{"id":40244,"date":"2020-07-11T08:02:30","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T08:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40244"},"modified":"2022-01-05T15:32:34","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T15:32:34","slug":"8-cose-schifose-che-gli-uomini-fanno-quando-vogliono-lasciarvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-cose-schifose-che-gli-uomini-fanno-quando-vogliono-lasciarvi\/","title":{"rendered":"8 cose schifose che gli uomini fanno quando vogliono lasciarti"},"content":{"rendered":"

Innamorarsi<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 la parte pi\u00f9 facile. Ma quando il gioco si fa duro e bisogna far emergere alcune crude verit\u00e0, gli uomini ricorrono a modi schifosi per farvi sapere che vogliono uscirne.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you. Some men start acting really shitty when they want to break up but don\u2019t have the balls to tell you (or send you a messaggio di testo di rottura<\/a>). <\/p>\n

La loro mente \u00e8 decisa a lasciarsi, quindi iniziano a comportarsi come un perfetto estraneo e a prendere le distanze per far s\u00ec che tu lo faccia al posto loro.<\/p>\n

They are cowards and, instead of facing you with their honest feelings, they will resort to these 8 shitty things to subtly let you know they\u2019re no longer into you.<\/p>\n

Dare la colpa a voi quando si tratta della tensione della vostra relazione<\/h2>\n

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Things have taken a turn for the worse and it\u2019s clear who\u2019s to blame here. But no, Mr. Perfect isn\u2019t capable of taking any blame for his really crappy actions, so he just points fingers instead.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s the one who complete distanced himself from you, but he starts accusing you of doing the same. He\u2019s the one who has suddenly become secretive and evasive, but he insists you\u2019re the one who\u2019s keeping things from him.<\/p>\n

Whatever shitty thing he does, he just tries to pin it on you. He\u2019s got no balls to at least be genuine and real with you, so he resorts to the lowest of lows.<\/p>\n

Vi d\u00e0 della pazza quando lo chiamate in causa per il suo comportamento.<\/h2>\n

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This is just the easiest way out. Instead of accepting his role in this shitshow, he calls you crazy for suggesting he\u2019s doing anything wrong. When men don\u2019t want to stick around, this is the easiest thing to do.<\/p>\n

Insultarvi e non usare mezzi termini \u00e8 il suo modo di dirvi di sollevarlo dall'incarico di fidanzato. Il suo piede \u00e8 gi\u00e0 a met\u00e0 strada dalla porta, quindi rendetegliela facile e dire addio<\/span>. You don\u2019t need an immature boy anyway!<\/p>\n

He starts whining whenever he\u2019s not okay with something<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che gli uomini amano essere dolci e teneri con le loro ragazze. Amano farle sentire coccolate e speciali. E lo fanno meritatamente!<\/p>\n

But when a guy has no problem whining and complaining around you, he\u2019s clearly no longer trying to win you over.<\/p>\n

Yeah, it\u2019s really sad and unfortunate (because you deserve someone who\u2019ll treat you like the queen you are), but it\u2019s also a blessing in disguise.<\/p>\n

In pratica non gli importa pi\u00f9 di comportarsi in modo gentile e simpatico con voi, quindi potete cacciarlo via e concentrarvi su ci\u00f2 che conta davvero.<\/p>\n

Fa progetti con i suoi amici senza nemmeno dirvelo.<\/h2>\n

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He goes out as much as he wants and for as long as he wants, regardless of you knowing about it or not. He doesn\u2019t tell you about his plans and he doesn\u2019t text you when he\u2019s out.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s just off doing his own thing and you\u2019re not sure what the hell is going on anymore. To you, he\u2019s still il tuo ragazzo<\/span><\/a>, but to him, it\u2019s no longer the case.<\/p>\n

He wants out of the relationship and that\u2019s why he\u2019s acting like he\u2019s a single dude. That\u2019s what he aspires to be and that\u2019s why he no longer informs you of his plans. In his head, you\u2019re no longer his girl.<\/p>\n

Vi promette qualcosa e poi si rimangia la promessa.<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

He has become a huge disappointment. You make plans that you\u2019re really excited about, and then he cancels last minute. No explanation, no real reason, it\u2019s just no longer happening.<\/p>\n

He tells you he\u2019s going to pick up your dry cleaning or get you lunch on his way over, but he never does. His word no longer means anything and he doesn\u2019t even care to explain himself.<\/p>\n

In his head, you\u2019re not going to be his girlfriend for much longer, so there\u2019s no point being a good boyfriend anymore. He doesn\u2019t try anymore and it\u2019s really showing.<\/p>\n

Mette fine a tutte le conversazioni sul futuro.<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

Se anche solo si pensa di parlare di matrimonio e figli, lui rifiuta. Pensa che il matrimonio faccia schifo e non ha assolutamente chiaro cosa vuole per il suo futuro.<\/p>\n

Si rifiuta di dire qualcosa di concreto e si capisce che il solo pensiero di parlarne lo mette in ansia. Improvvisamente, l'uomo di cui ti sei innamorata innamorato di<\/span><\/a> \u00e8 l'ombra di se stesso.<\/p>\n

This guy is just trying to find a way to escape commitment and he doesn\u2019t care how shitty it makes him look.<\/p>\n

Flirta apertamente con altre ragazze in pubblico<\/h2>\n

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He\u2019s not even trying to hide it or deny it. He smiles at every hot girl that passes him by and even talks them up on occasion. Sure, he totally downplays it and might even claim he\u2019s just being friendly, but you know that\u2019s a lie.<\/p>\n

Sta cercando di farvi capire quanto sia un pessimo fidanzato per farvi lasciare. Vuole che non vi piaccia a tal punto da chiedervi che cosa avete mai visto in lui.<\/p>\n

Ci mette una vita a rispondere ai tuoi messaggi e non ti chiama quasi pi\u00f9.<\/h2>\n

\"\"<\/p>\n

At this point, it\u2019s really obvious what this means. A guy who loves you, wants to be with you, and appreciates you, answers your texts. He also calls you and makes sure to text you during the day as well.<\/p>\n

But his guy has become a ghost. You can feel him slipping away text by text, missed call by missed call. Every day, you realize it a bit more, you just don\u2019t want to admit it to yourself.<\/p>\n

Tesoro, non \u00e8 altro che una perdita di tempo. Lascia questo idiota immaturo a qualcuno del suo livello e vai a cercare un ragazzo che ti rispetti abbastanza da dirti quello che prova direttamente in faccia.<\/p>\n

Nobody can guarantee you it\u2019s going to be perfect, but it sure as hell can\u2019t get more petty than this.<\/p>\n

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Falling in love is the easy part. But when the going gets tough, and some harsh truths need to be let out, men resort to crappy ways to let you know they want out. If you\u2019ve ever suddenly started wondering what the heck has gotten into your boyfriend, this is the right place for you….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":114434,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40244","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/8-Shitty-Things-Men-Do-When-They-Want-To-Break-Up-With-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","parent":29627,"count":263,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29628,"category_count":263,"category_description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. If you need advice on when and how to break up, you'll find it all here.\r\n","cat_name":"dealing with breakup","category_nicename":"dealing-with-breakup","category_parent":29627}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40244","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/13"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40244"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40244\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/114434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40244"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40244"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40244"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}