She\u2019s always going to be there for you, at any hour. Whenever you call her, she\u2019ll have time for you.<\/p>\n
This is why you\u2019ll take her for granted. You\u2019ll assume she has to find time for you, and you never even stop and think how she\u2019s feeling because suddenly your problems seem more important than hers.<\/p>\n
Tutto ci\u00f2 di cui parli sei tu.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n
Quando c'\u00e8 qualcosa che vi preoccupa, correte da lei e lei vi consola. I vostri problemi si accumulano e li caricate su di lei senza nemmeno pensare se c'\u00e8 qualcosa che la preoccupa.<\/p>\n
She deals so well with her own stuff, but that doesn\u2019t mean she doesn’t need your help. The thing is, she has never found time to bother you because you are always a priority. There is always something going on with you.<\/b><\/p>\n
In the beginning, you\u2019ll know she tries so hard to make you happy. In the beginning, you\u2019re going to cherish and respect that.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re going to try hard to please her because you know she deserves it.<\/b> By treating her this way, you\u2019re going to inspire her to treat you even better.<\/p>\n
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Perhaps you\u2019ll even wonder what it was that you did to deserve such a beautiful person in your life. How can someone be so selfless for one reason only – love? What did you do right to deserve her by your side?<\/p>\n
You\u2019re going to be thankful and careful not to screw anything up, not to hurt her unintentionally.<\/p>\n
Slowly, you\u2019ll take her for granted.<\/b> You\u2019ll get used to her treating you right and giving you more than you deserve. Slowly, you\u2019ll start to think her selflessness and love is something you\u2019re entitled to without making any effort.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll no longer have time for her as much as you used to. Now, she can wait. It\u2019s not that important. You\u2019re thinking that nothing will change if you do something first and then devote yourself to her.<\/p>\n
Beh, non cambier\u00e0 nulla nell'immediato, ma il fatto di dare priorit\u00e0 a qualcos'altro si insinua in te e, prima che tu te ne accorga, quella ragazza che si concede completamente a te non \u00e8 pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec importante.<\/p>\n
Putting her second will become normal because she won\u2019t say a thing. She won\u2019t object to your cruel behavior. <\/b><\/p>\n
She won\u2019t change her behavior. She won\u2019t get even with you and treat you like you treat her. She\u2019ll be even better and kinder, hoping you\u2019ll realize you\u2019re neglecting her, hoping you\u2019ll change.<\/p>\n
\u00c8 questo che vi rende uguali a tutti gli altri.<\/b> All'inizio giurate di tenerla al sicuro, di rispettarla e onorarla. Ma alla fine finisci per trascurarla e darla per scontata. Alla fine, diventi un idiota senza cuore, proprio come tutti gli altri.<\/p>\n
You\u2019re messing with her. From the way you treat her, you\u2019ve learned this one thing and that is \u2014 you can get away with pretty much everything. She is not responding to your poor treatment. Moreover, the more you treat her badly, the more she treats you better.<\/p>\n
Cos\u00ec, inconsciamente, iniziate a testare i suoi limiti.<\/b> You become a narcissistic egocentric. You start doing whatever you feel like without thinking twice about her and whether your actions are going to hurt her feelings. You\u2019re testing her limits, and you\u2019re trying to find that line you\u2019re not supposed to cross.<\/p>\n
Suddenly, she\u2019s had enough. Suddenly, you\u2019ve hit the wall and come to that line.<\/b><\/p>\n
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Sadly, that is a road in one direction. There is no way back. You can try to find the way back to her heart, but you\u2019ll get lost.<\/p>\n
Improvvisamente, quella ragazza non si impegna pi\u00f9 cos\u00ec tanto. <\/b>Everything she did has vanished. She has turned into you. She doesn’t give a damn. She doesn\u2019t answer your calls right away. She doesn\u2019t plan everything. She doesn\u2019t care that much.<\/p>\n
Ora \u00e8 una persona che conoscevate, ma ancora una volta \u00e8 una completa estranea. Vi ricordate come vi raccontava la sua giornata, cosa aveva fatto, cosa le era successo? Vi teneva sempre aggiornati perch\u00e9 ci teneva tanto da includervi nella sua vita.
Ora rimane in silenzio.<\/b> There are no more funny stories about her day. Now, you no longer know what happened to her. She doesn\u2019t want to share herself with you anymore.<\/p>\n
Poi inizia l'inferno.<\/b><\/p>\n
Torni indietro e ti rendi conto che quella ragazza vale mille scuse. Quella ragazza ha meritato di non muovere mai un dito per compiacerti.<\/p>\n
You realize how many times she could have been mad at you, but she let it go because she is like: \u201cEveryone makes mistakes…so what?\u201d<\/p>\n
Now you realize how much shit she had to put up with because you\u2019re no angel. You\u2019re not someone who has deserved her. You are a person with flaws like everyone else. You made thousands of mistakes, and she never pointed out any of them.<\/p>\n
She got over them, and she moved on loving you the same as before\u2014loving you, even though you\u2019ve hurt her.<\/p>\n
Ti rendi conto che ti manca.\u00a0 <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
Ma ti rendi conto che anche tu hai sbagliato.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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She will get over you. She will love again. If that bit of conscience left in you is wondering whether you scarred her for life, I\u2019ll tell you, you didn\u2019t.<\/p>\n
She\u2019ll hurt, and it\u2019s going to be painful. But, she\u2019ll heal.<\/p>\n
E un giorno incontrer\u00e0 un altro uomo. Lo amer\u00e0 e lo tratter\u00e0 proprio come ha trattato lei, ma questa volta quell'uomo sar\u00e0 consapevole di ci\u00f2 che ha mentre lo ha.<\/p>\n
That man won\u2019t take her for granted and realize he misses her only after she\u2019s gone.<\/p>\n
You\u2019ll even see them together. You\u2019ll see her laugh. You\u2019ll see her happy, and it will eat you alive. Your jealousy will become unbearable, but you had it coming.<\/p>\n
You could have been that man she\u2019s holding right now. You could have had everything with her by your side.<\/p>\n
Now, you don\u2019t have the right to miss her. You don\u2019t have the right to want her back.\u00a0<\/i><\/b>Hai solo il diritto di lasciarla andare.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n
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