{"id":40174,"date":"2020-08-10T10:39:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-10T10:39:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40174"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:08:02","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:08:02","slug":"7-motivi-per-cui-si-e-impegnato-con-unaltra-ragazza-dopo-essere-stato-occasionale-con-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-motivi-per-cui-si-e-impegnato-con-unaltra-ragazza-dopo-essere-stato-occasionale-con-te\/","title":{"rendered":"7 motivi per cui si \u00e8 impegnato con un'altra ragazza dopo essere stato occasionale con te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sono sicuro che conoscete la famosa frase: \"Non c'\u00e8 niente che non va in te, sono io\".<\/p>\n

In effetti, \u00e8 successo a me e anche ad alcune mie amiche, che hanno frequentato un ragazzo per qualche settimana e tutto sembrava perfetto.<\/p>\n

Erano sicuri al cento per cento che avrebbero stabilito una struttura sana, relazione impegnata<\/span><\/a> (proprio come me).<\/p>\n

And then, all of a sudden, the guy told them that he didn\u2019t want anything serious. To be more specific, the guy told them that he was NOT INTERESTED in anything serious.<\/p>\n

Lord knows when someone tells me this, I instantly withdraw and respect their opinion because I\u2019m definitely not desperate and neither are my friends. But what happened next is what actually caught my attention.<\/p>\n

Non molto tempo dopo aver detto di non essere interessati a nulla di serio, ognuno di loro aveva una relazione seria e impegnata. Oh, che ironia!<\/p>\n

All'inizio il mio unico desiderio era quello di cancellare tutta la specie maschile dal pianeta, ma poi ho trovato una soluzione pi\u00f9 razionale.<\/p>\n

Since there\u2019s no point in holding grudges forever, my friends and I decided to look at things from a different perspective.<\/p>\n

We tried to understand and explain this phenomenon of the guy \u2018who wants something casual\u2019 but then commits to the next girl and if you\u2019re going through the same, here are 7 possible reasons why he committed to another girl after going casual with you!<\/p>\n

He does want commitment, he just doesn\u2019t want it with you<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

I know it sounds harsh but sometimes it\u2019s the truth. Many guys out there really do want commitment but with the right one. Now, what does this mean?<\/p>\n

This definitely doesn\u2019t mean that there is something wrong with you or that you should have changed for him only to make him commit to you. No.<\/p>\n

It means you just weren\u2019t meant to be together and there\u2019s no point in blaming him for committing to the next girl.<\/p>\n

In realt\u00e0, dovreste ringraziarlo per non essersi impegnato con voi, perch\u00e9 vi ha appena risparmiato un sacco di ansia e vi ha evitato un cuore spezzato ancora pi\u00f9 doloroso.<\/p>\n

Non ha idea di cosa vuole<\/h2>\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\n

And there\u2019s this other category of guys who have no idea what they really want. To me, personally, this is the worst one.<\/p>\n

Quando un ragazzo non ha idea di cosa vuole, con chi lo vuole, quando o come, le probabilit\u00e0 che mandi tutto all'aria sono davvero alte.<\/p>\n

Per non parlare del fatto che l'indecisione \u00e8 un'enorme fregatura per qualsiasi donna. Quindi, se un giorno vi ha detto una cosa e il giorno dopo un'altra, sapete che non aveva idea di cosa volesse davvero (e potete lodare il Signore se se n'\u00e8 andato).<\/p>\n

E anche se decidesse di impegnarsi con voi, probabilmente cambierebbe presto idea e ripeterebbe sempre gli stessi scenari. Insomma, chi ha bisogno di questo nella propria vita? Esattamente nessuno.<\/p>\n

Stava gi\u00e0 frequentando un'altra persona<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

Here\u2019s an interesting one. There are some guys who, due to being indecisive or just due to being the ultimate assholes, choose to date two girls simultaneously (of course, without telling them this). You can probably guess the rest of the scenario.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 uscito con entrambe e all'improvviso si \u00e8 reso conto che gli piaceva di pi\u00f9 l'altra ragazza, cos\u00ec ha deciso di impegnarsi con lei e di abbandonare te.<\/p>\n

Ah, il mondo in cui viviamo. Si pu\u00f2 anche interpretare questo come la sua indisponibilit\u00e0 a ferire i tuoi sentimenti<\/span><\/a> o la sua riluttanza a farsi cogliere in flagrante. Scegliete voi.<\/p>\n

Era solo il momento sbagliato<\/h2>\n

\"il<\/p>\n

E poi a volte le cose vanno davvero bene, ma il momento non \u00e8 quello giusto. Forse \u00e8 successo qualcosa nella sua vita che ha cambiato la sua prospettiva sulle relazioni nel periodo in cui stava con te. E quando ha incontrato l'altra ragazza, il momento era giusto.<\/p>\n

Again, I would link this one with the first one that says you just weren\u2019t meant to be. After all, when two people are bound to be together, there is just no wrong time.<\/p>\n

E se \u00e8 sbagliato, si incontreranno sicuramente di nuovo quando sar\u00e0 il momento giusto. Se guardiamo le cose in questo modo, sembra abbastanza ragionevole.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s facing external pressure<\/h2>\n

\"un<\/p>\n

Believe it or not, sometimes guys are facing external pressure from their friends or family. Sometimes the people close to them don\u2019t really like the girl they are dating, so they feel pressured to quit things.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve noticed that any of this was going on, then this could be the reason why he committed to another girl after going casual with you.<\/p>\n

Again, if this is the reason why he did that, it only shows his weakness and fickleness. It means he doesn\u2019t trust himself and he dances to other people\u2019s tunes.<\/p>\n

Now, I\u2019m not saying that he should never listen to his friends and family no matter what. Indeed he should but he should also listen to himself as well and that is the main characteristic of real men.<\/p>\n

Le sue associazioni con l'impegno sono cambiate dopo avervi perso<\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

When you mention the word \u2018commitment\u2019 to any guy, he will see it as something imprisoning. Boys and young men are encouraged to have fun, explore the world and only after to settle down to commit.<\/p>\n

And if the guy you were dating didn\u2019t go through any of this, he will feel imprisoned with you and he will tell you that he is not interested in or ready for anything serious.<\/p>\n

And after he\u2019s had his fun and explored the world, his associations with commitment will change. So, when he meets the next suitable girl, he will choose to commit to her because he feels he\u2019s finally ready for it.<\/p>\n

He really didn\u2019t want commitment but the right one came along<\/h2>\n

\"una<\/p>\n

And the last but not the least. There are some guys who really didn\u2019t want commitment, not with you or with any others but somehow the right one came along after you.<\/p>\n

If this is the case, you can\u2019t really blame him because he was consistent in his decision that he didn\u2019t want commitment but then he was kind of forced to change his mind because he finally met the right one.<\/p>\n

And I can assure you that the same will happen to you sooner than you think and you will be happy that things didn\u2019t work out with the guy who refused to commit.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/b> 7 cose che proverete quando incontrerete la persona giusta<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n

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