{"id":39504,"date":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T07:01:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39504"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:33:16","slug":"4-tattiche-distruttive-di-rottura-usate-dai-narcisisti-violenti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-tattiche-distruttive-di-rottura-usate-dai-narcisisti-violenti\/","title":{"rendered":"4 tattiche distruttive di rottura usate dai narcisisti abusivi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Separazione<\/a> is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re ending a big chunk of la tua vita<\/a>, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Come per qualsiasi altro grande cambiamento nella vita, ci vuole un po' di tempo per abituarsi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma quando l'uomo che ti lascia \u00e8 un narcisista violento, le cose sono pi\u00f9 complicate e distruttive.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Un narcisista non rende mai le cose facili. \u00c8 lui che ha bisogno di avere tutto il controllo, quindi qualsiasi cosa accada, finirete per essere il destinatario delle sue intenzioni feroci.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

As I\u2019ve mentioned above, narcissists can\u2019t cope with not being in control.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E nel momento in cui sentono che stanno perdendo anche solo un po' del loro vantaggio su di voi, ricorreranno a misure drastiche.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he senses that you\u2019re trying per porre fine alle cose<\/a> or that you\u2019ve started defying him, he\u2019s going to make sure to be the one to end it first.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E non in modo amichevole. Sar\u00e0 secondo i suoi piani subdoli e punger\u00e0 AF.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se avete la sensazione che il vostro narcisista si stia preparando a scaricarvi, preparatevi a uno dei 4 scenari seguenti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

These are his most common choices of letting you know he\u2019s done with you. Consider yourself warned!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Ha gi\u00e0 un interesse romantico di riserva e vi lascer\u00e0 all'improvviso, senza dare spiegazioni.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando un narcisista \u00e8 certo di voler chiudere con voi, si assicura di avere gi\u00e0 un altro compagno di letto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Deve sempre avere delle opzioni nel caso in cui le cose vadano male. E in questo caso, non avr\u00e0 nessun preavviso e nessuna spiegazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il suo umore diventer\u00e0 improvvisamente imprevedibile, sar\u00e0 molto irritabile e avr\u00e0 un atteggiamento sgradevole nei vostri confronti.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember, narcissists don\u2019t possess the ability to feel shame and regret, so it really won\u2019t make a difference to him if you cause a scene.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will leave you with no apologies and he will make sure you know that he\u2019s already got another chick to fill in for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E questa sar\u00e0 la fine del vostro narcisista e di voi. Finir\u00e0 cos\u00ec bruscamente come \u00e8 iniziata.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Vi far\u00e0 passare per il cattivo, abusando verbalmente di voi e dandovi tutta la colpa.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

His plan is going to be so devious and sneaky that you won\u2019t know what hit you. Firstly, he\u2019s going to cause minor inconveniences to make you appear really shitty.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make sure to let you know just how bad he thinks you are and he won\u2019t mince his words.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Then, he\u2019s going to push your buttons by doing stuff he knows you don\u2019t like and that way, he\u2019s going to make you go at least a little bit mad and he will use it against you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi far\u00e0 apparire pazze, instabili e come una cattiva fidanzata e finger\u00e0 di essere un povero ragazzo caduto nella vostra rete di bugie e inganni.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t even understand how he\u2019s doing it and he\u2019ll already be gone, having achieved his goal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019ll be feeling like you did something wrong but all that really happened was he manipulated the shit out of you and left with his head held high.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Proprio come aveva sempre previsto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Dar\u00e0 e negher\u00e0 il suo affetto fino al punto di allontanarvi.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Le sue emozioni (quelle che finge di avere) saranno tutte in movimento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

One day he will adore you and shower you with love and the next day he\u2019ll be mad about the crumbs you left on the kitchen floor.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You won\u2019t know what to do about it, as his behavior is going to drastically escalate and the smallest things will push him over the edge.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And that\u2019s exactly what he wants you to think. He is going to make you do all the work for him by appearing like a raging lunatic and making you end things as if it was all your idea.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is going to be an extremely toxic atmosphere and you won\u2019t be able to handle it for long.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

While he thrives in it, you\u2019ll simply have to put an end to it and there you go.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Just like that, it\u2019s over and he didn\u2019t have to pull the trigger. You did it for him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. User\u00e0 il sesso come arma per demoralizzarvi.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"4<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il sesso diventer\u00e0 un'arma potente nel suo arsenale. Lo user\u00e0 contro di voi in ogni modo possibile.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E se avete una buona vita sessuale<\/a>, it\u2019s going to be especially difficult.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He will deny you sex when he sees you really want it. And when he notices you\u2019re too tired to function, he\u2019ll ask you if you\u2019re in the mood (knowing that you\u2019re NOT).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He is going to make you beg him to have sex with you, which is something you never thought you\u2019d do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma il suo comportamento non vi lascer\u00e0 altra scelta. Sar\u00e0 anche uno spreco di fiato tossico, ma a letto sa dartelo di sicuro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And damn it, you want it one last time. And that\u2019s how he\u2019s going to get you. Your ego is going to suffer a big blow every time he says, \u201cNo,\u201d and he will enjoy every second of it.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And once he\u2019s done having his fun, he\u2019ll end it with you, leaving you struggling to cope with the aftermath of his actions. And it will suck. Profoundly.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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Breaking up is always heavy stuff. Even when the guy you\u2019re breaking things off with is the most normal dude you\u2019ve ever dated, it still sucks big time. You\u2019re ending a big chunk of your life, and especially if you\u2019re the one being dumped, it can be hard to come to terms with it. Just…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":39510,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39504","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1084354871.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39504"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39504\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/39510"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39504"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39504"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39504"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}