{"id":40347,"date":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T13:36:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40347"},"modified":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","modified_gmt":"2022-01-13T00:28:54","slug":"dargli-unaltra-possibilita-significa-concedersi-un-altro-colpo-al-cuore","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/dargli-unaltra-possibilita-significa-concedersi-un-altro-colpo-al-cuore\/","title":{"rendered":"Dare a lui un'altra possibilit\u00e0 significa darsi un altro colpo al cuore"},"content":{"rendered":"

So che lo ami. So che pi\u00f9 di ogni altra cosa vuoi che le cose tra voi funzionino.<\/p>\r\n

Nonostante la vostra mente vi dica il contrario, il vostro cuore vuole credere che lui cambier\u00e0. Nonostante la vostra mente vi dica che sta mentendo, il vostro cuore vuole credere alle sue vuote promesse e giustificazioni.<\/p>\r\n

From this point of view, you can\u2019t imagine your life without this man by your side. You keep on forgiving him things you know you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\r\n

Continuate a voltarvi dall'altra parte quando lui commette un errore, nella speranza che un giorno la vostra relazione sia diversa. Gli permettete di mentirvi e, cosa ancora peggiore, mentite a voi stessi, fidandovi di lui.<\/p>\r\n

Quindi, continuate a dargli seconde opportunit\u00e0<\/span><\/a>. You keep praying that this time it will be the last time\u2014that this time he\u2019ll come back to you as a new man, as the man you want and need him to be.<\/p>\r\n

That this time, things will finally fall into place; that he\u2019ll see he can\u2019t live without you either and that he\u2019ll finally learn to appreciate and respect you.<\/p>\r\n

\"Dare<\/p>\r\n

Naturalmente, ogni volta che lui torna alle sue vecchie abitudini, voi vi ripromettete che questa \u00e8 stata l'ultima volta che siete cadute nei suoi inganni; l'ultima volta che vi siete umiliate riprendendolo.<\/p>\r\n

Tuttavia, prima che ve ne rendiate conto, vi ritrovate di nuovo nel circolo infinito di rotture e riappacificazioni; nel circolo infinito delle sue bugie e delle vostre speranze; nel circolo infinito delle infinite seconde opportunit\u00e0 che lui trova sempre il modo di mandare all'aria.<\/p>\r\n

Don\u2019t worry, I won\u2019t be a smartass who will try to tell you that it is easy to turn down a man you\u2019re crazy for because it is without a doubt one of the most painful and bravest things a woman has to do.<\/p>\r\n

I know that he begs, that he cries, and that he doesn\u2019t leave you alone until lo hai lasciato strisciare di nuovo nella tua vita<\/a>. Naturalmente, tutto ci\u00f2 rende le cose molto pi\u00f9 difficili per voi.<\/p>\r\n

Dimenticare un uomo che si ama \u00e8 gi\u00e0 abbastanza difficile. Tuttavia, dimenticarlo mentre continua a presentarsi alla vostra porta e a chiedere costantemente un'altra opportunit\u00e0 sembra impossibile. Ma si pu\u00f2 fare.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

You just need to realize that every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re actually giving him a green light to keep on breaking your heart. Every time you riportarlo indietro<\/span><\/a>Gli state dando il permesso di allontanarsi da voi ogni volta che ne ha voglia.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re not going anywhere\u2014that no matter what he does, you\u2019ll be right there where he left you, patiently waiting for his sorry ass to come back. That no matter what he does, you\u2019ll always find a way to forgive him.<\/p>\r\n

That no matter how badly he hurts you, you\u2019ll always keep on loving him.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

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\"Dare<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you\u2019re showing this man that you\u2019re perfectly fine with the situation you two are in because let\u2019s face it\u2014you aren\u2019t doing much to change it. You\u2019re showing him that his behavior is acceptable and that there is nothing wrong with being a selfish asshole.<\/b><\/p>\r\n

Every time you give him another chance, you show him that he can count on you at all times and on all occasions; that you\u2019ll forever be his rete di sicurezza<\/span><\/a> e il suo piano di riserva.<\/p>\r\n

What is even worse, that your status in his life doesn\u2019t bother you at all. You\u2019re showing him that you\u2019re satisfied with the crumbs he\u2019s been giving you and that you\u2019ll always crave more.<\/p>\r\n

Most importantly: every time you give this guy another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you have no self-respect. You\u2019re telling him that you don\u2019t value your time, efforts, and sacrifices.<\/p>\r\n

You\u2019re showing him that your tears obviously don\u2019t matter, since you can forget about them easily.<\/b> That all the heartbreaks he\u2019s put you through are not such a big deal because you are always ready to care for him, as if nothing has happened.<\/p>\r\n

Every time you give this man another chance, you\u2019re showing him that you don\u2019t love yourself, since you\u2019re more than willing to put yourself through all of this pain over and over again.<\/p>\r\n

Allora, ditemi una cosa: se non avete amore e rispetto per voi stessi, perch\u00e9 dovrebbe averlo lui?<\/b><\/p>\r\n

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