{"id":4070,"date":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","date_gmt":"2020-09-05T09:01:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4070"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:37:23","slug":"amore-nessun-rispetto-relazione","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/amore-nessun-rispetto-relazione\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando c'\u00e8 amore ma non c'\u00e8 rispetto nel rapporto di coppia"},"content":{"rendered":"

Siamo tutti un po' accecati dagli ormoni quando entriamo in una relazione e all'inizio non vediamo le cose come stanno realmente.<\/p>\n

We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it.<\/p>\n

All'inizio, ci innamoriamo degli sguardi e delle attenzioni, ma con il passare del tempo, la relazione deve crescere<\/a>.<\/p>\n

If you keep giving the same things all over again without adjusting to the needs of another person, there is the possibility that the person you\u2019re with might get fed up with you playing the same movie on repeat.<\/p>\n

Vedi, mi sono innamorata del tuo affetto. Mi sono innamorata delle tue parole dolci e dei tuoi complimenti, e ho amato il modo in cui mi guardi. Avevi uno sguardo che diceva quanto mi volevi.<\/p>\n

And it felt good to be wanted. But these kinds of feelings don’t last forever.<\/p>\n

I know you want me. I know you love me. But that\u2019s just it. And I\u2019m sorry, at this point it\u2019s just not enough.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Mi compri i fiori. Mi baci sulla fronte ogni mattina e mi chiedi come \u00e8 andata la giornata.<\/p>\n

You remember all the important dates. I get hugs, cuddles, and your hand in my hand on a regular basis. It feels good\u2014I swear it does.<\/p>\n

Continui a farmi i complimenti per il mio aspetto e questo non cambia mai. Mi dici quanto mi trovi bella e quanto sei felice di avermi accanto.<\/p>\n

You often tell how you don\u2019t know what you did to deserve such a stunning woman. Little do you know, there was no need for you to deserve me\u2014I chose you because I wanted you as much as you wanted me.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> 10 Undeniable Signs He\u2019s TRULY, MADLY, DEEPLY in Love with You<\/a><\/p>\n

But\u2026.<\/p>\n

I am afraid that\u2019s all I am to you. Just a pretty face and nothing more.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to admire me for my looks. That was my birth gift\u2014I didn\u2019t earn it.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Voglio che mi ammiriate per<\/a> il mio intelletto, la mia passione, i miei occhi che brillano e la mia voce che assume un colore diverso quando parlo di qualcosa che amo. <\/b><\/p>\n

I want you to acknowledge my hard work, my dedication, to tell me you\u2019re happy to have such a purpose-driven woman next to you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Voglio che tu mi voglia per quello che sono e non per il mio aspetto. <\/b><\/p>\n

Fai tutte queste cose per dimostrarmi il tuo amore, ma faccio fatica a vedere qualcos'altro nel tuo sguardo.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t respect my decisions. You don\u2019t think I can make it no matter how hard I work. You think your success is more important than what I do.<\/p>\n

Non mi hai mai detto quanto sono intelligente e non hai mai sostenuto nessuna delle mie idee. Mi hai semplicemente tagliato fuori senza nemmeno ascoltarmi e sei andato ad affrontare i tuoi problemi da solo.<\/p>\n

Even when I am happy to help, you rush to somebody else for advice. You don\u2019t do these things in a relationship.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Non capite che il rispetto \u00e8 un fattore chiave che ci permette di comprendere e riconoscere le idee e le decisioni dell'altro.<\/p>\n

True respect cannot be forced and I\u2019m not doing that, however, in most situations, people respect others due to power differentials.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche:<\/strong> Ecco perch\u00e9 il vostro fidanzato vi tratta senza rispetto<\/a><\/p>\n

Una donna pu\u00f2 essere bella e intelligente allo stesso tempo.<\/b><\/p>\n

If you\u2019d just give me the benefit of the doubt and listen to my advice for a change, you\u2019d see that what I say does make sense, in fact.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019d trust me with your problems, I\u2019d feel more appreciated.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want you to be proud of how beautiful I am\u2014I\u2019d get that anywhere.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Chiunque pu\u00f2 essere bello e chiunque potrebbe sostituirmi perch\u00e9 ci sono almeno un miliardo di altre donne che sono belle quanto me.<\/p>\n

I\u2019d rather have you be proud of what kind of women you have next to yourself.<\/p>\n

I am not a trophy and I wish you\u2019d just stop treating me like one.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want just your affection, I want your admiration as well\u2014but not for how I look but for what I am. <\/b><\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want to be just a pretty face. I don\u2019t want to be weaker than you. I want my opinion to count. I want you to actually hear what I have to say, and I want you to respect me.<\/p>\n

I want you to scratch the surface and see what\u2019s beneath it. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because if you don\u2019t start respecting me, if you don\u2019t try to see another side of me, I might just respect myself enough to walk away from you.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Quando<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

We\u2019re all a little blinded by hormones when we first enter a relationship and we don\u2019t see things as they really are at the beginning. We feel happy and we want to hold on to it forever. The truth is, you can\u2019t really stay in a relationship for the same reasons you entered it. At…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":112577,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4070","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/When-There-Is-Love-But-No-Respect-In-The-Relationship-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","parent":29620,"count":228,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29625,"category_count":228,"category_description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? What should you do if you find yourself in one? Here's all you need to know!","cat_name":"toxic relationship","category_nicename":"toxic-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4070"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4070\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/112577"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4070"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4070"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4070"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}