{"id":39522,"date":"2019-07-01T09:37:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-01T09:37:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39522"},"modified":"2022-09-20T08:36:08","modified_gmt":"2022-09-20T08:36:08","slug":"7-segnali-di-uno-stile-di-attaccamento-insicuro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-segnali-di-uno-stile-di-attaccamento-insicuro\/","title":{"rendered":"7 segni di uno stile di attaccamento insicuro"},"content":{"rendered":"

Vi sentite ansiosi di aprirvi a qualcuno di nuovo? Avete paura di essere feriti nelle relazioni?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Molte donne (e uomini) che hanno sperimentato i disagi e il dolore causati dalle rotture sviluppano in seguito uno stile di attaccamento insicuro (senza nemmeno esserne consapevoli).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Uno stile di attaccamento insicuro si forma fondamentalmente per paura.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is a fear of being abandoned, not being liked by someone you like, a fear of cheating or breaking up with someone you’re in a relationship with.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can be stuck in this attachment style for years while you’re dating or in a relationship, or even when you\u2019re doing none of the two.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And when you feel insecure, you tend to do things you normally wouldn’t, which may cause a lot of problems in future relationships.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you’re not sure whether this is happening to you, here are 7 signs you might have an insecure attachment style!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Difficolt\u00e0 di comunicazione con il partner<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You’re afraid of opening yourself to your partner, which makes it utterly difficult for you to stabilire una comunicazione sana<\/a> in una relazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You are afraid of being honest with them because you don’t want to get hurt.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, you usually expect from them to already know what’s going on in your mind and act accordingly. And when they don’t, you get mad at them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It is an exhausting cycle of pretending, expecting, and getting mad about something you yourself don’t understand.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Uno stile di attaccamento insicuro vi rende difficile sentirvi liberi di essere chi siete veramente con loro e di stabilire un rapporto sano con la vostra famiglia. connessione e comunicazione<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Paragonate la vostra relazione ad altre relazioni<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

No matter if your relationship is already close to perfection, you always want more and you\u2019re never satisfied with what you already have.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

Le vostre elevate aspettative rendono difficile per il vostro partner riuscire a soddisfarle.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

So, you often find yourself comparing your relationship to other relationships, thinking that they have something you don\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In your eyes, other people\u2019s relationships are always more successful and happier than yours.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

\u00c8 come un limbo fatto di illusione e di pensieri totalmente irreali.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Tutto questo costringe il vostro partner a diventare disperato nel trovare una soluzione alla vostra insoddisfazione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Even though they think everything\u2019s good in your relationship, you are never able to confirm it because your tendency to expect more of them is simply stronger than you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Fingete sicurezza<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re completely aware of the importance of being confident in your relationship, but your insecure attachment style is making it hopelessly difficult for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, the only thing  left to do is fake it. You fake being confident, while on the inside you\u2019re the total opposite.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your world is shattering from the inside; meanwhile, you\u2019re pretending that you couldn\u2019t be happier.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Sebbene sia possibile fingere per qualche tempo, a lungo termine \u00e8 quasi impossibile. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your partner will notice if you\u2019re not being genuine and it\u2019ll just be a matter of time before your insecurities reach the surface.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fingere sicurezza \u00e8 solo un sollievo temporaneo, ma a lungo andare \u00e8 totalmente distruttivo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedi anche: Ecco cosa porta sempre a tavola una donna sicura di s\u00e9<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Giochi mentali<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

A volte si fanno giochi mentali per insicurezza o perch\u00e9 si pensa che il partner non ci presti abbastanza attenzione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, you deliberately refuse to answer their calls, pretending you\u2019re busy, or you let them wait longer than usual to text back.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Cos\u00ec facendo, pensate di catturare la loro attenzione, di costringerli a impegnarsi di pi\u00f9 e di temere di perdervi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

La paura di perderli crea invariabilmente la stessa paura anche in loro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You know that playing games is unfair and unhealthy for your well-being and relationship, but you can\u2019t help yourself.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il tuo stile di attaccamento insicuro<\/a> is driving you to be something you\u2019re not and it is extremely difficult for you to explain this to your partner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Si salta alle conclusioni<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Qualunque cosa vi dica il vostro partner, voi avete sempre delle conclusioni da trarre.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Per essere pi\u00f9 precisi, tendete a saltare regolarmente alle conclusioni, il che causa problemi di comunicazione e di comprensione reciproca.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quando il vostro partner vi manda un messaggio o dice qualcosa di ambiguo, pensate subito al peggiore degli scenari possibili.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Insecure attachment style means living in fear of being abandoned and that is why this is the first thing that comes to your mind when you can\u2019t understand something.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You jump to conclusions and you\u2019re not prepared to change your mind, even if your partner reassures you that there\u2019s nothing you should be worried about.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your thoughts are twisted and you can\u2019t help but feel disappointed and scared of what\u2019s next.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. You’re terrified of infidelity<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Come nel caso precedente, il fatto che siate pietrificati dall'infedelt\u00e0 vi costringe a fare cose completamente folli.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi sentite in dovere di controllare ogni singolo dettaglio sull'evento a cui parteciper\u00e0 il vostro partner, vi aspettate di sapere quante persone ci saranno, se ci saranno donne e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re so terrified of unfaithfulness that you can\u2019t be at peace when your partner is somewhere out without you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And often you accuse them of doing something they really didn\u2019t do. Your insecurities often make you act jealous for no reason and destroy your relationship.<\/p>\r\n

Correlato: Attaccamento Ansioso Preoccupato: Superare l'insicurezza<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. You’re ambivalente nei confronti dell'impegno<\/a><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"7<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

O si vuole dare il cento per cento al proprio partner e impegnarsi su ogni singolo piano o non si vuole nulla.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your commitment decisions vary from day to day and you simply can\u2019t decide what to do anymore.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il vostro cuore vuole impegnarsi, ma la vostra mente non ve lo permette per paura di essere abbandonati, traditi o feriti in un modo o nell'altro.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You can\u2019t decide whether you want to invest all of yourself in a relationship or just run away from them and act like you\u2019ve never known them.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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