{"id":38530,"date":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","date_gmt":"2019-06-17T13:53:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38530"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:23:45","slug":"alla-donna-che-ha-perso-se-stessa-per-amore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/alla-donna-che-ha-perso-se-stessa-per-amore\/","title":{"rendered":"Alla donna che ha perso se stessa per amore"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ti sei innamorata di lui. Difficile. Come ci si innamora solo di uno. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n

Pensavate che fosse quello che stavate aspettando. Era quello che finiva le tue frasi. Era quello che sapeva cosa volevi senza che tu dicessi nulla. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Era il primo uomo con cui potevi rilassarti. Quello con cui potevi essere te stessa. Ti ha sostenuta nelle tue decisioni. Ti ha detto quanto eri bella. Ti ha fatto sentire al settimo cielo con un solo bacio. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Era sempre l\u00ec quando avevi bisogno di lui, convincendoti che era il tuo rifugio sicuro, la tua persona.<\/p>\r\n

After you saw that you had never been happier with anyone else, you decided to give him your heart, your body and your soul. You thought he was your happily ever after. You were so crazy in love that you didn\u2019t see all the red flag signs. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

You didn\u2019t see that all his hugs, while you were in company, were there to take you away from your friends. You didn\u2019t see that his kisses were just the way he showed others that he was the one who owned you, so they wouldn\u2019t hit on you.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

By telling you that he would always be there, he was trying to say that you didn\u2019t need anyone else but him. By doing all that he could to make you happy, he was just trying to make you fall into his trap. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Quello da cui riuscivi a malapena a liberarti. Ha fatto tutto questo per renderti dipendente da lui. Ed \u00e8 questo che \u00e8 successo. Vi siete innamorate di lui, pensando che non ci fosse altro uomo che potesse farvi sentire felici oltre a lui.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

You trusted him blindly. You couldn\u2019t stand being without him. He was like the air you needed to live. He was like a drug you had to take to remain sane.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

\"Citazioni<\/p>\r\n

Soon, he started being the only person who could calm you down, telling you lies that he loved you and that he would never cheat on you. Only when you showed that you couldn\u2019t live without him did the real game begin. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Si divertiva a giocare con la tua mente, a flirtare con qualsiasi ragazza si presentasse. Ti trascurava, ma in qualche modo lo perdonavi sempre e finivi nel suo letto. Era un attore cos\u00ec bravo. Sapeva cosa dire per entrare nel tuo cuore e nella tua mente. Ti ha fatto il lavaggio del cervello.<\/span><\/p>\r\n

Your gut was telling you that something was off but you didn\u2019t trust it. You thought it would pass. But it didn\u2019t. You totally lost yourself over a man who didn\u2019t give a damn about you. You lost yourself for what he called love. But it was anything but love. It was abuse, treating you badly and neglect. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

It was mind-fucking. But you didn\u2019t want<\/span> di rinunciare a lui.<\/span><\/a> Pensavate che sarebbe cambiato. Ma non \u00e8 mai cambiato. \u00c8 solo peggiorato. Ogni giorno provava un nuovo gioco con te, cercando di vedere quanto potevi sopportare. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Mentre imploravi l'amore di cui avevi disperatamente bisogno, lui ti rideva in faccia. Aveva la faccia del diavolo. Quello che ha goduto del vostro dolore pi\u00f9 e pi\u00f9 volte. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ha fatto tutto ci\u00f2 che un uomo pu\u00f2 fare a una donna per ferirla. Volevi tanto scappare, ma ogni volta che lo lasciavi, lui trovava delle stupide scuse e tu tornavi indietro. Era il tuo punto debole e volevi che questo cambiasse. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

When you realized that you had nobody except him, you started thinking about your future. You didn\u2019t want to live like that for the rest of your life. You didn’t want to suffer and beg for love and attention. You wanted to feel like any other girl who was happy in love. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Sapevate che con lui non avreste mai ottenuto ci\u00f2 che volevate, cos\u00ec avete deciso di andare avanti. Solo Dio sa quanto sia stato difficile per lei lasciare colui che era tutto per lei. Ma sapevi che era qualcosa che dovevi fare per salvarti da una vita schifosa. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Ma tutto questo \u00e8 ormai alle spalle.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\r\n

Now you are there, sitting in your room and looking through the window. You can\u2019t remember when the last time was that you felt so calm and satisfied. There isn\u2019t him to abuse you anymore. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Siete soli e potete finalmente respirare. Persino la pioggia che cade dai finestrini ha un aspetto piacevole. Vi sentite cos\u00ec bene nella vostra pelle, felici di essere sfuggiti agli artigli di un mostro. <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Next time, you will be smarter. Next time, you will think with your head and not with your heart. Next time, it won\u2019t hurt you. You know why? <\/span><\/p>\r\n

Perch\u00e9 sar\u00e0 amore. <\/i><\/b>Quello incondizionato.<\/i><\/b><\/a><\/p>\r\n

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