{"id":39918,"date":"2019-07-05T10:17:20","date_gmt":"2019-07-05T10:17:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39918"},"modified":"2022-09-25T08:30:14","modified_gmt":"2022-09-25T08:30:14","slug":"5-modi-a-prova-di-bomba-per-tenere-i-narcisisti-fuori-dalla-vostra-vita","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/5-modi-a-prova-di-bomba-per-tenere-i-narcisisti-fuori-dalla-vostra-vita\/","title":{"rendered":"5 modi a prova di bomba per tenere i narcisisti fuori dalla vostra vita"},"content":{"rendered":"

Lasciatemi indovinare. L'ultima volta che vi siete trovati nella rete di un narcisista manipolatore, affascinante e controllante, vi siete ripromessi che sarebbe stata l'ultima volta. E lo pensavate davvero.<\/p>\r\n

Finch\u00e9 non \u00e8 successo quello successivo.<\/p>\r\n

Prima di rendersi conto di cosa l'avesse colpita e di essersi innamorata ancora una volta dello stesso uomo (solo in un corpo diverso), era quasi troppo tardi. Sei riuscita a uscire, ma per un pelo. Tuttavia, non se n'\u00e8 andata senza una cicatrice.<\/p>\r\n

Una cicatrice psicologica. Una cicatrice che vi perseguita ogni volta che ripensate a innamorarsi<\/span><\/a> di nuovo.<\/p>\r\n

One that hovers over your head every time you think you\u2019ve met a good man. One that doesn\u2019t let you let your guard down, because now, you\u2019re done with that. It\u2019s time for some new rules.<\/p>\r\n

I narcisisti fanno questo effetto.<\/p>\r\n

They will suck you dry and once they got everything they need out of you, they leave you broken, shallow and fragile \u2013 barely even a person. Once your narcissist leaves you, you are but a shadow of your former self.<\/p>\r\n

E se lo chiedete a me, quando \u00e8 troppo \u00e8 troppo. Per quanto tempo dovrete soffrire e fino a che punto gli \u00e8 permesso di spingersi nella loro malvagia ricerca? Purtroppo, ci sar\u00e0 sempre un prossimo stronzo narcisista l\u00e0 fuori, ma ci sono modi per assicurarsi di non cascarci mai pi\u00f9!<\/p>\r\n

Si pu\u00f2 credere di essere un magnete per<\/span><\/a> these manipulative and abusive control freaks, but I assure you \u2013 you\u2019re not!<\/p>\r\n

It feels that way because subconsciously you have a type. But once you realize that and start actively pursuing a completely different type of man, one that\u2019s GOOD for you, it will be easy to see that life can actually be beautiful again.<\/p>\r\n

So here are 5 killer ideas that will help you keep narcissists out of your life. And this time \u2013 for good!<\/p>\r\n

1. Attenzione agli uomini che esercitano una forte attrazione (quasi magnetica) su di voi fin dall'inizio.<\/h2>\r\n

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Avete presente quel tipo di chimica istantanea, forte, un po' spaventosa, un po' eccitante che si prova una volta ogni morte di papa con qualcuno? Quella che vi fa venire voglia di saltargli addosso proprio in quel momento?<\/p>\r\n

Ebbene, la prossima volta che provate questa rara sensazione e sentite un'attrazione estremamente seducente, CORRETE. Fermatevi immediatamente e non date seguito all'impulso. L'attrazione che questi uomini viziosi esercitano sulle donne \u00e8 tossica!<\/p>\r\n

Almost impossible to resist\u2026 but if you nip it in the bud before it evolves further, you\u2019re going to be okay. Don\u2019t let his animalistic, magnetic vibe pull you one inch closer. That\u2019s how it ALL starts.<\/p>\r\n

2. Go for the polar opposite of who you\u2019d normally consider dating<\/h2>\r\n

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One way to get rid of narcissists is to change it up. And I mean, pull a 180. If you go for charming, self-assured, highly successful men who are smooth as hell, stop. Perhaps it\u2019s time to consider giving the guy next door a chance.<\/p>\r\n

Quello che non sar\u00e0 George Clooney e non lavorer\u00e0 in uno dei migliori studi legali della citt\u00e0, ma che \u00e8 gentile, empatico e con intenzioni genuine.<\/p>\r\n

The one that always says \u201cHi\u201d when he sees you and offers to help carry your groceries. One that walks your dog when you\u2019re at work and who makes you feel calm and safe. Try him for a change, and see what happens.<\/p>\r\n

Correlato: Quando il narcisista vi vede con qualcun altro, continuate a camminare<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\r\n

3. Find a guy who doesn\u2019t conform, but rather paves his own way and ignores unimportant opinions<\/h2>\r\n

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Go for a guy who isn\u2019t afraid to go against the grain. Go for a guy who doesn\u2019t care what others think as long as he knows he\u2019s doing what\u2019s right for him.<\/p>\r\n

Find a man who can do his own thing and be proud of him for making a small difference. It\u2019s so easy following in other people\u2019s footsteps. But what\u2019s NOT easy is paving your own path to success. Respect any man who is brave enough to stick out in a crowd. It\u2019s not as easy as it may seem.<\/p>\r\n

He might be successful, he might not. But he is damn well trying and at the end of the day, that\u2019s all you can ask for. You live and you learn. And that\u2019s his main motto in life.<\/p>\r\n

4. State alla larga dai ragazzi che vi criticano in modo sottile, ma che riescono a farlo sembrare costruttivo.<\/h2>\r\n

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Nope, nope, and nope. You\u2019re a grown-ass woman and if you wanted to hear his opinion on every little thing you do, you\u2019d ask. I\u2019m guessing you rarely do, so stop tolerating it!<\/p>\r\n

You can dress however you choose, stay out for as long as you want, and pursue whatever passion makes you feel alive! Steer clear of guys who aren\u2019t okay with that, and realize that you deserve somebody who will encourage you, NOT demean you.<\/p>\r\n

However charming it may sound, it\u2019s toxic and it\u2019s only the beginning. So don\u2019t let happen again and leave the minute you realize your every move is under a microscope. You\u2019ll thank me later.<\/p>\r\n

5. Scegliere il ragazzo con una mentalit\u00e0 e valori di vita simili<\/h2>\r\n

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Who has time to try to change anyone these days? If you\u2019re with someone who is simply not what you\u2019re looking for in the long run, leave. If your man is a narcissistic egomaniac who is trying to make you into someone you\u2019re not, leave.<\/p>\r\n

Find a guy who shares similar values. Find a guy you think would make a good father one day. Find a guy who appreciates the little things in life, and doesn\u2019t sweat the small stuff. And trust me, you\u2019ll know what I\u2019m talking about once you meet that guy.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t <\/span>perdere tempo<\/span><\/a> on somebody who likes to play God. If you feel a weird vibe around him, that\u2019s your gut telling you to flee. Trust it and move on. It\u2019s not worth it staying with someone who only likes half of you, when there are tons of guys out there who would LOVE you in all of your entirety.<\/p>\r\n

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