{"id":40671,"date":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","date_gmt":"2019-07-18T11:45:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40671"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:07","slug":"4-motivi-per-cui-disinnamorarsi-e-piu-spaventoso-che-innamorarsi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/4-motivi-per-cui-disinnamorarsi-e-piu-spaventoso-che-innamorarsi\/","title":{"rendered":"4 motivi per cui innamorarsi \u00e8 pi\u00f9 spaventoso che innamorarsi"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensate che innamorarsi fa paura<\/a>. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And that is something that we\u2019re all afraid of, whether we\u2019d like to admit it or not.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

D'altra parte, si pensa che la caduta d'amore sia sempre un sollievo. Che questa sensazione di voltare una nuova pagina della propria vita equivalga a una liberazione emotiva, fisica e mentale.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Well, think again. The process of falling out of love is everything but that. In fact, in most cases, it\u2019s scarier than falling in love. Here is why.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. \u00c8 qualcosa che nessuno vuole<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Let\u2019s face it. No matter where you stand in life right now, we all want to fall in love at one point. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Al momento potreste fuggire da questo pensiero a causa di precedenti esperienze dolorose, ma la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che uno degli obiettivi finali di ogni persona vivente \u00e8, tra gli altri, trovare l'amore romantico.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Quando ci\u00f2 accade, nessuno pensa alla fine. Invece, a tutti noi piace supporre e sperare che ogni relazione che intraprendiamo durer\u00e0 per tutta la vita. Che ogni volta che ci innamoriamo, sar\u00e0 per sempre.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You\u2019re not expecting your romance to end when you\u2019re starting it. You don\u2019t put an expiration date on your relationship and your feelings.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

However, sadly, things don\u2019t always end up the way we want and imagine them to. Sometimes, you fall out of love, despite that being the last thing you planned.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

And that makes all of it even scarier \u2013 the fact that it hits us, contrary to our desires. The way it is something we can\u2019t control and something we never wish for.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. You’re hurting yourself and the other person<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Innamoramento<\/a> non \u00e8 mai un gioco da ragazzi ed \u00e8 tutto fuorch\u00e9 facile. Anzi, \u00e8 doloroso sia per la persona che lo vive sia per quella che viene lasciata.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re falling in love, you never expect things to fall apart. You are not doing it, consciously knowing that you\u2019re soon to hurt both yourself and the person you loved so dearly until now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tuttavia, quando si tratta del processo inverso, tutto \u00e8 diverso. Si tratta di un processo di strazio che non pu\u00f2 essere evitato.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Maybe your relationship is theoretically perfect, but you simply don\u2019t feel anything for your significant other. If this is the case, then you feel guilty for allowing yourself to fall out of love with someone who didn\u2019t deserve it.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ti senti in colpa per non essere in grado di controllare il fatto di dover mandare in frantumi il loro cuore. E sapere che questo manda in frantumi anche il tuo.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When you\u2019re forcing yourself to fall out of love with someone you know <\/p>\n\n\n\n

doesn\u2019t deserve your heart, it also hurts. It hurts knowing that you need to let go, that you must walk away, that you have to kill all of your emotions.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Metti in discussione tutto ci\u00f2 che sapevi<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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When you\u2019re falling out of love, you start questioning yourself, your romantic partner, your entire relationship, and everything you once knew about love.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Are you doing the right thing? Or you\u2019re making the mistake of your life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Is this just a phase? Or is everything you\u2019ve felt for your partner really forever gone?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All of these questions are making you anxious, depressed and nervous. Most importantly, they\u2019re making you doubt your own sanity and decision-making skills.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. You’re leaving your comfort zone<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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It doesn\u2019t matter if you were happy in love or not, throughout the years, this feeling has become familiar to you. It has become a part of who you are and now you have to leave it behind.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It doesn\u2019t matter if you\u2019re falling out love after a long term relationship or with someone who\u2019s non ti ho mai amato<\/a>Il punto \u00e8 pi\u00f9 o meno lo stesso.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Questa sensazione che vi ha travolto per anni e che \u00e8 diventata il vostro conforto ora non c'\u00e8 pi\u00f9 e dovete continuare ad andare avanti senza di essa.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Dovete reinventarvi e immaginare la vita senza le emozioni che spesso vi hanno guidato. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You think that falling in love is scary. You\u2019re letting yourself be led by something you can\u2019t control \u2013 your emotions.\u00a0 Also, you\u2019re opening up to a completely new person. You\u2019re letting them in your life without holding yourself back; you\u2019re putting yourself out there.\u00a0 You risk being hurt and having your heart broken. And…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":40678,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40671","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1170996397.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40671"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40671\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/40678"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40671"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40671"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40671"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}