{"id":39942,"date":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","date_gmt":"2019-07-08T07:54:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=39942"},"modified":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","modified_gmt":"2022-07-06T09:34:25","slug":"se-hai-paura-di-chiedere-a-un-ragazzo-queste-10-cose-non-dovresti-stare-con-lui","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-hai-paura-di-chiedere-a-un-ragazzo-queste-10-cose-non-dovresti-stare-con-lui\/","title":{"rendered":"Se hai paura di chiedere a un ragazzo queste 10 cose, non dovresti stare con lui"},"content":{"rendered":"

So, you\u2019re really into that one guy you find special and you think he\u2019s the right one for you, but you\u2019re still a bit cautious because you don\u2019t want to fuck things up. And you shouldn\u2019t be alarmed \u2013 this is completely normal.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

After all, if you\u2019re really meant to be, your decisions won\u2019t push him away from you, but bring him even closer!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, stop looking for excuses only to validate his behavior. If you\u2019re paura di chiedere a un ragazzo<\/a> for these 10 things, then you know you definitely shouldn\u2019t be with him!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedi anche: Ecco come sapere che \u00e8 ora di voltare pagina, in base al vostro zodiaco<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. L'impegno<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Molti ragazzi l\u00e0 fuori sono o giocatori o fobici dell'impegno.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And what makes the situation even more difficult is that you can seldom predict if he\u2019s a player or he has commitment issues.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, you keep dating not knowing what\u2019s next, and when it happens, it happens too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedete, l'impegno \u00e8 qualcosa che non si deve mai avere paura di chiedere e se lo si fa significa che he\u2019s not the right one for you<\/a>. Perch\u00e9?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Because if he\u2019s ready to be with you and if he really wants to be with you, he would have never let you question his intentions.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Si assicurerebbe di farvi diventare sua e solo sua.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Aspettare il sesso<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Remember that any guy who pushes you into doing something you\u2019re not comfortable with, is not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid that he will turn his back and abandon you when you tell him that you need some time before getting intimate, then you know you\u2019re better off without him anyway.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi meritate qualcuno che apprezzi voi e il vostro corpo, e non pensi solo a se stesso.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Un futuro<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Are you looking for someone to build a future with? Then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to say so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re not interested in casual romances and you\u2019re afraid that this might turn him off, you should run as far as you can from him.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If he\u2019s subconsciously forcing you to do something only to keep him, it means he\u2019s a dirty player<\/a> e tu dovresti essere pi\u00f9 saggio!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Meritate di costruire un futuro con una persona che lo desideri quanto voi, e nient'altro deve avere importanza per voi.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Farvi diventare la sua priorit\u00e0<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you feel like everything and everyone is more important to him than you, then you shouldn\u2019t be afraid to tell him so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re not his toy and you\u2019re not there to fulfill his every wish. You\u2019re a human being and you deserve to be put on his priority list.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he\u2019s unwilling to do so, then you shouldn\u2019t beg for it either.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If making you his priority doesn\u2019t come natural to him and he doesn\u2019t even consider it despite your complaints about it, it means he\u2019s too off and definitely no good for you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. La monogamia<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Alcune donne si sentono a proprio agio con il concetto di relazione aperta, in cui si esce con pi\u00f9 persone contemporaneamente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if you\u2019re not of them, that\u2019s nothing you should be ashamed of.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you want to be in a monogamous relationship, you should say so \u2013 it is your right and you should always listen to your inner voice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You shouldn\u2019t discard your feelings and go against your values only to appease his ego.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to tell him for fear that he will head for the hills, then you know he\u2019s not the one for you and you should move on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Le scuse<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019ve just started dating or already been in a relationship for some time, there will always be some situations where you will say something insulting or something you didn\u2019t really mean.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ci saranno sempre situazioni in cui vi farete del male a vicenda, e scusarsi per questo \u00e8 d'obbligo se volete continuare a costruire un rapporto di fiducia. relazione felice e sana.<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

But, if he doesn\u2019t apologize and you\u2019re too scared to ask him to do so, you know you\u2019re with the wrong man.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Non deve mai dare per scontata la vostra felicit\u00e0 e il vostro rispetto. E il solo fatto che dobbiate chiedergli scusa \u00e8 gi\u00e0 di per s\u00e9 sufficiente.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. I bambini<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se in futuro desiderate avere dei figli, dovete essere liberi di dirlo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if he doesn\u2019t agree with your decision and he can\u2019t promise you that he would want to become a parent one day, then you know what to do.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Decidere di avere o meno dei figli \u00e8 una cosa importante e non dovreste mai compromettere i vostri desideri solo perch\u00e9 temete di perderlo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you choose to stay with him even though you know that he\u2019ll never want to become a parent, you\u2019re deliberately depriving yourself of happiness.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Il perdono<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You said something you didn\u2019t really mean and you\u2019re genuinely sorry for it, but you\u2019re afraid to seek forgiveness because you think you will be rejected.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Nessuna persona dovrebbe mai temere di chiedere perdono quando \u00e8 sinceramente dispiaciuta (soprattutto se non \u00e8 un grosso problema e soprattutto se lo avete perdonato pi\u00f9 volte finora).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to ask for forgiveness, it means he\u2019s definitely not worthy of you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Rispetto<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il rispetto \u00e8 un nostro diritto umano fin dalla nascita e non dovreste mai pensare di rimanere in silenzio di fronte a qualsiasi tipo di mancanza di rispetto o maltrattamento.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you\u2019re afraid to speak your mind and tell him that you deserve better conduct and respect from him, it means he\u2019s in a way emotionally abusing you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And you definitely shouldn\u2019t accept such treatment in return!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedi anche: 7 modi per proteggersi dagli abusi emotivi<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

10. Sforzo<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
\"Se<\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se \u00e8 evidente che vi sta dando per scontate e non fa mai nulla per farti sentire speciale<\/a>, it means he\u2019s a selfish and egocentric low-effort prick.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And if you\u2019re afraid to acknowledge it to his face, it means he\u2019s even bigger prick and you should make a run for it ASAP.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ricordate che real men don\u2019t make excuses \u2013 they make an effort<\/a> senza che voi dobbiate chiedere loro di farlo.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I veri uomini non vi faranno mai dubitare delle loro intenzioni e non vi faranno mai sentire meno importanti; la loro priorit\u00e0 numero uno \u00e8 la vostra felicit\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quindi, aspettate un uomo che vi mostri il vero significato di fare uno sforzo e che non vi deluda mai, qualunque cosa accada!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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