{"id":40768,"date":"2019-07-22T10:23:53","date_gmt":"2019-07-22T10:23:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40768"},"modified":"2022-06-10T11:09:38","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T11:09:38","slug":"essere-single-e-meglio-che-affrontare-questi-10-problemi-relazionali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/essere-single-e-meglio-che-affrontare-questi-10-problemi-relazionali\/","title":{"rendered":"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se siete single, avete mai la sensazione che qualcuno l\u00e0 fuori stia cercando in tutti i modi di farvi sentire come se ci fosse qualcosa di sbagliato in voi solo perch\u00e9 siete soli?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>I media e la societ\u00e0 in generale hanno reso molto difficile per i single godersi la propria libert\u00e0 senza sentirsi mancare qualcosa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>All those headlines, like: \u2018<em>If you feel like you\u2019ll be single forever, read this<\/em>!\u2019 Really? But what is it about those who are in relationships? Why is it that no one ever mentions them?&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><strong>If someone is in a relationship, this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that they are happy. And if someone is single, this doesn\u2019t necessarily mean that they are miserable!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>In effetti, se guardiamo le cose pi\u00f9 da vicino, ci rendiamo conto che essere single \u00e8 in realt\u00e0 MEGLIO che avere a che fare con queste 10 <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/8-aspettative-irragionevoli-che-gli-uomini-hanno-nei-confronti-delle-donne-nelle-relazioni-di-coppia\/\">problemi di relazione<\/a>!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. Chiedersi continuamente perch\u00e9 ci mettano cos\u00ec tanto a mandarvi un messaggio o a richiamarvi.<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1139758664-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is there anything more annoying in the whole wide world than waiting and contemplating why they didn\u2019t text or call you back? Too many what ifs and not a single answer.&nbsp;<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>This is an inevitable, stressful part of every single relationship and by God, I\u2019d rather save my nerves and stay single for the rest of my life than deal with this crap ever again.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/12-motivi-per-cui-non-ti-scrive-mai-per-primo-ma-risponde-sempre-quando-gli-mandi-un-messaggio\/\">12 motivi per cui non ti manda mai un messaggio per primo (ma risponde sempre quando glielo mandi)<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. Dover andare d'accordo con i propri familiari<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40770\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_539055682-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019re in a relationship, this doesn\u2019t mean that your job there is done. Nope.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Oltre a preoccuparvi dei problemi nella vostra relazione, dovete anche preoccuparvi di andare d'accordo con i membri della loro famiglia e di assicurarvi che vi apprezzino.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E ci sar\u00e0 sempre quel membro della famiglia con cui non andrete d'accordo, qualunque cosa facciate.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E questo spesso significa fare di tutto per placarli e cambiare se stessi per ottenere la loro approvazione. Insomma, chi ha bisogno di questo nella propria vita?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Voglia di stare in casa quando si vuole uscire e viceversa<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40771\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_681819469-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>La relazione di coppia si basa sul compromesso, ma anche le coppie di maggior successo prima o poi falliscono.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ci saranno sempre momenti in cui vorrete rimanere a casa, guardare un film o il vostro programma televisivo preferito e rilassarvi circondati da tonnellate di cibo, per poi sentire che vogliono uscire.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But this never happens when you\u2019re single! If you want to go out, you go out. If you want to chill and stay in, you do so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>There are no boundaries and you don\u2019t have to worry about if someone will feel comfortable with your choice.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Sentirsi troppo a proprio agio o annoiati nel rapporto di coppia<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40772\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_735138154-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>When you just start dating, everything\u2019s fresh and you feel like you will never get bored of any of it. But over time, you start feeling too comfortable or even bored in the relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Yes! It\u2019s actually possible to feel <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/annoiati-in-una-relazione\/\">annoiati in una relazione<\/a> perch\u00e9 si rimane bloccati nella routine e nulla sembra pi\u00f9 interessante.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you\u2019re single, the game instantly changes. You can always dictate your tempo and spice things up whenever and however you want.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Non ci si annoia mai perch\u00e9 si hanno pi\u00f9 scelte e pi\u00f9 libert\u00e0 di esplorare il mondo e di goderselo appieno!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Vedi anche: <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/leggete-questo-articolo-se-la-vostra-relazione-a-lungo-termine-e-in-crisi\/\">Leggi questo articolo se la tua relazione a lungo termine \u00e8 in crisi<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Being forced to watch things on TV that don\u2019t interest you<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40775\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1034230603-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Is there anything more annoying than being forced to watch things that you couldn\u2019t give less of a shit about? I didn\u2019t think so.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Being in a relationship with someone means being forced to watch things that don\u2019t really interest you just because they mean a lot to them and you don\u2019t want to ruin their fun.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Ma essere single significa guardare quello che si vuole, quando si vuole e per quanto tempo si vuole. Senza fingere, senza perdere la testa e senza drammi!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. Seeing that they liked some girl\u2019s\/guy\u2019s picture on Instagram and wanting to confront them about it but not wanting to seem crazy<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40776\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_572367250-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve ever been in a relationship or you know someone who is, this must have happened to you or them more than once.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>It is really frustrating to witness your partner liking some girl or guy\u2019s half-naked picture or any picture on social media.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E sapete cosa \u00e8 ancora pi\u00f9 frustrante? Non sapere cosa fare. Se vi buttate su di loro come Godzilla, rischierete il vostro benessere e la vostra sanit\u00e0 mentale.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>E se decidete di non fare nulla al riguardo, vi divorer\u00e0. Questo \u00e8 uno dei tanti motivi per cui essere single \u00e8 dieci volte meglio che avere a che fare con questo tipo di merda.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Feeling like you\u2019re missing out on fun times with your friends<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40777\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_493326574-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Credetemi, non importa quante volte vi ripeterete che questa volta non trascurerete i vostri amici in termini di socializzazione, non funzioner\u00e0.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Avere una relazione significa semplicemente passare meno tempo con i propri amici, non perch\u00e9 lo si voglia, ma perch\u00e9 semplicemente accade cos\u00ec.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>And then you will start feeling like you\u2019re missing out on fun times with them and you will regret your decision to be in a relationship in the first place.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Quindi, l'unica conclusione logica \u00e8 quella di evitare tutta questa merda e di essere invece single!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. Chiedersi se il loro amico \u00e8 davvero SOLO un amico<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40778\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_637889722-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>We all have friends and they are all JUST friends until it is proven otherwise. And when that happens, it\u2019s kind of too late.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>No one will ever give you back your time spent wondering about whether their friend is really JUST a friend or a potential threat. But if you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t have to EVER worry about this one.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">9. Si infastidisce o si ingelosisce quando <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/relationship\/perche-lui-e-la-tua-priorita-quando-tu-sei-la-sua-opzione\/\">you\u2019re not their priority<\/a><\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40779\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_388577281-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Sometimes they will choose a guy\u2019s or girl\u2019s night or some meaningless event over a night spent with you. Sometimes you will not be their priority and you will get annoyed or even jealous. And all of this shit will happen if you\u2019re in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But if you\u2019re single, you are your own priority and nothing and no one can make you feel less important.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>If you\u2019re single, you don\u2019t freak out about trivial things like being jealous over something because you\u2019re occupied with more important things like having fun and not giving a damn about anything else around you.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">10. Sentirsi stanchi di pensare continuamente<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" class=\"wp-image-40780\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1145571935-2-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p><em>\u201cWhat will they think if I do this or that? Will they like this color on me? Why didn\u2019t they call me? What should I do next? Do they think that I\u2019m desperate?\u201d<\/em><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>Avere una relazione significa sentirsi stanchi di pensare continuamente a tutto e a niente, il che porta al disturbo chiamato overthinking.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<p>But being single means not giving a damn about what others will think of you. It means enjoying your own choices and having fun till you get bored of it! (Hmm\u2026 if that\u2019s even possible!)<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" class=\"wp-image-40795\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Essere single \u00e8 meglio che affrontare questi 10 problemi relazionali\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-22T122333.254.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re single, do you ever feel like someone out there is trying really hard to make you feel like something\u2019s wrong with you just because you\u2019re solo? The media and society in general have made it really difficult for single people to enjoy their freedom without feeling like they are missing something. All those&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":40789,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29645],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-40768","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-being-single"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29645,"label":"being single"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1064879747.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29645,"name":"being single","slug":"being-single","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29645,"taxonomy":"category","description":"How to rock being single? 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