{"id":38777,"date":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","date_gmt":"2019-06-20T10:37:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38777"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:18:32","slug":"5-spaventosi-segnali-che-il-vostro-fidanzato-e-un-narcisista-patologicamente-invidioso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-spaventosi-segnali-che-il-vostro-fidanzato-e-un-narcisista-patologicamente-invidioso\/","title":{"rendered":"5 spaventosi segnali che il vostro fidanzato \u00e8 un narcisista patologicamente invidioso"},"content":{"rendered":"

L'invidia patologica \u00e8 uno dei tratti principali del disturbo narcisistico di personalit\u00e0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ogni narcisista \u00e8 invidioso del proprio partner e di tutti coloro che lo circondano, ma allo stesso tempo pensa che tutti siano invidiosi di lui. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questo \u00e8 il nocciolo dell'intero problema. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re dating a man like this, then you must have experienced disrespect and sabotage. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Whatever major success you\u2019ve had, your narcissist gave no meaning whatsoever to it, or even worse, he convinced you that you did nothing extraordinary or praiseworthy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I narcisisti desiderano il potere, e questo \u00e8 uno dei motivi per cui abusano delle loro vittime. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanno il bisogno di essere migliori di tutti gli altri, quindi quando si presenta una persona che ha realizzato qualcosa, si sentono minacciati. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That\u2019s when the envy kicks in. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The ironic thing is that narcissists pick victims who are special \u2013 people who have something unique about them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Ma allo stesso tempo, odiano quel qualcosa di speciale che hanno e ne sono gelosi, per cui colgono ogni occasione per metterli in difficolt\u00e0 e sminuirli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Every narcissist is the same \u2013 they need to feel superior to everyone else.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

This need causes pathological envy and if this envy isn\u2019t put in order from the beginning, it will definitely kill your relationship, since a narcissist doesn\u2019t know when enough is enough or when to stop with their behavior. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi usano e vi prosciugano fino a quando non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 nulla da prosciugare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se vedete che il vostro ragazzo presenta alcuni di questi 5 comportamenti, \u00e8 sicuramente un narcisista patologicamente invidioso: <\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. He can\u2019t admit someone else\u2019s success<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Instead of congratulating you, he will find a way to belittle your success. It\u2019s his mission to make you feel bad and think that you are not good enough. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

His pathological envy will do anything to make you feel like worthless crap. And the future plan is to make you give up on everything; it\u2019s his goal to ensure you that you are incapable of anything so you don\u2019t even try. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

People who care sincerely about you would never do something like that. On the contrary, they would make a big deal out of something not so significant you\u2019ve done. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Lo faranno per farvi sentire meglio e per incoraggiarvi a continuare a provare e a lavorare sodo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'invidia narcisistica lascia le vittime distrutte e piene di vergogna. L'unica cosa che la vittima ha imparato \u00e8 che qualsiasi cosa faccia non \u00e8 degna di lode. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

After some time, they begin to think that they haven\u2019t deserved any kind of acknowledgement anyway. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Ha un insaziabile bisogno di attenzione<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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A narcissist won\u2019t allow his victim to keep the center of the stage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Se la vittima ha compiuto un'impresa e riceve un elogio, il narcisista glielo toglie parlando dei propri successi, mettendo la vittima in secondo piano. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ritengono che la vittima stia rubando le lodi a cui ha diritto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Either they will say something mean to you disguised as a compliment \u2013 and everyone will hear it as a compliment, except you because you know him better than anyone else \u2013 or they will just change the subject. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because\u2026 well, because you\u2019re not important. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

L'obiettivo principale \u00e8 quello di umiliare la vittima di fronte a molte persone e in qualche modo convincere gli altri a unirsi al suo bullismo. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of this is, of course, disguised as jokes at the victim\u2019s expense. The point is that the victim keeps quiet about their accomplishments after some time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Sa come sentirsi potente<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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That is the catch. He doesn\u2019t even have to be more successful or more \u201cpowerful\u201d than you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will find a way to accomplish that and ignore something successful you did like it\u2019s not that big of a deal \u2013 like you did something anyone can. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nelle situazioni in cui si sente minacciato da voi e dal vostro potere, si render\u00e0 pi\u00f9 potente guardandovi dall'alto in basso senza alcun motivo particolare, ma lo tratter\u00e0 come qualcosa di assolutamente normale e scontato. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Pensa molto poco di voi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Minimizzer\u00e0 ogni vostro successo mentre accade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Although you\u2019ve worked so hard to make something come true for you, he will hurt you by saying you did nothing special and it all happened because you got lucky. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

D'altra parte, il loro successo sar\u00e0 descritto come il frutto di duro lavoro e dedizione.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

This is tragic because in every single case, it\u2019s the other way around. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I narcisisti sono quelli che contano sulla fortuna e sulle connessioni sociali per andare avanti. Il duro lavoro \u00e8 qualcosa che non fanno mai. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Stabilisce l'asticella sempre pi\u00f9 in alto<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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No matter what you do, nothing will ever be good enough. The victim\u2019s confidence is the narcissist\u2019s worst nightmare.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Significa che ha perso il controllo su di voi. Quando ci\u00f2 accade, \u00e8 possibile che la vittima si renda conto di poter fare di meglio e se ne vada. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per evitare che ci\u00f2 accada e per assicurarsi di avere un'offerta narcisistica illimitata, i narcisisti alzeranno l'asticella ogni volta che avrete successo in qualcosa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nothing will ever be good enough for them. They will always ask you for more than you\u2019ve already done.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

They will always use your insecurities against you. They will try their best not to let you forget what you\u2019re insecure about. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re special. You should know that from the moment a narcissist picked you. That\u2019s why you were his target. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siete in grado di fare cose che lui non potrebbe mai fare. Vuole nutrirsi del vostro successo e attribuirsi il merito dello stesso successo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s not your fault that you\u2019ve been abused. You had something unique that drew him to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Next time, it will draw the right person \u2013 the person you deserve. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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