{"id":38800,"date":"2019-06-20T13:14:22","date_gmt":"2019-06-20T13:14:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38800"},"modified":"2022-02-23T23:43:49","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T23:43:49","slug":"6-dolorosi-motivi-per-cui-ti-tiene-ancora-in-disparte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-dolorosi-motivi-per-cui-ti-tiene-ancora-in-disparte\/","title":{"rendered":"6 dolorosi motivi per cui vi tiene ancora all'oscuro di tutto"},"content":{"rendered":"

When I\u2019m in amore<\/a>, I can\u2019t really hide it, and I just want to scream it from the rooftops!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s just how love affects me. I can\u2019t change it, and frankly, I don\u2019t want to! But for some people, it\u2019s completely different.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There are people who prefer to keep their love life on the DL. They don\u2019t like people knowing their business, and what\u2019s theirs is only for them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Esitano a lasciare che qualcuno si avvicini alla loro relazione e le loro ragioni non sono sempre chiare.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While it makes sense to a certain degree, it can also be hurtful to the other partner, as it makes them feel like they\u2019re unworthy or not abbastanza buono<\/a> to be mentioned in their partner\u2019s circle of friends.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

What could be the reason why he\u2019s keeping you on the DL?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Is it because he\u2019s just not sure if it\u2019s going to last or is he for some reason ashamed?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Does he simply like to keep you all to himself or does he have a completely different reason you can\u2019t even fathom?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ci sono diversi motivi per cui gli uomini scelgono di mantenere le loro relazioni in sospeso<\/a>.  <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Keep reading to find out if your man has somebody on the side or if he\u2019s simply trying to keep you all to himself for selfish but romantic reasons!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Uno dei suoi amici potrebbe avere una cotta per te<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This might be a legit reason why he\u2019s not talking about you much. He is trying to deal with his buddy\u2019s crush and avoid a potential disaster.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Crushes don\u2019t have to mean much, and it doesn\u2019t necessarily mean the guy has actual feelings for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But if he thinks you\u2019re cute and gets anxious around you because he knows he shouldn\u2019t like you, it\u2019s kind of nice that il tuo uomo<\/a> \u00e8 tenere le cose separate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The crush probably won\u2019t last long, they never do, and when it\u2019s over, I\u2019m sure he\u2019ll be happy to have your relationship out in the open!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. He\u2019s just not that into you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So che \u00e8 doloroso sentirselo dire, ma a volte bisogna affrontare la realt\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Gli piaci abbastanza da continuare a vederti, ma non abbastanza da nominarti come parte della sua vita.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Honestly, you shouldn\u2019t put up with that. Either he\u2019s into you or he\u2019s not. There\u2019s no grey area here.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he\u2019s not ready to proudly show you off to his friends and family, there is somebody out there who\u2019ll be thrilled to do so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s up to you to decide how you want to be treated.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. He isn\u2019t ready to define the relationship<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s clear that he likes spending time with you, and he wants to keep doing it, but he just doesn\u2019t want to label it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

There is always an excuse as to why that\u2019s the case, and you keep falling for it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Guys who know what they want go after it and don\u2019t risk losing it. And guys who don\u2019t, have a tendency to stall and make excuses to keep things casual and avoid commitment.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you don\u2019t like this arrangement, you should let him know.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Avete il diritto di sapere esattamente dove ti trovi<\/a> with him and if you\u2019re just wasting your time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he doesn\u2019t want to indulge you, then you know exactly where you stand.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. He\u2019s just using you until somebody better comes along<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He has certain needs, and he needs them met. And you\u2019re the perfect thing for that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ti vede come una persona con cui passare il tempo, ma non abbastanza da chiamarti davvero fidanzata.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He probably checks out every hot piece of ass that walks by and doesn\u2019t even hide his reaction when he sees something he likes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s disrespectful, and his treatment of you is a low blow. You\u2019re not just an object of his desire\u2014you\u2019re a human being with feelings!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

My advice is leave him ASAP. You\u2019re more than just a body to pass time with. Show him what he\u2019s missing by leaving him looking better than ever.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

When he realizes what he\u2019s losing, it will be too late, and you will be too far to care.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. He wants people to think he\u2019s single<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Gli piace flirtare e gli piacciono le attenzioni che le donne gli riservano.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he makes himself officially off the market, that means the attention stops, here\u2019s nobody trying to win him over, and he just can\u2019t have that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si tratta di un uomo con seri problemi di ego. Ha bisogno di conferme da parte di pi\u00f9 donne per sentirsi come un vero uomo<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One woman clearly isn\u2019t enough, but he still needs you to fulfil his  needs. He just needs to keep it on the DL.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He has you waiting for him any time he needs you for sex, and then he\u2019s off to his pretend life where he plays a single dude dying to get the attention he craves.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Only it\u2019s not fake, and he needs it to stroke his ego. That\u2019s just messed up, and you need to leave this egomaniac like ieri<\/em>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. I suoi amici sono troppo critici<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"6<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He has some seriously outspoken and opinionated friends, and he doesn\u2019t want to let them talk badly about you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t have to mean that they actually would, but it\u2019s very likely.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

His friends\u2019 opinions clearly matter a lot to him, and he can\u2019t have them talk shit about you and then keep being torn between you and them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So it\u2019s easier keeping you as far away from each other as possible by keeping you on the DL.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While this isn\u2019t the worst thing in the world on his part, it still sucks not being able to get to know his friends and be an actual part of his world.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nascondersi \u00e8 solo infantile e una totale perdita di tempo. Puoi scegliere come gestire la situazione, ma ti prego di mettere te stessa al primo posto, qualunque cosa tu decida.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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When I\u2019m in love, I can\u2019t really hide it, and I just want to scream it from the rooftops! That\u2019s just how love affects me. I can\u2019t change it, and frankly, I don\u2019t want to! But for some people, it\u2019s completely different. There are people who prefer to keep their love life on the DL….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":38809,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38800","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/shutterstock_209564305.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","parent":29643,"count":570,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29646,"category_count":570,"category_description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? Or do you need explanations for his actions? Learn to understand men, and your life will become easier.","cat_name":"understanding men","category_nicename":"understanding-men","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38800","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/42"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38800"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38800\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/38809"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38800"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38800"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38800"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}