{"id":40119,"date":"2019-07-10T06:58:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T06:58:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40119"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:43:10","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:43:10","slug":"perche-lui-e-la-tua-priorita-quando-tu-sei-la-sua-opzione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/perche-lui-e-la-tua-priorita-quando-tu-sei-la-sua-opzione\/","title":{"rendered":"Perch\u00e9 lui \u00e8 la vostra priorit\u00e0 quando voi siete la sua opzione?"},"content":{"rendered":"

In every relationship, it\u2019s important to feel important. It\u2019s important to be someone\u2019s priority, someone\u2019s first choice, someone\u2019s everything. It\u2019s what makes you special, different from everyone else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But you\u2019re here reading this text because that is exactly the opposite of what you feel like in your relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He is ignoring you, he\u2019s ignoring your calls and your texts. When you need him, he\u2019s nowhere to be found, but he appears when he feels like it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, you see, this is not how a person who sincerely loves you will treat you. So, why on earth would you make him a priority when you\u2019re clearly nothing but an option?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you think this isn\u2019t bothering you, it will in the future. Men like him never change for the better, if that\u2019s what you\u2019re thinking. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gli uomini come lui non hanno mai un'epifania e iniziano improvvisamente a preoccuparsi di qualcuno che non sia loro.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Face it, even though you\u2019re making him your priority, he will always keep you as just an option.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t let this realization hit you when it\u2019s too late. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you find yourself in a situation where you\u2019re asking yourself what it is that you did wrong, then \u2013 I hate to break it to you \u2013 it\u2019s already too late.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

He\u2019s already got you in his web and you\u2019ve fallen for him hopelessly, making yourself his love prisoner. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

With him not caring enough for you and you madly in love with him, you\u2019re in the saddest relationship of your life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the hardest thing is that you want to break free because your mind is telling you that this relationship is unhealthy for you, but your heart is telling you to give him another chance because of the simplest yet most complicated thing ever \u2013 because you love him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

His behavior won\u2019t have any excuses, but you\u2019ll keep making them up for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

No one else has the slightest idea why you\u2019re doing this, why you\u2019re putting up with him, because you clearly deserve so much better than him. Only you will believe the excuses you\u2019re making for him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Per amore e rispetto di voi stessi, uscite da quella relazione. Nessuno dice che sar\u00e0 facile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re led by your emotions and you\u2019re justifying and prolonging the relationship by doing so unconsciously.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even though deep down you know there is no happiness with that man, you\u2019re still in denial, desperately hoping for something to change.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Perch\u00e9<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Non diventerete mai una priorit\u00e0. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You are only a priority when you\u2019re having sex and when he needs sex. But even sex gets old after a while. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

What will inevitably happen is you\u2019ll become uninteresting and he\u2019ll find someone else to take your place. That\u2019s what options are for.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La vostra relazione non sar\u00e0 mai come la volete voi.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now you\u2019re wondering: how is that possible? You\u2019re wondering if I\u2019m lying because he has his moments when he\u2019s kind to you, when he makes you laugh, when he calls you to do things together. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But think it all through again\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re only doing stuff when he feels like doing it. He only calls you when he has no one else to call, right? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ogni volta che gli proponi qualcosa, ti rifiuta perch\u00e9 ha programmi migliori. Non cancella mai quei piani, ma ti abbandona sempre.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, why are you making him a priority when you\u2019re just an option to him?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The relationship you\u2019re dreaming about will never happen with him. Stop making him your priority when you can find someone who will make you his, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovete imparare a dire quello che pensate, dovete pretendere quello che volete. Smettete di fare questo gioco che fanno tutti gli uomini. Smettete di permettere loro di pensare di farla franca.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t ask them right away to tell you what they want, they will string you along for as long as they can. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Il risultato finale di questo viaggio tortuoso \u00e8 che tu finisci con il cuore spezzato e lui passa alla prossima ragazza vulnerabile.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Sei una donna bellissima e forte. Meriti tutto ci\u00f2 che vuoi!<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Never stop when you reach a satisfactory level. You’re undermining yourself. You deserve to have anything you want and if you don\u2019t stop at \u201cjust fine,\u201d you\u2019ll get it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t believe it’s going to be an easy road to take. You\u2019re going to be tested at all stops you make along the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just make sure you don\u2019t keep yourself at one stop for too long, because you may get stuck there.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Come se si potesse rimanere bloccati con questo ragazzo, solo come opzione e nient'altro, mai.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I know that we all say this and I know you\u2019re probably tired of hearing the same thing all over again, but it\u2019s true. Don\u2019t settle for less than you deserve because there is someone out there worthy of your love.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

L\u00e0 fuori c'\u00e8 una persona che vi amer\u00e0, vi rispetter\u00e0, vi far\u00e0 ridere, vi amer\u00e0 e vi metter\u00e0 sempre al primo posto. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non perch\u00e9 sente di doverlo fare, ma perch\u00e9 lo vuole.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You won\u2019t have to beg for his attention. You won\u2019t have to chase him to convince him to notice you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But first, you must believe in your heart that you\u2019re worth everything he\u2019s not giving you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Then you\u2019ll find the one who will be everything he is not. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Perch\u00e9<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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