{"id":40832,"date":"2019-07-23T07:43:03","date_gmt":"2019-07-23T07:43:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40832"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:24:54","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:24:54","slug":"se-sei-stufa-di-essere-fregata-dai-ragazzi-inizia-a-seguire-queste-9-regole","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/se-sei-stufa-di-essere-fregata-dai-ragazzi-inizia-a-seguire-queste-9-regole\/","title":{"rendered":"Se siete stufi di farvi fregare dai ragazzi, iniziate a vivere secondo queste 9 regole"},"content":{"rendered":"

It\u2019s true that men can be real assholes when it comes to relationships, romances, and love life in general. They are perfectly capable of pretending how gentlemanly nice they are, only to fuck things up later on.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ma, sapete come si dice: \u201cFool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me.\u201d<\/em> If you\u2019ve had more than a few bad experiences with men, I\u2019m sorry to admit it to you, but the problem might lie in you instead.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Now, I\u2019m not saying that it is your fault because some men are genuine assholes. But, it is your fault that you didn\u2019t protect your heart by establishing some essential rules that will keep you away from uomini tossici e manipolatori<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

So, if you\u2019re really sick of getting screwed over by guys (which I surely am), consider starting to live by these 9 golden rules that will help you find a man that you deserve!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

1. Metti sempre te stesso al primo posto<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Remember that you\u2019re the captain of your own ship and responsible for your own happiness. Remember that if you don\u2019t fight for yourself, no one else will. Always put yourself first, no matter what!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t wait for him to start treating you the way you deserve. Instead, always treat yourself the best you can. That will let him know that you will not tolerate him treating you any differently.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

If you make yourself number one priority, your heart will be protected because he won\u2019t be able to reach it so easily.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

2. Don\u2019t let him into your world so easily<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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The number one mistake that many women are guilty of is letting guys into their world so easily. Men live for challenges and it\u2019s in their blood to fight for a woman they like.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

E potete immaginare cosa succede quando vi concedete cos\u00ec facilmente a un ragazzo. Esattamente!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

He takes it for granted. He never makes you his priority because he knows that he didn\u2019t have to fight so hard to win you, which, in a way, makes you a girl with low standards.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Don\u2019t be that girl. Always keep your head and standards as high as possible because one day you will thank yourself for that.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedi anche: 8 malintesi che i ragazzi hanno sull'uscire con ragazze con standard elevati<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

3. Vivere il momento<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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You\u2019re probably confused by this one, but there\u2019s a perfect reason why you should be reminded to live in the moment.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Many women, not long after they\u2019ve entered a relationship, start fantasizing about the future with their partner.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Believe me, we women are so good at it that we can imagine ourselves already married with three kids and one on the way, living in a perfect house with flowers and shit \u2013 and all of it in only three seconds.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I think it\u2019s not even necessary to mention what\u2019ll happen when you realize that your guy is not even close to this imagination.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ecco perch\u00e9 bisogna sempre affrontare un giorno alla volta. Non pensate troppo! Vivete il momento, cogliete l'attimo e ripetete.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

4. Don\u2019t let him control the pace of your relationship<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Imagine that you let a guy control how fast or slow your relationship moves. If you do that or have already done that, I\u2019m sure that things didn\u2019t end up peachy. That\u2019s because guys want it all and they want it now.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vi vedono come la caramella perfetta che devono avere per essere felici. Vogliono strapparvi i vestiti, osservarvi e continuare a farlo ancora e ancora.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

And, guess what, you\u2019re the one who needs to keep things in control if you don\u2019t want to end up with a broken heart.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

You\u2019re the one who needs to control the pace of your relationship because it is your duty to protect yourself!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

5. Prestare attenzione alle azioni e SOLO alle azioni<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Quante volte vi \u00e8 capitato di ascoltare quello che vi dice un ragazzo senza mai mettere in dubbio le sue reali intenzioni?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quante volte avete dimenticato di concentrarvi sulle sue azioni invece che sulle parole che escono dalla sua bocca?<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Molte donne dimenticano che quando si tratta di uomini, le parole diventano del tutto insignificanti. L'unica cosa a cui dovete prestare attenzione sono le sue azioni!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Dopo tutto, cosa significa per voi se dice di amarvi ma non ve lo dimostra mai nei fatti? <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

It\u2019s easy to give lip service, but only a few real men know that actions speak louder than words. And you should wait for such a man!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Vedi anche: Gli uomini veri ti amano con le azioni pi\u00f9 vere, non con le parole pi\u00f9 false<\/a><\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

6. Ascoltate sempre il vostro istinto<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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If you feel like something\u2019s wrong in your relationship, then it probably is. Always remind yourself to listen to that small voice in your head telling you that something\u2019s just not right.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Il vostro istinto \u00e8 il vostro migliore amico quando si tratta di relazioni e non dovreste mai sminuirne l'importanza.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

7. Cambiare le proprie abitudini<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Let\u2019s say that you go to a place where you keep on meeting douchebags, but instead of learning your lesson, you keep visiting that same place like nothing happened.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Se notate che la vostra storia si ripete, dovete assolutamente pensare di cambiare le vostre abitudini.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Your choices and habits are closely connected to your happiness. You would be surprised how much you can benefit by only changing places or trivial things like your walking route, or something else that you\u2019re doing on a daily basis.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

8. Avoid \u201crebound\u201d relationships<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Se volete dimenticare quel ragazzo in particolare, dimenticatevi di relazioni di rimbalzo<\/a>. No one has ever gotten over someone by entering into a new relationship (that\u2019s, of course, if your feelings were genuine).<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Quello che devi fare \u00e8 darti un po' di tempo per guarire e non avere fretta.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

I know it sounds a little clich\u00e9, but it\u2019s true that time heals all wounds. It is the main cure for all types of breakups and conflicts. Don\u2019t ever forget that!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

9. Don\u2019t make excuses for the guy<\/h2>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n
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Do you know what\u2019s worse than letting guys into your world so easily? It\u2019s making excuses for those same guys who are acting like assholes.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Per favore, fatevi un favore e non cercate di trovare una scusa perfetta per il suo comportamento ogni volta che vi fa qualcosa di sbagliato.<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Open your eyes and see the truth. Understand that if he\u2019s been repeatedly acting like a douche towards you, it means he doesn\u2019t deserve you and you shouldn\u2019t waste a second longer on him, let alone make excuses to justify his behavior. <\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

Ricordate che la felicit\u00e0 \u00e8 nelle vostre mani, quindi giocate sempre con saggezza!<\/p>\r\n\r\n\r\n\r\n

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