{"id":40892,"date":"2019-07-24T07:35:57","date_gmt":"2019-07-24T07:35:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=40892"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:31:25","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:31:25","slug":"6-cose-che-non-dovreste-mai-essere-sorpresi-a-fare-con-il-vostro-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/6-cose-che-non-dovreste-mai-essere-sorpresi-a-fare-con-il-vostro-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"6 cose che non dovreste mai essere sorpresi a fare con il vostro ex"},"content":{"rendered":"

Il vostro ex fa parte del vostro passato per un motivo, giusto? Quindi, la prossima volta che vi viene in mente di farlo tornare nella vostra vita, ricordatevelo subito. Perch\u00e9 trascinarsi di nuovo nella vita con lui che avete lasciato \u00e8 sempre una cattiva idea.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Resist the urge to contact him for whatever reason you tell yourself. You don\u2019t need that shit back in your world. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sometimes, focusing on the bright future that is ahead of you is all the motivation you need to leave past mistakes where they belong \u2013 in the past.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Smettere di concentrarsi su il tuo ex<\/a> e iniziare a concentrarsi su di voi!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For as long as your priorities are messed up, you are never going to heal and move on the way you\u2019re supposed to. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vedere l'uomo con cui ci \u00e8 voluto tanto tempo per rompere pu\u00f2 solo riportare la nostalgia in voi e farvi dimenticare rapidamente tutte le bandiere rosse che vi hanno fatto rompere in primo luogo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I understand that it\u2019s hard. Even if you were the one calling it quits. There are always residual feelings lurking somewhere deep within you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be suppressed anger about his shit that made you break it off. It can be sadness over the fact you couldn\u2019t salvage what you believed was your forever love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It can be an array of emotions that are eventually going to lead you to making a really bad decision! And once you\u2019re back in that web of unhealthy behavioral patterns, it\u2019s going to be twice as hard finding your way out once again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Mettete voi stessi al primo posto. Mettete le vostre emozioni<\/a> first. Listen to what your head is telling you. And we both know it isn\u2019t telling you to call your ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So in order to remain in that good place post-breakup, it is essential that you not engage in any of the following habits when it comes to your ex. With time, you\u2019ll see this was the best decision you ever made!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Non vendicarti mai del tuo ex (lascia che sia il karma a risolvere la questione).<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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You know what they say: what goes around, comes back around. And they\u2019re not wrong! Somehow, things always seem to fall into place. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Certo, a volte ci vorr\u00e0 un po' pi\u00f9 di tempo, ma chi vi fa del male avr\u00e0 sempre ci\u00f2 che si merita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So it\u2019s better to just let karma take care of your ex, and worry about your own shit. It\u2019s never smart to stoop to that level due to temporary anger. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In a few months, you\u2019ll be as good as new, and you\u2019ll be laughing about this. So find the strength within and let him go. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Revenge is not the solution here. It\u2019s moving on and letting him see how well you\u2019re doing. That\u2019ll do the trick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Non fate mai sesso con il vostro ex<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Jumping into bed with your ex is the biggest no-no! You might foolishly think it will bring you closer together again or that it will make him realize how much he misses you, but it\u2019s the exact opposite!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will give him the idea that you want a casual relationship with him, so he\u2019ll still be sleeping with other girls as well as with you, and you\u2019ll end up more broken than ever! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

This will mess you up even more, trust me! You\u2019ll get a taste of him again and you won\u2019t want di lasciarlo andare<\/a>. And he\u2019ll be doing his thing, completely over you, making you more miserable than ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Non rimanete mai amici del vostro ex<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t kid yourself into thinking you\u2019re ready to have the guy you shared a bed with up until recently be your buddy. It sounds ridiculous, doesn\u2019t it? <\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can\u2019t just switch off your emotions. You can\u2019t just pretend he wasn\u2019t the man you believed was your one up until a few weeks ago. And now you want to be buddies with him?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Guarire prima di tutto. Prendetevi cura di voi stessi. Parlatene con le vostre migliori amiche e sfogatevi. Piangete a dirotto e guardate tutte le commedie romantiche che volete. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t try to be his friend. It\u2019s going to be excruciating. You\u2019re not ready. Maybe one day, when your heart is whole again. But definitely not today.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Never text him when you\u2019re feeling down<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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I know this sounds harsh, but it\u2019s for your own good. Text your mom, your friends, or your sister! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But don\u2019t text the man who caused you to feel this way. It\u2019s not fair. Not to him, and especially not to you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Things are the way they are for good reason. A desperate text at midnight isn\u2019t going to change things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Plus, you\u2019ll only regret it in the morning. So leave your phone when you\u2019re blue and put on some music. Lie on your bed and don\u2019t think, just feel. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Cry if you want to, but put your phone away, unless it\u2019s to text your friends. Feel your feelings and soon, you\u2019ll be okay again. Not great\u2026 but well enough to know that mandargli un messaggio<\/a> would\u2019ve been the worst idea ever.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Non criticare mai il tuo ex davanti agli altri<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Siate rispettosi del tempo che avete trascorso insieme. Per un po' di tempo \u00e8 stato il vostro numero uno. Era il tuo uomo, la tua roccia e il tuo confidente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Just because it didn\u2019t work out, doesn\u2019t give you the right to badmouth him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Imagine if he talked shit about you to other people. It would hurt, wouldn\u2019t it? So simply don\u2019t do it. When you get asked about him, politely say he\u2019s a thing of the past now and you wish him nothing but the best, and walk away.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Non implorare mai il tuo ex di riprenderti<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
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Don\u2019t let your sadness make you do things you normally wouldn\u2019t! Never beg anyone to be part of your life. You\u2019re better than that. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Granted, you\u2019re feeling like shit now, and this might seem like your last resort, but it\u2019s the last thing you should ever do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It will make him lose respect for you and change the way he sees you. You\u2019re not yourself right now, and that\u2019s okay. But stop yourself before you decide to beg him to take you back. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That will only give him power over you and might make him use your sadness for his own gain. Be strong and keep away. You\u2019re not yourself right now, but I promise \u2013 you\u2019ll get there!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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