{"id":40339,"date":"2019-07-11T13:06:44","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T13:06:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40339"},"modified":"2022-02-24T00:50:13","modified_gmt":"2022-02-24T00:50:13","slug":"piu-lo-insegui-e-piu-ti-fai-del-male-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/piu-lo-insegui-e-piu-ti-fai-del-male-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Pi\u00f9 lo inseguite, pi\u00f9 vi fate del male da soli"},"content":{"rendered":"

We\u2019ve all been in a situation at one point in our lives where we\u2019ve chased someone who doesn\u2019t care for us or doesn\u2019t love us enough<\/span><\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

Anche se non c'\u00e8 nulla di male nel prendere l'iniziativa quando si tratta dell'uomo che vi piace, c'\u00e8 sempre una certa dose di dignit\u00e0 da mantenere.<\/p>\r\n

What you need to remember is that there is a huge difference between fighting for someone and chasing him \u2013 between showing interest and humiliating yourself.<\/p>\r\n

\"Pi\u00f9<\/p>\r\n

Siate sincere, da quanto tempo state inseguendo quest'uomo? Per quanto tempo avete dato tutto voi stessi a qualcuno che non lo ha mai apprezzato, senza ricevere nulla in cambio?<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Quanti anni avete sprecato in attesa che si dia una regolata<\/a> and give you back the effort he\u2019s been getting from you? For him to start treating you right and give you the place you deserve in his life?<\/p>\r\n

And how much more time do you plan on wasting? Up until what point are you ready to chase the man who obviously doesn\u2019t want to be caught?<\/p>\r\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if we\u2019re talking about a guy who refuses to commit, a guy who doesn\u2019t want to give you a chance in the first place, or a guy who doesn\u2019t want to change his ways.<\/p>\r\n

Either way, the point remains the same: you shouldn\u2019t be running after someone who is clearly doing everything he can to escape you.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m not telling you this because you\u2019re female. I\u2019m not telling you because you should be a princess patiently waiting for Prince Charming to come to her rescue.<\/p>\r\n

I\u2019m advising you this because you\u2019re a human being whose feelings will be hurt in the process if you continue doing this.<\/p>\r\n

Most of all, I\u2019m telling you all of this because there is no point \u2013 you\u2019ll never get the results you hope for, no matter how hard you try.<\/p>\r\n

Pi\u00f9 lo insegui, pi\u00f9 perdi te stessa.<\/b> Without even being aware of it, you try harder and harder to become a different version of yourself: a woman he\u2019d be attracted to more, a woman he\u2019d love more.<\/p>\r\n

\"Pi\u00f9<\/p>\r\n

Pi\u00f9 inseguite quest'uomo, pi\u00f9 gli dimostrate che non avete bisogno di alcuno sforzo.<\/b> That he doesn\u2019t have to do anything to win you over because you\u2019ll do all the work for him.<\/p>\r\n

The more you chase him, the more you let him take you for granted. You\u2019re telling him that you\u2019ll always be beside him, despite him not doing anything to keep you there.<\/p>\r\n

The more you chase this guy, the more you\u2019ll <\/b>accontentarsi di meno<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> Your views on love will be disrupted and even when you meet a new guy, you\u2019ll think that this kind of behavior is acceptable.<\/p>\r\n

The more you chase him, the more jealous and bitter you\u2019ll become each day.<\/b> You\u2019ll see all those girls whose boyfriends try hard around them and you\u2019ll wonder what they have that you don\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n

Why are they better than you? Why can their boyfriends love them properly and yours can\u2019t even give you the crumbs of his affection?<\/p>\r\n

Most importantly, the more you chase him, the less you\u2019ll think about yourself.<\/p>\r\n

You might not see it now, but with time, you\u2019ll start questioning your worth.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019ll start wondering why you can\u2019t be enough and why the man you love is running away from you the whole time. Is it you? Have you done something wrong?<\/p>\r\n

Are you not beautiful, smart or interesting enough? Why can\u2019t he choose you once for all without playing all of these games?<\/p>\r\n

The more you chase him, the less you\u2019ll love, respect and appreciate yourself.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Without being aware of it, the lack of his love and respect will impact your self-worth and with time, you\u2019ll start thinking that you don\u2019t deserve more.<\/p>\r\n

Pi\u00f9 si <\/b>inseguirlo<\/b><\/a>, the more you\u2019ll keep on breaking your heart.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Quindi, ripensateci e ditemi se ne vale davvero la pena. Vale la pena di perdere il vostro orgoglio, di abbattervi, di svalutarvi? Smettete di inseguirlo e vedete cosa succede<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

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