{"id":38627,"date":"2019-06-18T13:17:24","date_gmt":"2019-06-18T13:17:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38627"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:22:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:22:22","slug":"puoi-perdonarlo-ma-non-permettergli-di-tornare-nella-tua-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/puoi-perdonarlo-ma-non-permettergli-di-tornare-nella-tua-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"Potete perdonarlo, ma non permettetegli di tornare nella vostra vita"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A volte \u00e8 necessario essere feriti e avere il cuore in mille pezzi per rendersi conto di alcune dure verit\u00e0 sia in amore che nella vita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not always easy seeing things for what they are as you\u2019re going through them. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">L'amore ha un modo di influenzare le persone e di far loro chiudere gli occhi su cose che sono proprio davanti a loro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019re not alone if love has sometimes made you feel like a total fool and completely <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-motivi-per-non-abbassare-gli-standard-di-un-singolo\/\">abbassare gli standard.<\/a> <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Non sei la sola a trovare scuse per ragazzi che non se lo meritavano minimamente. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We all think we\u2019d never do it, but then life happens and catches you off guard\u2026<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>But what\u2019s important here is to realize that you\u2019re only human. You\u2019ve made mistakes, you\u2019ve had errors in judgment, and it\u2019s likely you\u2019ll do it again. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Ma indovinate un po'? Lo far\u00f2 anch'io, e cos\u00ec un milione di altre donne l\u00e0 fuori.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ricordatevi di tanto in tanto che nessuno \u00e8 perfetto, e nessuno si aspetta che lo siate anche voi!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You try your best and sometimes, it just isn\u2019t enough. You\u2019ll pick <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/7-easy-to-miss-signs-you-are-chasing-the-wrong-guy\/\">l'uomo sbagliato<\/a> and he will turn your life upside down before you\u2019ve even realized what happened.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sar\u00e0 un idiota, vi tratter\u00e0 di merda e potrebbe anche tradirvi. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He won\u2019t see your value and he\u2019ll take advantage of your big heart and kind, forgiving soul. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_550192708.jpg\" alt=\"Potete perdonarlo, ma non permettetegli di tornare nella vostra vita\" class=\"wp-image-38628\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_550192708.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_550192708-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_550192708-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vi far\u00e0 piangere nel vostro letto da soli, solo per mettere la vostra faccia migliore al mattino,<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And that\u2019s on him. Remember that. His shitty actions say nothing about you and everything about him! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Il modo in cui ti tratta \u00e8 schifoso da parte sua, ma tu puoi scegliere come reagire.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Being able to forgive someone for treating you like shit when they\u2019re not even sorry takes a big person. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Only a huge heart can forgive someone who doesn\u2019t regret their actions and shows no remorse.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes, forgiveness is really all about you. It\u2019s not about letting him back into your life, but rather for your healing process and ability to move forward.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You need to forgive him for everything he\u2019s done wrong in order to be able to truly <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/lo-amo-ancora-5-chiari-segni-che-e-ora-di-lasciarlo-andare\/\">lasciarlo andare<\/a> e muoversi in una direzione pi\u00f9 positiva. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A direction that doesn\u2019t involve him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Just because you\u2019re finally ready to feel okay again does not mean you\u2019re ready to go back to him. It\u2019s actually the opposite. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once you\u2019ve been able to truly forgive him, you\u2019ll feel like the weight of the world has been lifted off your shoulders.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>La vostra anima si sentir\u00e0 di nuovo libera e non sarete pi\u00f9 oppressi dalla costante rabbia e dal rimpianto. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Non sarete pi\u00f9 guidati dal desiderio di pareggiare i conti, ma andrete avanti con una tabula rasa.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>And that\u2019s what forgiveness is all about. It doesn\u2019t make you weak and it doesn\u2019t mean you\u2019re a pushover. <\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>It means you\u2019ve finally reached a point where your inner peace has transcended any need for vengeance and bitterness.<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And once you\u2019ve achieved this, life will feel meaningful again. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vedrete finalmente la luce alla fine del tunnel e vi torner\u00e0 la voglia di vivere.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1378753487.jpg\" alt=\"Potete perdonarlo, ma non permettetegli di tornare nella vostra vita\" class=\"wp-image-38629\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1378753487.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1378753487-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1378753487-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But don\u2019t make the mistake of having this newfound sense of peace let you invite him back into your life! <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Close that door, and never open it again. Just because you\u2019ve forgiven him doesn\u2019t mean you forgot about all the crap he put you through.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Certo, ora potete vivere liberamente senza che questo vi pesi, ma non volete nemmeno permettere che vi colpisca di nuovo cos\u00ec profondamente. Una volta \u00e8 stata pi\u00f9 che sufficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So leave this mistake behind. He belongs in the past. You\u2019ve learned your lesson, you\u2019ve healed, and you\u2019ve grown from this. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">E l'unica strada percorribile ora \u00e8 quella della risalita. Non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla che vi trattenga, quindi non guardate pi\u00f9 indietro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Non lasciate che vi intrappoli di nuovo. Il vostro grande cuore non pu\u00f2 sopportare tanti strazi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quando la vostra vita ha preso una piega migliore, concentratevi per mantenerla tale. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not going to be easy and it\u2019s going to require a lot of willpower and strength on your part.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Every time you\u2019re tempted to call or text him, remind yourself of what he did to you. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Siete gli unici a sapere come vi ha fatto sentire e come vi ha influenzato. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Don\u2019t let anyone else tell you how to feel or what you should do. That\u2019s entirely on you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Once you get this far, don\u2019t let this newfound freedom <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/sciocco-che-si-lascia-sfuggire\/\">scivolare via<\/a>. Lasciate il passato al suo posto e concentratevi sulla creazione di un futuro promettente per voi stessi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now you know what you\u2019re capable of \u2013 that should be motivation enough to keep going and not lose faith in love.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>One bad guy doesn\u2019t mean there\u2019s more to come. For all you know, there could be the perfect man waiting for you just around the corner<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you don\u2019t give it a shot, you\u2019ll never know. So close all doors you know you never want to open again and let your future keep you positive and hopeful.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Perdonare, ma non dimenticare mai. Guarisci, ma non lasciarti mai pi\u00f9 frantumare. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019ve learned your lesson the hard way, so let it keep you away from the one causing it in the first place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019re on a new path, and it has no room for old mistakes and broken promises. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You\u2019re a new woman and you deserve your happy ending. So keep moving forward and don\u2019t settle for anything less!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-2019-06-18T151559.088-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Potete perdonarlo, ma non permettetegli di tornare nella vostra vita\" class=\"wp-image-38630\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-2019-06-18T151559.088-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-2019-06-18T151559.088-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/PINTEREST-2019-06-18T151559.088.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes, it takes getting hurt and having your heart shattered into a million pieces to realize some tough truths in both love and life. It\u2019s not always easy seeing things for what they are as you\u2019re going through them. Love has a way of affecting people and making them turn a blind eye to things&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":38632,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38627","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_1362191060.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38627","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38627"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38627\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38632"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38627"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38627"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38627"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}