{"id":38843,"date":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-21T07:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=38843"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:09:18","slug":"il-modo-in-cui-ti-tratta-e-il-modo-in-cui-si-sente-nei-tuoi-confronti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/il-modo-in-cui-ti-tratta-e-il-modo-in-cui-si-sente-nei-tuoi-confronti\/","title":{"rendered":"Il modo in cui vi tratta \u00e8 come si sente nei vostri confronti"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/7-messaggi-di-testo-che-riceverai-se-gli-manchi-davvero\/\">messaggio di testo<\/a>Ogni piccola conversazione e ogni singolo segnale non verbale che emettono \u00e8 andato troppo oltre.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. Once you realize this, you\u2019ll see how simple it really is to read them.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ll be the first to admit I\u2019ve made a gazillion excuses every time I didn\u2019t want to accept that he actually did that shitty thing. I would always assure myself he was just in a bad mood and it had nothing to do with me.<\/p>\n<p>And every time he\u2019d hurt me with his words, I\u2019d just assume he had a lousy day at work and he was just airing his frustrations and I was the first person there.<\/p>\n<p><i>But no. That\u2019s not correct and it\u2019s not okay. We all have shitty days, don\u2019t we? How many times did you come home from a dreadful day at work to a messy house, nothing cooked for dinner and him just lounging on the sofa watching a game?<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95667\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Photo-of-disappointed-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-at-home-with-upset-look-and-expressing-quarrel-isolated-over-white-background.jpg\" alt=\"Foto di coppia delusa seduta insieme sul divano di casa con sguardo sconvolto ed espressione di litigio isolata su sfondo bianco\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Photo-of-disappointed-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-at-home-with-upset-look-and-expressing-quarrel-isolated-over-white-background.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Photo-of-disappointed-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-at-home-with-upset-look-and-expressing-quarrel-isolated-over-white-background-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/Photo-of-disappointed-couple-sitting-together-on-sofa-at-home-with-upset-look-and-expressing-quarrel-isolated-over-white-background-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>E tu cosa hai fatto? In questa situazione, avevi tutto il diritto di essere veramente arrabbiata con lui, ma scommetto che hai fatto un bel respiro, gli hai dato un bacio di saluto, sei andata in cucina e hai iniziato a cucinare.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>And then you go and make excuses for HIM? Think about it. It\u2019s so messed up.<\/p>\n<p>They hardly even appreciate all the \u2018little\u2019 things we do for them and our family on a daily basis, so the last thing they deserve is that we cut them some slack!<\/p>\n<p>La prossima volta <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/quando-il-tuo-uomo-non-ti-apprezza-merita-di-perdere\/\">il tuo uomo<\/a> puts you through any crap, instead of making an excuse for him, confront him and let him know you\u2019re no longer putting up with that.<\/p>\n<p>And if you\u2019ve just started seeing a guy who doesn\u2019t seem to appreciate anything about you other than your body, believe him! Unless you want to be just his eye candy, go find someone with dignity and respect.<\/p>\n<p>We need to start believing guys when they show us how they feel about us through their actions. As much as you want him to be more than that and believe he\u2019s got potential to get better, it\u2019s highly unlikely he\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95668\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg\" alt=\"ritratto di una coppia sconvolta e in conflitto\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/portrait-of-upset-couple-having-conflict-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>How he treats you is how he feels about you, period! You can\u2019t let a guy walk all over you for days on end and then once he decides to have one good day, you feel like the luckiest girl alive.<\/p>\n<p>The luckiest girl would never put up with that. She\u2019d be with a man who is consistent in his efforts and treated her with respect. She would never need to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/i-veri-uomini-non-trovano-scuse-ma-si-impegnano\/\">trovare scuse<\/a> for him because she wouldn\u2019t be with a crappy dude in the first place.<\/p>\n<p><i>Devi iniziare a credere di meritare di meglio. Il modo in cui vi trattate \u00e8 il modo in cui lui vi tratter\u00e0. Se vede che accettate i suoi tentativi a met\u00e0<\/i><i>\u2014<\/i><i>that\u2019s all you\u2019ll ever get from him!<\/i><\/p>\n<p><i>If he sees he can get away with tons of shit, he\u2019s just going to keep acting like a jerk. See? It\u2019s all up to you to decide how you want to be treated. Raise your standards and if he stays down, leave him there!<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95669\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home.jpg\" alt=\"donna riflessiva seduta con il suo uomo a casa\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/thoughtful-woman-sitting-with-her-man-at-home-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Guys need to see that they can\u2019t just pick and choose days when they\u2019ll be on their best behavior and when they\u2019ll be a total jerk. Either you\u2019re <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/love\/alla-ragazza-che-ha-bisogno-di-sapere-che-e-piu-che-sufficiente-2\/\">abbastanza buono<\/a> for your woman or she\u2019s going to show you the door.<\/p>\n<p>I ragazzi che rispettano le loro ragazze e vogliono solo il meglio per loro lo dimostrano con le loro azioni.<\/p>\n<p>Vi dar\u00e0 il bacio del buongiorno ogni volta che vi alzate e il bacio della buonanotte ogni sera prima di andare a letto. Vi aiuter\u00e0 in ogni modo possibile, facendo commissioni e andando a ritirare il bucato ogni tanto.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be mad you didn\u2019t make dinner because he\u2019ll know you were swamped that day and he\u2019ll run to the kitchen and make your favorite dish.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be offended if you don\u2019t want to have sex every single night because you\u2019re both grown-ups with a bunch of shit to do and it\u2019s perfectly normal to just want to sleep and rest your mind and soul.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95670\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-under-blanket.jpg\" alt=\"coppia sotto la coperta\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-under-blanket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-under-blanket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/couple-under-blanket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><i>Questo \u00e8 il tipo di uomo che merita il vostro amore ed esiste davvero! Non \u00e8 un privilegio trovare una persona cos\u00ec, \u00e8 un vostro diritto!<\/i><\/p>\n<p>Una volta che ve ne sarete resi conto, smetterete di perdere tempo con gli stronzi immaturi che rendono solo la vita pi\u00f9 difficile e concentrerete la vostra attenzione su tutti quei ragazzi dal cuore gentile che semplicemente renderanno la vostra vita un po' migliore e vi renderanno felici di essere vivi.<\/p>\n<p><i>It\u2019s not a fairy tale and it\u2019s not wishful thinking. They may not be around every single corner but they\u2019re around. And when you find that guy, you\u2019ll see how easy life can actually be with the right person by your side.<\/i><\/p>\n<p>So stop making excuses and stop thinking you\u2019re not worthy of that kind of love. You are and you will find it. Maybe not today but when you stop looking for it, that\u2019s when it usually knocks on your door.<\/p>\n<p>Love is supposed to make you feel better and smile harder. Don\u2019t stop until you\u2019ve found exactly that, because it\u2019s going to knock you off your feet!<\/p>\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-95665\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-He-Treats-You-Is-How-He-Feels-About-You-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Il modo in cui vi tratta \u00e8 come si sente nei vostri confronti\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-He-Treats-You-Is-How-He-Feels-About-You-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/06\/How-He-Treats-You-Is-How-He-Feels-About-You-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Guys really aren\u2019t that hard to figure out. Our tendency to read into every text message, every minor conversation and every single non-verbal sign they give out has gone way too far. It\u2019s time we stop overanalyzing every single thing they do and accept that their actions speak louder than our misinterpretations ever will. 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