altra buona ragione per aspettare \u00e8 il fatto che <\/b>fare l'amore<\/b><\/a> \u00e8 molto meglio che fare sesso. <\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s more intense. It\u2019s intimacy at its highest. It\u2019s sharing your body, mind and soul with one person. It\u2019s the closeness you feel after the act. <\/span><\/p>\n

It\u2019s everything you can\u2019t have when it\u2019s just sex without emotions. <\/span><\/p>\n

I hope you get where I\u2019m coming from after reading this. I know it might all sound complicated to you but I know I am worth the wait.<\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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