{"id":39464,"date":"2020-06-28T11:24:29","date_gmt":"2020-06-28T11:24:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39464"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:08","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:08","slug":"6-lezioni-inaspettate-che-gli-psicopatici-finiscono-per-insegnarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-lezioni-inaspettate-che-gli-psicopatici-finiscono-per-insegnarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"6 lezioni inaspettate che gli psicopatici finiscono per insegnarvi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Per quanto orribili, tossici e manipolatori, gli psicopatici possono insegnare lezioni di vita davvero preziose, se si sceglie di scavare un po' pi\u00f9 a fondo.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong. Dating a psychopath or merely having one in close proximity is a nightmare.<\/p>\n

Ti lascia segnato, vulnerabile, esposto e ferito. Vi fa sentire male con voi stessi e la loro personalit\u00e0 manipolatrice e malvagia vi fa tremare di paura.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever been in a situation where you dealt with this, I\u2019m truly sorry. But I also have some kind of good news for you.<\/p>\n

Sai che tutti quei tratti malvagi<\/a> che hanno e che spesso usano contro di voi? In realt\u00e0 potete usarli a vostro vantaggio.<\/p>\n

Chiaramente, non nel modo distruttivo che loro scelgono, ma in un modo che vi aiuter\u00e0 a rendere la vita un po' pi\u00f9 facile e a fare le cose in modo pi\u00f9 efficiente!<\/p>\n

Si pu\u00f2 far credere che l'esperienza vissuta con lo psicopatico sia in realt\u00e0 una benedizione sotto mentite spoglie.<\/p>\n

Non solo vi aiuter\u00e0 a identificarne uno in modo da poterne stare alla larga in futuro, ma vi servir\u00e0 anche come un fantastico life hack.<\/p>\n

And here is what I\u2019m talking about!<\/p>\n

6 lezioni totalmente inaspettate che uno psicopatico pu\u00f2 finire per insegnarvi.<\/p>\n

L'importanza di essere impulsivi e di inseguire ci\u00f2 che si vuole<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

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If there\u2019s one thing a psychopath can teach you it is to simply let yourself be impulsive and grab life by the balls!<\/p>\n

If you want something, go after it. If you feel it may be out of reach, run and don\u2019t give up until you\u2019ve got your way.<\/p>\n

Potete migliorare la vostra vita, se decidete di trasformare questa qualit\u00e0 in un modo che vi porti grandi benefici.<\/p>\n

Gli psicopatici lo usano chiaramente per ottenere ci\u00f2 che vogliono senza considerare come si sentono gli altri, ma a differenza loro, voi lo farete in modo premuroso e senza secondi fini.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let shit affect you easily and never dwell on things you cannot change<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

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It\u2019s plain and simple. Psychopaths do not care about the opinions of others.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t dwell on unimportant shit and they don\u2019t care what you think of it. Period. And that is exactly what you should be doing!<\/p>\n

When something crappy happens and you can\u2019t change it, stop giving a fuck.<\/p>\n

Se qualcuno offre un'opinione non richiesta su qualcosa che non lo riguarda, mandatelo a quel paese.<\/p>\n

Simply put \u2013 stop paying attention to others and focus on what YOU think and what YOU feel is right.<\/p>\n

This is a valuable lesson you can take away from them, as long as you make sure not to hurt anyone in the process. There\u2019s a fine line you don\u2019t want to cross.<\/p>\n

Stop feeling guilty over every minor thing and learn to say \u201cFuck it!\u201d<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

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When you look at it from a psychopath\u2019s point of view, this can sound a bit extremist, but obviously you\u2019ll take it down a notch.<\/p>\n

Quando succede qualcosa che \u00e8 totalmente fuori dal vostro controllo, ma finite per essere incolpati lo stesso, lasciate che pensino quello che vogliono e allontanarsi<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, the smartest thing you can do is just say \u201cScrew this!\u201d and go do your thing.<\/p>\n

People will say what they want to say and make you feel guilty if that\u2019s what they want.<\/p>\n

But YOU can choose to not give a shit, knowing that you\u2019re conscious is clear. Not everyone is worth your attention. So stop giving it to them!<\/p>\n

A volte \u00e8 necessario ricorrere al proprio fascino per portare a termine le cose.<\/h2>\n

\"bella<\/p>\n

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Ain\u2019t nothing wrong with that! I mean, it\u2019s not like you\u2019re looking to murder anyone or make their life a living hell.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m talking about less dreadful things here. Like getting a guy to do something he might not be fond of, or getting that promotion you know you deserve.<\/p>\n

Non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel saper accendere il proprio fascino e usare la propria personalit\u00e0 spumeggiante per fare a modo proprio.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s just how life works sometimes and you have to roll with it. Your charm is there for a reason; it would be a shame not to use it.<\/p>\n

Conoscere il proprio valore e avere fiducia nelle proprie capacit\u00e0<\/h2>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

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Be a boss-ass bitch and own it! Get your confidence on and don\u2019t let some basic bitch put you down.<\/p>\n

Sapete il tuo valore<\/a> and there\u2019s nobody and nothing that can ruin this for you.<\/p>\n

E se una ragazza ci prova, servitele un favoloso one-liner che la terr\u00e0 lontana dai vostri piedi per sempre.<\/p>\n

There will always be people rooting against you and hoping you\u2019ll fail.<\/p>\n

Ma il trucco \u00e8 fregarsene e concentrarsi sul raggiungimento della vetta per i propri meriti, il tutto con un sorriso smagliante sul volto.<\/p>\n

Never let people see you cry. You\u2019re a tough chick and no one can tell you otherwise.<\/p>\n

Non lasciatevi mai annoiare e continuate a darvi da fare.<\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

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Questo viene naturale agli psicopatici, ma anche voi potete impararlo. (Ovviamente, con un intento meno malvagio).<\/p>\n

In life, it\u2019s so easy to get bored and just settle for mediocre shit out of fear of going after the big things.<\/p>\n

But that\u2019s exactly what you should be doing. There is always a way to get things done, you just have to explore your options.<\/p>\n

I\u2019m not saying to break rules or something like that. What I mean is that sometimes you just have to look outside the box.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll be surprised at how many alternative ways there are to achieve what you want, be that in work, personal life, or your romantic pursuits.<\/p>\n

Where there\u2019s a will, there\u2019s most certainly a way.<\/p>\n

Continuate ad andare avanti e le cose belle arriveranno! Non fermatevi mai al primo segno di difficolt\u00e0.<\/p>\n

That is simply the first step toward something awesome \u2013 just keep on hustling!<\/p>\n

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