{"id":40130,"date":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","date_gmt":"2019-07-10T07:45:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40130"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:42:31","slug":"non-e-cattivo-nel-mandare-i-messaggi-o-e-pigro-o-non-e-cosi-interessato-a-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/non-e-cattivo-nel-mandare-i-messaggi-o-e-pigro-o-non-e-cosi-interessato-a-te\/","title":{"rendered":"Non \u00e8 \"cattivo a mandare messaggi\", o \u00e8 pigro o non \u00e8 cos\u00ec interessato a te"},"content":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In questo modo, ho sprecato troppo tempo e ho sopportato un mondo di dolore per una persona indegna. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I knew the truth deep down: he was just another selfish prick who has no other agenda other than doing what\u2019s convenient for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, giustificavo il suo comportamento perch\u00e9 volevo tanto fidarmi di lui. Ricordo di aver pensato che gli sms non sono cos\u00ec importanti, ci sono altre cose pi\u00f9 importanti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But it is important. Texting, messaging, snapchatting, calling \u2013 they are all ways of keeping in touch. They are all small ways to dimostrare a qualcuno quanto ci tenete<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ci vuole cos\u00ec poco tempo per mandare un messaggio a qualcuno, eppure significa molto per chi aspetta quel messaggio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allora perch\u00e9 deve essere tutto cos\u00ec complicato quando si tratta di semplici messaggi di testo? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Non<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Along with being lazy and uninterested, there might be one more reason for them not texting \u2013 they\u2019re playing games. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Non iniziando a mandare messaggi, ritardando le risposte o rispondendo in ritardo, vogliono sembrare irraggiungibili per farsi inseguire. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps they are counting on women to want what they can\u2019t easily have. Which is true \u2013 to a point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But somebody should tell them that women also don\u2019t appreciate someone messing with their heads. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you don\u2019t like that either, simply don\u2019t play along. It will just come out to bite you in the end. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Don\u2019t fall for the \u201cbad texter\u201d  excuse. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI am not into texting,\u201d and all the varieties of that excuse are lame. A decade ago, this could pass as a solid excuse, but today it\u2019s just ridiculous. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gli SMS sono una delle forme di comunicazione pi\u00f9 semplici al giorno d'oggi e ogni persona adulta che dice di essere una pessima messaggera dovrebbe vergognarsi all'istante. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ha ricevuto il tuo messaggio. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nell'era moderna, una cosa \u00e8 certa: ha ricevuto il vostro messaggio. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Unless his phone is powered off, stolen, lost, broken, or drowning in his toilet bowl, they\u2019ve surely already read your text. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

There is no need for a follow-up text, because that\u2019s never a good idea and it just makes you look desperate. He doesn\u2019t need that ego boost. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Naturally, if your text came at some inconvenient hour \u2013 for instance, when he\u2019s sleeping \u2013 he can\u2019t respond immediately. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Still, he should send you a reply as soon as he can. It’s a basic form of respect. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You know how the \u201cI\u2019ve been busy\u201d story goes. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

You don\u2019t need to hear it again. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

He will say that he was super busy and didn\u2019t have time to reply (till the next day),  he didn\u2019t checked in because he was swamped at work, and all the excuses in between. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Andiamo, nessuno \u00e8 cos\u00ec impegnato. Penso che la persona pi\u00f9 impegnata del mondo dedichi un momento del suo tempo a mandare un messaggio all'altra persona. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"\"<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

It\u2019s all a matter of priorities. It\u2019s all about how much someone cares for you. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

La brutta verit\u00e0 che nessuno vuole sentire \u00e8 la seguente: <\/em>Se gli importasse davvero, manderebbe un messaggio. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anche se \u00e8 il peggior messaggero del mondo, farebbe uno sforzo. Chiamerebbe. Troverebbe il tempo di vedervi pi\u00f9 spesso. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Farebbe l'impossibile prima di dire che non \u00e8 bravo a mandare messaggi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tutto il resto \u00e8 una scusa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Siate onesti con voi stessi e risparmiatevi un sacco di dolore e delusioni in seguito. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the reason he is supposedly \u201cbad at texting\u201d is lack of his interest in you, then it\u2019s pretty clear that you should try your luck somewhere else because with him there will be none. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Probabilmente sta giocando e tenerti in panchina<\/a> messaggiando solo occasionalmente. Se era interessato a qualcosa di pi\u00f9, mandava messaggi almeno una volta al giorno. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Anche se \u00e8 troppo pigro per mandare messaggi, non vale comunque la pena dedicargli del tempo. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

If he is unable to do the bare minimum \u2013 like texting you goodnight or good morning \u2013 right from the start, imagine how bad things are going to be later. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quindi, confido nel fatto che la prossima volta che incontrerete qualcuno che dice di essere un pessimo messaggero, saprete fare di meglio e vi girerete dall'altra parte. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Because a man who doesn\u2019t make an effort isn\u2019t worth of yours either. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Non<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

If I could go back to that moment he first used the \u201cI\u2019m bad at texting\u201d excuse, I would slap myself out of that romantic daydream ASAP and see him for who he is right then and there.  This way, I wasted too much of my time and endured a world of pain for somebody…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":34,"featured_media":40133,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29650],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-girl-code"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29650,"label":"girl code"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_617234354.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Inna Williams","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/inna\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29650,"name":"girl code","slug":"girl-code","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29650,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","parent":29643,"count":41,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29650,"category_count":41,"category_description":"Only girls will understand these unedited truths about men and girl code rules. Join us at the girl cave, where no guy is allowed to enter.","cat_name":"girl code","category_nicename":"girl-code","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/34"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40130"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40130\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40133"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}