{"id":40500,"date":"2020-07-16T12:29:28","date_gmt":"2020-07-16T12:29:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40500"},"modified":"2022-06-25T10:22:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-25T10:22:38","slug":"6-modi-migliori-per-staccarsi-da-una-persona-cara-disfunzionale","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-modi-migliori-per-staccarsi-da-una-persona-cara-disfunzionale\/","title":{"rendered":"I 6 modi migliori per staccarsi da una persona cara disfunzionale"},"content":{"rendered":"

Una relazione \u00e8 fondamentalmente un banco di prova per vedere se vale la pena di restare a lungo con questa persona.<\/p>\n

Chances are that, right now, it\u2019s not half as challenging as it could potentially become if you\u2019re still together a few years down the line.<\/p>\n

Con il progredire della vostra relazione, ci sono questioni importanti da discutere, decisioni importanti da prendere che riguardano entrambi e molti sacrifici e compromessi all'orizzonte.<\/p>\n

So before all that happens, it really shouldn\u2019t be that hard. La vostra relazione <\/a> non deve mai essere la causa principale della vostra instabilit\u00e0 emotiva o la cosa che vi rende nervosi e ansiosi.<\/p>\n

Dovrebbe essere un rifugio sicuro, una vacanza dal mondo e un luogo dove andare che sia solo vostro.<\/p>\n

Un luogo dove rilassarsi, respirare di nuovo e godere della presenza di un essere umano a cui si vuole bene e che si rispetta.<\/p>\n

And when that isn\u2019t the case, and when that very person is the cause of your distress and unhappiness, it\u2019s time to reassess if this is really worth it. If this person is making it difficult now, how much worse will it get in a few years?<\/p>\n

I say \u2013 don\u2019t take your chances. Life isn\u2019t a picnic. There are so many factors that determine whether you\u2019ll make it or not, so don\u2019t let the dysfunction of this person be one of them.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re supposed to be a team. You\u2019re supposed to feel safe and protected around this person, all the while knowing he\u2019s got your back and vice versa.<\/p>\n

Sure, things will not always be as peachy as they are now, but at least you\u2019ve got each other!<\/p>\n

Se il vostro partner <\/a> is causing you anxiety, distress and\/or making you unhappy, it\u2019s time to detach yourself from this situation and find yourself somebody who\u2019s going to bring you peace of mind.<\/p>\n

Ecco alcuni modi infallibili per staccarsi dalla persona amata disfunzionale e rendere la propria vita di nuovo piacevole!<\/p>\n

Commit to breaking it off and don\u2019t let his persuasion make you stay<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Decide that it\u2019s time to call it quits, and don\u2019t go back on your promise to yourself. Once you\u2019ve made this decision, stick by it and find the best way to break it off.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t catch him off guard; rather make plans to meet up (preferably in a caf\u00e9 or somewhere with people around) and tell him in advance there\u2019s something serious you need to discuss.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t let his charms persuade you to stay.<\/p>\n

Make your case, and stick by what you said. Don\u2019t let him downplay your issues and unhappiness; tell him you can no longer remain with him.<\/p>\n

Give him time to process it and don\u2019t rush things. When there\u2019s nothing left to say, get up and leave, wishing him well.<\/p>\n

Non prolungare il processo (essere chiari e tempestivi)<\/h2>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

When you\u2019ve decided that you\u2019re going to do this, don\u2019t keep making excuses and postponing it. You\u2019re doing yourself a huge disservice.<\/p>\n

Make a clean break. The sooner you\u2019re able to sit down and talk, the better. If you stay with him any longer than you want to, you\u2019re only going to resent him more.<\/p>\n

Fatelo per voi stessi, ma anche per il suo bene. Anche lui merita di conoscere il suo la relazione \u00e8 finita <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Trovare sostegno nella famiglia e negli amici<\/h2>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

There\u2019s nothing like a solid support system when you\u2019re going through something like this. Inform them of what\u2019s going on and call them anytime you\u2019re feeling bad or unhappy.<\/p>\n

Let them keep your spirits up while you\u2019re going through this breakup and don\u2019t shy away from venting to them.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s important to create a safety net for yourself, because you know you\u2019ll eventually need it.<\/p>\n

They can cheer you up when you\u2019re feeling down, and keep you company when loneliness kicks in.<\/p>\n

With their support, it\u2019s going to be easier and less painful.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t stay friends with your ex<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Non importa quanto sia amichevole la vostra rottura, non promettete di rimanere amici.<\/p>\n

Dovete mantenere una distanza di sicurezza per un po' di tempo, per poter guarire davvero da questa situazione. Vedere il suo volto regolarmente lo render\u00e0 impossibile.<\/p>\n

Perhaps with time, you\u2019re going to be able to be pleasant with each other and be okay with seeing him without feeling bad, but definitely not yet. Give it time and keep your distance.<\/p>\n

Per il vostro bene.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man <\/a> nella vostra vita con cui avete appena rotto a causa dei suoi problemi.<\/p>\n

Ci\u00f2 di cui avete bisogno \u00e8 una cerchia sana e stabile di amici e parenti stretti. Solo il tempo ci dir\u00e0 se potrete essere amichevoli in futuro.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need to be his savior (let him figure his shit out)<\/h2>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

The last thing you need is to save him from himself. That is no longer your job. You may wish him well and hope he gets better, but you definitely shouldn\u2019t play a role in it.<\/p>\n

He needs to figure his shit out himself. Until he realizes how he can be better for both himself and his potential partner, you shouldn\u2019t feel the need to help him figure it out.<\/p>\n

He\u2019s a mature grown up and he needs to learn how to act like it. It\u2019s his responsibility and nobody else\u2019s.<\/p>\n

Trovate modi positivi per trascorrere il vostro nuovo tempo libero<\/h2>\n

\"donne<\/p>\n

Now that you\u2019re out of that dysfunctional relationship, you\u2019ll find you\u2019ve got so much free time on your hands!<\/p>\n

Potete trovare un hobby che vi tenga occupati (yoga, palestra, sport, ecc.). Oppure potete passare pi\u00f9 tempo con le persone pi\u00f9 care.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s all up to you. You\u2019ll meet lots of new people and stay so busy that you\u2019ll barely have time to think about your ex.<\/p>\n

Tenersi occupati post rottura<\/a> \u00e8 prioritario.<\/p>\n

For as long as you\u2019re still feeling nostalgic and jaded, keep doing things that will distract you.<\/p>\n

With time, you\u2019ll forget all about him and start feeling like a brand new person, and that\u2019s the whole point!<\/p>\n

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