{"id":38771,"date":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","date_gmt":"2019-11-20T07:57:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38771"},"modified":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","modified_gmt":"2022-01-25T09:08:00","slug":"se-non-ti-avesse-spezzato-il-cuore-non-saresti-quello-che-sei-ora","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-non-ti-avesse-spezzato-il-cuore-non-saresti-quello-che-sei-ora\/","title":{"rendered":"Se non ti avesse spezzato il cuore, non saresti quello che sei ora"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando si pensa a quest'uomo, si provano ogni sorta di emozioni negative.<\/p>\n

At the same time, you are sad that you lost him, nostalgic about your past together, angry at him for breaking your heart, angry at yourself for letting him do so, disappointed for trusting the wrong person\u2026<\/p>\n

Allo stesso tempo, vi manca e lo odiate a morte. Ci sono giorni in cui la vendetta \u00e8 l'unica cosa che avete in mente e altri in cui volete solo dimenticare che quest'uomo tossico sia mai esistito o abbia fatto parte della vostra vita.<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s face it\u2014after everything you\u2019ve been through next to him and everything he\u2019s done to you, feeling all of this is completely normal.<\/p>\n

However, I\u2019m here to tell you to be grateful, instead of resentful.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, avete sentito bene. Potr\u00e0 sembrarvi un mucchio di stronzate, ma dovreste davvero essere grati per tutto quello che questo stronzo vi ha fatto passare.<\/p>\n

Innanzitutto, siate grati alla fede che lo ha mandato nella vostra vita, perch\u00e9 aveva sicuramente uno scopo.<\/p>\n

Uno scopo per insegnarvi alcune preziose lezioni di vita, <\/a><\/b>e uno scopo per rimodellarvi nella donna che avreste dovuto diventare.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

I know that now you\u2019re probably wondering, in shock, why you should be thankful to someone who crushed you, emotionally destroyed you and damaged you to this point.<\/p>\n

Well, the truth is that without intending to so, this manipulative and awful man helped you become the woman you\u2019re today.<\/p>\n

S\u00ec, potrebbe aver ucciso la ragazza innocente e vulnerabile che eri prima che lui entrasse nella tua vita. Ha cancellato quella romantica senza speranza che credeva nelle persone e nei \"vissuti felici e contenti\".<\/p>\n

E questo \u00e8 un peccato che non potr\u00e0 mai essere perdonato.<\/p>\n

Tuttavia, allo stesso tempo, ha aiutato la donna che siete ora a nascere<\/b> . Ti ha aiutato a vedere tutto il tuo potenziale e ti ha aiutato a ricostruire te stesso.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t put you through misery, non saresti mai diventata la donna forte e indipendente che sei oggi.<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never seen everything you can do, and you\u2019d never have grown into the badass, tough heroine of your own life.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t made you stop trusting everyone around you, non avreste mai trovato la fede in Dio<\/b> . You would have never put your destiny in His hands, knowing that He\u2019ll always do what\u2019s best for you.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t abandoned you, non avreste mai scoperto chi \u00e8 il vostro <\/b>amici veri<\/b><\/a> erano<\/b> .<\/p>\n

Non avreste mai saputo chi erano le persone su cui potevate sempre contare e quelle che non vi avrebbero mai abbandonato quando ne avevate pi\u00f9 bisogno.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t walked away from you, non vi sareste mai resi conto di potercela fare da soli<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have known that you don\u2019t need a man in order to feel good about yourself and that you\u2019re the maker of your own happiness.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t treated you the way he did, non avrebbe mai apprezzato altri uomini diversi da lui<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You would have never had the chance to see what the things you should never settle for are, and you wouldn\u2019t have known how a relationship shouldn\u2019t look like.<\/p>\n

You would have never met the man of your dreams\u2014the one who will give you everything you need without even knowing it and who will treat you the way you deserve from day one.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have cherished his love the way you should. You wouldn\u2019t have been aware that you\u2019ve hit the jackpot because you wouldn\u2019t have had this horrible past experience to compare it with.<\/p>\n

If he hadn\u2019t spent years making you feel like you\u2019re non destinato ad essere amato <\/a> and as if you don\u2019t deserve anyone better, questo dispetto che ti fa muovere non si sarebbe mai risvegliato dentro di te<\/b> .<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t have started loving yourself so much, and you wouldn\u2019t know how to appreciate honest love when you get it.<\/p>\n

If this guy hadn\u2019t broken your heart, you would have never fixed it. And let\u2019s face it<\/b> \u2014 now it\u2019s better and stronger than it ever was.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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