{"id":39752,"date":"2020-07-03T10:18:01","date_gmt":"2020-07-03T10:18:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39752"},"modified":"2022-07-19T08:47:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-19T08:47:39","slug":"10-sms-che-i-ragazzi-inviano-con-significati-segreti-non-cascarci","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/10-sms-che-i-ragazzi-inviano-con-significati-segreti-non-cascarci\/","title":{"rendered":"10 messaggi che i ragazzi inviano con significati segreti (non cascarci!)"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c8 risaputo che gli uomini possono essere maestri nel parlare senza peli sulla lingua e che le donne fanno la loro parte in ogni tentativo. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Some fail miserably, but some (if they\u2019re persistent and charming enough) get the occasional green light.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Especially if you\u2019ve just started seeing a guy, texting him can be quite a hassle. And I mean it only in the sense that you still don\u2019t know his abitudini di invio di SMS<\/a> abbastanza bene da decifrare alcuni testi discutibili.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, women can turn into real detectives when need be, and nobody is spared if a woman\u2019s sixth sense is telling her to correre verso le colline<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma ci sono casi occasionali (durante le magiche fasi iniziali di una relazione) in cui si vuole dargli il beneficio del dubbio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E se alcuni uomini se lo meritano (perch\u00e9 fanno davvero sul serio), \u00e8 anche spiacevole (ma reale) che questi uomini siano una razza in via di estinzione.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Since the odds are not in your favour, let\u2019s check out some shady texts a guy will typically text you. Is there a hidden agenda or does he actually mean what he says?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. \u2018\u2019Hey, you up?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Yup… but you can keep on cruising.<\/em> A text that comes at a late hour along the lines of this means nothing more than what it says. The guy is bored out of his mind and can\u2019t be bothered to say anything more meaningful.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s probably hoping for a quick reply and a possible hook-up.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he actually cared about you, he\u2019d say something like: \u2018\u2019Yo, having trouble sleeping, thought of you to keep me company. Any chance you\u2019re up?\u2019\u2019<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questo testo ha una maggiore profondit\u00e0 e non \u00e8 indicativo della sua noia o di una telefonata di piacere.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il precedente significa che vuole solo perdere tempo e che probabilmente sei stata la terza persona a cui ha mandato un messaggio.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. \u2018\u2019Sorry about yesterday. I got really busy.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he suddenly just stopped texting you without offering any explanation or reasoning, it probably means he got a better offer elsewhere. We\u2019ve ALL used this excuse, so we all know what it really means.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se vuoi messaggiare con qualcuno, fallo e basta! Ma se si riceve un'offerta migliore o ci si stufa di loro, si evita di rispondere e si ripropone questa scusa raffazzonata in un secondo momento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

The truth is, if he REALLY got busy, he\u2019d just tell you and then get back to you as soon as he was done. But if he just vanished without a trace, he really doesn\u2019t care much.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. \u2018\u2019You\u2019re a really great person.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si tratta in pratica di un calcio nello stomaco. Che cosa in realt\u00e0<\/em> means is: \u2018\u2019You\u2019re okay\u2026 just not for me.\u2019\u2019 <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

With this text, he\u2019s letting you know there\u2019s nessun futuro<\/a> con lui. \u00c8 (forse?<\/em>) cercando di risparmiare i tuoi sentimenti con questo sottile rifiuto.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t prolong the inevitable\u2014just stop texting him. You\u2019ll find someone who\u2019s upfront and genuine.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. \u2018\u2019Haha, that\u2019s cool.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

In translation \u2013 I have nothing else to say. When he texts this after you\u2019ve texted a lengthy paragraph, it means he is totally not interested in continuing the conversation.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Basically, he\u2019s just replying to be polite, but that\u2019s it. The conversation has reached its peak (at least for him), and he\u2019s moving on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. \u2018\u2019Hey, we should totally chill soon!\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Notice the vibe of this text. It\u2019s not serious. It\u2019s not particular. It\u2019s rather vague, and as he would say it \u2013 chill.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Which means he literally has nothing better to do, so he\u2019ll probably suggest meeting up the same night (asking you last minute) and will do everything he can to get lucky.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t mean anything more than that because if it did, he wouldn\u2019t text you last minute, and he would use different phrasing.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

This is just a casual text to see if you\u2019re up for some fun, but nothing more than that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. \u2018\u2019Haven\u2019t heard from you in a while. What\u2019s up?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Probabilmente stava sfogliando i suoi vecchi messaggi, ha visto il tuo nome da qualche parte nel mezzo e ha deciso di testare le acque.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Chances are, he just wanted to see if there\u2019s a chance of reigniting the old flame.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma potrebbe anche significare che vuole sinceramente vedere come stai, soprattutto se avete dei trascorsi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It all hugely depends on how the rest of the conversation plays out. You\u2019ll know it better than anyone if he\u2019s just trying to get with you or simply chat with an old friend\/girlfriend.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. \u2018\u2019Can I take a rain check? Something unexpectedly came up.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If this were true, he would just specify what came up. If he remains this vague, it probably means that he\u2019s either no longer interested or that he\u2019s going out with someone else.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Questo \u00e8 un tipico scusa per cancellare i piani all'ultimo minuto.<\/a> Don\u2019t fall for it, unless he offers a real, believable reason.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. \u2018\u2019Can I ask you something unusual\/weird\u2026?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Okay, so this basically means you\u2019re about to be weirded out. He is going to ask something he definitely shouldn\u2019t be asking and is using the \u2018\u2019unusual\u2019\u2019 card per farla franca<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Fate attenzione a quello che potrebbe succedere dopo e sentitevi liberi di smettere di mandare messaggi se supera il limite (cosa molto probabile).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. \u2018\u2019What\u2019s the deal with <insert the name of your friend>?\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"Uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He\u2019s interested in your friend. It\u2019s as simple as that. If a guy asks you this, he\u2019s clearly trying to get the approval to go after your friend, while subtly letting you know you\u2019re off his list.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Un ragazzo che ha il coraggio di fare una cosa del genere probabilmente \u00e8 comunque un idiota, quindi stategli alla larga e avvertite la vostra amica!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. \u2018\u2019I\u2019m not sure right now. I\u2019ll let you know.\u2019\u2019<\/h2>\r\n

\"uomo<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re asking him if he\u2019s free to do something together, and this is his reply.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Translation \u2013 he wants to see if he\u2019ll have better options, and if all else fails, he\u2019ll go with you.  He is basically keeping you as a backup plan.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s not the worst thing in the world, but it definitely sucks.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Find a guy who\u2019ll be thrilled to spend time with you and not someone who\u2019ll keep you on the back burner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

That\u2019s just shitty behaviour and a slap in the face. Steer clear.<\/p>\r\n

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