{"id":40275,"date":"2020-07-11T10:09:39","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T10:09:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40275"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:44:35","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:44:35","slug":"13-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-mai-inviare-nudi-per-quanto-lui-insista","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/13-motivi-per-cui-non-dovreste-mai-inviare-nudi-per-quanto-lui-insista\/","title":{"rendered":"13 motivi per cui non dovreste mai inviare nudi, nonostante lui insista"},"content":{"rendered":"

Modern media has made it easy for guys to get what they want, and they certainly don\u2019t give a fuck about the consequences. All they want is to see your corpo caldo<\/a> and to have enough material to \u201ccontemplate\u201d.<\/p>\n

L'invio di selfie di nudo \u00e8, senza dubbio, sempre pi\u00f9 popolare, ma in realt\u00e0 non \u00e8 qualcosa con cui la maggior parte di noi si sente a proprio agio.<\/p>\n

Dopo tutto, siete voi a dover pensare razionalmente e a dover prendere una decisione saggia prima di caricare e inviare le vostre foto di nudo.<\/p>\n

Just because someone else is doing it, or because your boyfriend or some random guy is asking you to do it, doesn\u2019t mean you should.<\/p>\n

As a matter of fact, there are many reasons why you actually shouldn\u2019t do it, and here are some of them!<\/p>\n

1. Vi preoccupate del vostro futuro<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"Donna<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that you really care about your future and that someday you expect to be a respected and important person in the company in which you might be working.<\/p>\n

If your nudes somehow become public, it is really hard to erase them from other people\u2019s minds, so your future might turn into a big battle of regret and moving on.<\/p>\n

2. It\u2019s about respect<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

If you don\u2019t feel comfortable doing it, but he is insisting on you doing so, it means he doesn\u2019t respect you.<\/p>\n

E di sicuro meritate di essere apprezzati e rispettati<\/a>, right? So, why would you go out of your way to do something that you don\u2019t really want to do in the first place?<\/p>\n

Why blindly follow trends when you yourself know and can choose what\u2019s best for you?<\/p>\n

3. \u00c8 probabile che vi lasciate<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"ragazza<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say that you\u2019ve sent a couple of nudes to your boyfriend, and now you\u2019re about to break up.<\/p>\n

Immagino che la prima cosa che ti venga in mente sia la raccolta dei tuoi nudi sul suo telefono e come liberartene.<\/p>\n

Beh, potreste sbarazzarvene solo se rubaste il suo telefono, il che non \u00e8 proprio ragionevole o fattibile, o no?<\/p>\n

4. You\u2019re worth the wait<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

Remember that you\u2019re worth the wait (especially if you\u2019re having doubts about doing it).<\/p>\n

Any guy who gives you ultimatums regarding this is a douchebag, and you shouldn\u2019t waste your time on him.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re worthy of being with someone who will appreciate your choices and who will not have problems waiting to see your body in person instead of on a selfie.<\/p>\n

5. Uno non \u00e8 mai abbastanza<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Se decidete di inviare un selfie di nudo, ricordate che uno non sar\u00e0 mai abbastanza.<\/p>\n

Vorr\u00e0 che lo facciate in abiti diversi, in pose diverse e cos\u00ec via.<\/p>\n

E potrebbe facilmente ricattarvi con le vostre foto gi\u00e0 inviate se decidete di non fare come vi chiede (hmm).<\/p>\n

(But, let\u2019s assume that he\u2019s not a psycho.)<\/p>\n

6. You don\u2019t want to<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

If you don\u2019t want to do it, then you shouldn\u2019t force yourself to believe that you should do it.<\/p>\n

Tu sei la proprietaria del tuo corpo e nessun uomo ha il diritto di dirti cosa devi farne.<\/p>\n

Quindi, se il vostro istinto vi dice di non farlo, dovreste crederci, e dovreste ascoltare solo voi stesse e non quello che vuole un ragazzo arrapato.<\/p>\n

7. You probably aren\u2019t the only one he\u2019s asking<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e0. \u00c8 probabile che un ragazzo che ti ha chiesto di inviargli dei nudi abbia fatto lo stesso con molte altre ragazze.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s probably collecting them like Pokemon cards to exchange with his friends and close people.<\/p>\n

One thing is for sure\u2014you can never trust people, especially strangers.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 7 segni evidenti che non potete fidarvi di lui <\/a><\/p>\n

8. Potrebbe mostrarli ai suoi amici<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"gruppo<\/figure>\n

Regardless whether he\u2019s your boyfriend or someone you just met, you can never trust him that he will keep those pics only for himself and himself only.<\/p>\n

And no matter if he\u2019s sworn never to show them to anybody, you still cannot be one hundred percent sure that he will stay true to his promise.<\/p>\n

9. Potrebbe perdere il telefono<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"smartphone<\/p>\n

Oh, no! Anche le persone pi\u00f9 responsabili possono in qualche modo perdere il loro telefono o, peggio ancora, qualcuno potrebbe rubarglielo.<\/p>\n

And you certainly don\u2019t want your naked ass to be the first thing they see or to put your nudes on the Internet and ruin your life forever.<\/p>\n

10. Internet \u00e8 un luogo pericoloso<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"la<\/figure>\n

Gi\u00e0. Se in qualche modo i vostri nudi finiscono su Internet, \u00e8 solo questione di tempo quando qualcuno dei vostri cari, amici o familiari li vedr\u00e0.<\/p>\n

E questa \u00e8 probabilmente l'ultima cosa di cui preoccuparsi.<\/p>\n

The Internet is really a dangerous place where people can easily find your identity and even threaten to publish your nudes if you don\u2019t do something they want you to do.<\/p>\n

11. Potreste inviarli per sbaglio alla persona sbagliata.\"donna<\/strong><\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Quante volte vi \u00e8 capitato di inviare per sbaglio un messaggio alla persona sbagliata? Lo pensavo anch'io.<\/p>\n

And nothing will change when sending your nudes, so they could easily end up being sent to the wrong person\u2014,your mother, father, brother or someone else you don\u2019t really want to share them with.<\/p>\n

12. If you don\u2019t get an immediate response, you\u2019ll freak out<\/strong><\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

Is there anything more annoying than waiting for someone\u2019s response (especially when you share such sensitive content with them)?<\/p>\n

So, if you don\u2019t get una risposta immediata<\/a> once you\u2019ve send your nude, chances are you\u2019ll freak out because you will start overthinking about his true intentions and lose your nerve.<\/p>\n

But, if you don\u2019t give a shit about it, then go for it!<\/p>\n

13. Le persone potrebbero guardare nel vostro telefono<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Le persone sono esseri curiosi e ogni volta che mostrate loro una vostra foto, vogliono immediatamente vederle tutte.<\/p>\n

Pretty much similar to the saying: \u201cGive them a finger and they’ll take an arm.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

And once they see your nudes, you certainly can\u2019t say that these pics appeared out of nowhere.<\/p>\n

But, once again, if you really don\u2019t give a fuck about any of this, then you go for it and good luck!<\/p>\n

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