{"id":3857,"date":"2020-08-25T09:59:41","date_gmt":"2020-08-25T09:59:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=3857"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:02:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:02:18","slug":"10-segni-inconfutabili-di-un-fidanzato-di-merda","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-segni-inconfutabili-di-un-fidanzato-di-merda\/","title":{"rendered":"10 segni inconfutabili che hai un fidanzato di merda, un coglione"},"content":{"rendered":"

You’re completely blind. You can’t think straight. Love will do that to you.<\/p>\n

Sometimes that’s quite nice and cute, but sometimes that is what keeps you from realizing that your boyfriend is a complete dirt bag!<\/p>\n

Sei cos\u00ec infatuata di lui e dell'idea della vostra relazione che ti sfuggono tutti i segnali di allarme che indicano che ti sta trattando come un pezzo di merda.<\/p>\n

Certo, di tanto in tanto si ha la sensazione che qualcosa non vada, ma si ignora completamente.<\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 siete accecati dall'amore.<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

Quindi tirate fuori la testa dalla sabbia e aprite gli occhi. Ma per aiutarvi a farlo ancora pi\u00f9 velocemente, ecco alcuni segnali che vi faranno capire che lui \u00e8 un fidanzato di merda.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 inaffidabile<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Ti delude ogni maledetta volta. Ogni volta che sei entusiasta di qualcosa che ti ha promesso di fare, non ottieni nulla.<\/p>\n

And on top of it all, you still keep hoping he will keep his promises next time. To tell you the truth, you probably already know but won\u2019t admit\u2014HE WON\u2019T!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t compromise<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

This is pure selfishness. He wants things to go only his way\u2014no other way is acceptable.<\/p>\n

That is a huge alert that he is a complete a-hole. He\u2019s showing you he couldn\u2019t care less about your feelings and wishes. Si preoccupa solo di se stesso.<\/a> Piece of advice\u2014LASCIARE!!!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You\u2019re the last on his list<\/h2>\n

\"tre<\/p>\n

Everything else is more important than you. He has to go somewhere important (doesn\u2019t tell you where), he has to play video-games because they make him feel \u2018relaxed\u2019\u2014relaxed my ass! These are all just excuses.<\/p>\n

Get it into your head that he DOESN\u2019T want to spend time with you\u2014he HAS the time, but he doesn\u2019t want to. Don\u2019t be anybody\u2019s doormat.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vi d\u00e0 per scontati<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Tutto ci\u00f2 che fate, lui lo d\u00e0 per scontato.<\/p>\n

The fact you are going an extra mile to humor him and that you are super romantic\u2014planning romantic dinners, dates, and trips\u2014is completely normal to him. I mean, that\u2019s what you are supposed to do, while he puts the bare minimum into your relationship.<\/p>\n

I think that no one wants that\u2014neither should you.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c8 un manipolatore<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Si far\u00e0 passare per uno che sta solo cercando di aiutarvi, quando in realt\u00e0 tutto quello che sta facendo e che vuole \u00e8 plasmarvi in qualcosa che lui ritiene accettabile.<\/p>\n

Do you want to be shaped by someone else\u2019s wishes, or do you want to shape yourself according to what you want?<\/p>\n

If it hasn\u2019t yet, this will suffocate you in the near future and things will explode. Evitare la catastrofe e allontanarsi in tempo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vedi anche: <\/strong>Ecco come i narcisisti manipolatori, gli psicopatici e le altre persone tossiche vi danneggiano<\/a><\/p>\n

La colpa di tutto \u00e8 vostra<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

You are the source of his failures\u2014at least he makes you think that. Anything he does wrong will somehow be your fault.<\/p>\n

Se non \u00e8 riuscito a portare a termine un compito al lavoro, vi dar\u00e0 la colpa per averlo incontrato la sera prima.<\/p>\n

Sul serio?! Volete essere cos\u00ec sfigati e lasciare che questo accada ogni volta? Io penso di no!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> 6 cose che gli uomini fanno per farti sentire come se fossi tu quella pazza<\/a><\/p>\n

He\u2019s abusive<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Forse questo \u00e8 troppo ovvio per essere inserito in questo elenco, ma non si sa mai. L'abuso non \u00e8 solo fisico.<\/p>\n

Il tipo emotivo \u00e8 ancora peggiore.<\/a> Don\u2019t let anyone dictate your life and play mind games with you.<\/p>\n

If you let them, they will do it, but if you show them they can\u2019t \u2018touch\u2019 you by telling them to f**k off, they won\u2019t be brave as in the beginning.<\/p>\n

I maltrattatori emotivi sono persone deboli e piccole che succhiano la vita alle persone che glielo permettono.<\/p>\n

Show your strength and scare him to death\u2014that\u2019s the thing they are afraid of the most.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\u2018I\u2019m Sorry\u2019 doesn\u2019t exist in his vocabulary<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Imagine someone being on that level of being a complete douche that he never admits he\u2019s done something wrong. He\u2019s perfect.<\/p>\n

Ma dai! Siamo tutti uguali e facciamo tutti degli errori.<\/p>\n

L'unica differenza tra noi e gli stronzi \u00e8 che noi saremo sempre persone pi\u00f9 grandi e ammetteremo se abbiamo fatto qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\n

Un fidanzato stronzo far\u00e0 finta di niente perch\u00e9 sicuramente \u00e8 impeccabile. Tell him YOU\u2019RE SORRY you ever dated him!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t care when you\u2019re hurting<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Questo \u00e8 totalmente insensibile. Come potete pensare che qualcuno che chiude gli occhi sulla vostra sofferenza e sul vostro dolore vi ami anche solo un po'?<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re making excuses for him every time he sees you crying and passes next to you like you\u2019re doing nothing in particular.<\/p>\n

Maybe you\u2019re comforting yourself by making yourself believe he didn\u2019t see you or he\u2019s \u2018too busy\u2019 right now.<\/p>\n

A real man\u2014a man worth your attention\u2014will put everything he\u2019s got aside if he sees you are in a bad place. Ti meriti qualcuno che se ne freghi davvero di tutto!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ti fa pensare meno a te stesso<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

He makes you believe you\u2019re not good enough. He makes you believe he\u2019s more than good or too good for you and he rubs it in your face.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you won\u2019t\u2014can\u2019t\u2014leave him. You think you\u2019ve hit the Jackpot.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you something. The only thing you\u2019ve hit is rock bottom.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve<\/a>\u2014and this shitty person is definitely that!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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