{"id":40195,"date":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","date_gmt":"2020-11-10T12:17:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40195"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:40:25","slug":"7-argomenti-che-segnalano-linizio-della-fine","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/7-argomenti-che-segnalano-linizio-della-fine\/","title":{"rendered":"7 argomentazioni che segnalano l'inizio della fine"},"content":{"rendered":"

In ogni relazione ci saranno prove e tribolazioni, e quelle sane sono in grado di sopportarle tutte. I litigi fanno parte della vita e una dose normale \u00e8 perfettamente normale e prevista.<\/p>\r\n

God knows that I\u2019ve had my fair share of arguments with il mio uomo<\/a>, but I actually believe that it only brings us closer. Because if we didn\u2019t fight, ever\u2026 how would I even know he cared enough about me to fight for me?<\/p>\r\n

It is general knowledge that when a person is indifferent, they don\u2019t feel like fighting and just let the other person win. But the opposite means that you actually care deeply for one another.<\/p>\r\n

Ora, avere una discussione occasionale va benissimo. Ma certi tipi di discussioni, il loro volume e la loro frequenza possono essere il segnale che la fine \u00e8 vicina.<\/p>\r\n

There are some things that are worth fighting over, and some that are beyond any argument. And if you and your man engage in any of the following 7 types of arguments, I\u2019m sorry to say this, but it is possible that it is the beginning of your end.<\/p>\r\n

Scopritelo con certezza e, se possibile, apportate qualche modifica prima che vi costi la vostra relazione<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Ecco 7 tipi di litigi che sono dei veri e propri campanelli d'allarme per la vostra relazione.<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti in merito agli obiettivi e alle aspirazioni di vita<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"la<\/p>\r\n

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If you and your man simply aren\u2019t in sync when it comes to this serious issue, you\u2019ve got a problem on your hands.<\/p>\r\n

Le relazioni a lungo termine si basano sul rispetto reciproco e sulla capacit\u00e0 di scendere a compromessi.<\/p>\r\n

But if you two just can\u2019t see eye-to-eye on things such as where you\u2019re going to live, what you\u2019re going to do with your life, and where you see yourselves in 5 years time, perhaps you\u2019re only postponing the inevitable.<\/p>\r\n

Guardando al futuro, dovreste essere d'accordo su questi temi e il vostro futuro dovrebbe includere senza dubbio l'altro.<\/p>\r\n

But if you\u2019re unsure about what that is and what it means for the both of you, it\u2019s not looking good.<\/p>\r\n

Litigi sulla vostra vita sessuale<\/h2>\r\n

\"l'uomo<\/p>\r\n

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Quello che succede tra le lenzuola \u00e8 solo affar vostro. Nessuno pu\u00f2 dirvi cosa vi deve piacere o non piacere e cosa dovete sopportare.<\/p>\r\n

\u00c8 una vostra prerogativa, che non dovreste mai sacrificare per nessuno.<\/p>\r\n

If your man likes to have sex in a way that doesn\u2019t suit you, that\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

If your man pressures you into having sex when you\u2019re not into it, that\u2019s also problematic.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t enjoy being intimate with him due to all of these issues, you shouldn\u2019t put up with it.<\/p>\r\n

You have to be able to be open and honest when it comes to sex. If you are unhappy and can\u2019t really work it out no matter how hard you try, maybe you\u2019re not with the right person after all.<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti sul fatto che un partner debba cambiare per l'altro<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n

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Quante volte avete cercato di cambiare qualcosa di un'altra persona e quante volte ci siete riusciti?<\/p>\r\n

I think I already know the answer. People are who they are, period. If you want to change them, you don\u2019t really deserve them.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t accept your man for who he is and vice versa, why don\u2019t you just find someone who actually works for you?<\/p>\r\n

Instead of changing the person you\u2019re with, leave them be, and find somebody you won\u2019t want to change. It\u2019s that simple!<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti dove devi sempre avere l'ultima parola<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"la<\/p>\r\n

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Il litigio in una relazione non dovrebbe mai riguardare la vittoria. Non dovrebbe mai riguardare il fatto di avere ragione o torto.<\/p>\r\n

It should be a way to find a common ground that you\u2019re BOTH okay with.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re using these arguments simply to have the last word and you keep tabs on who\u2019s right or wrong, you\u2019re in it for all the wrong reasons.<\/p>\r\n

Pensateci. Il benessere della vostra relazione dovrebbe SEMPRE essere la vostra priorit\u00e0<\/a> – non<\/em> avere ragione o avere l'ultima risata.<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti sulle vostre finanze<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n\r\n

You should have a system where you both contribute and nobody feels like they\u2019re being used or taken advantage of.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019re not okay with how much money is spent on certain things, you need to speak up.<\/p>\r\n

If you keep fighting about money and how you spend it, it\u2019s not going to change unless you have a mature conversation about it and make adjustments that work for the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

If you can\u2019t find a way that makes you happy, it\u2019s a problem.<\/p>\r\n

Le finanze sono una parte importante delle relazioni e le vostre abitudini di spesa devono essere concordate. Qualsiasi altra cosa \u00e8 l'inizio di una fine molto disordinata.<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti la stessa cosa in un ciclo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n\r\n

When you keep fighting about the very same thing over and over again, I think you already know it\u2019s a red flag.<\/p>\r\n

Not being able to find a compromise you\u2019re both fine with is a problem. Right now it might be a minor argument that doesn\u2019t seem so serious.<\/p>\r\n

But over time and as your relationship progresses, it\u2019s only going to get worse.<\/p>\r\n

Either get your affairs in order or accept that it\u2019s just not worth it being with someone you can\u2019t find middle ground with.<\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s hurting you both, and it\u2019s unfair to the both of you.<\/p>\r\n

Argomenti sul fatto che l'altra persona non faccia alcuno sforzo<\/strong><\/h2>\r\n

\"un<\/p>\r\n

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If your spark is dying and you feel your partner can\u2019t be bothered, it doesn\u2019t seem like the fairy-tale ending you always wished for.<\/p>\r\n

E se il vostro partner ha un problema con l'impegno che mettete per far funzionare la cosa, \u00e8 un altro cattivo segno.<\/p>\r\n

You should never feel like your partner doesn\u2019t care enough to make you feel special, and vice versa.<\/p>\r\n

Naturalmente ci saranno macchie ruvide<\/a>ma le relazioni che ne valgono la pena ritrovano sempre la scintilla. Pensateci.<\/p>\r\n

State davvero cercando di portare avanti questa storia o vi siete entrambi segretamente arresi e avete paura di ammetterlo?<\/p>\r\n

The sooner you accept reality, the sooner you\u2019re going to feel like the weight of the world has fallen off your shoulders.<\/p>\r\n

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