{"id":41230,"date":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","date_gmt":"2019-07-29T12:25:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41230"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:17:15","slug":"come-affrontare-il-fatto-che-la-tua-amica-e-amica-del-tuo-ex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-affrontare-il-fatto-che-la-tua-amica-e-amica-del-tuo-ex\/","title":{"rendered":"Come affrontare il fatto che la tua migliore amica \u00e8 amica del tuo ex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Un anno fa ho rotto con il mio ragazzo che mi ha fatto molto male. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mi ha tradito e mi ha umiliato di fronte a tutti i nostri amici perch\u00e9 ha portato la sua nuova amante in un bar dove eravamo tutti insieme.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>He told me right there that he was now seeing her. He didn&#8217;t even care. Yup, he was that bad.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>I cut him off that day. He could be lying dead next to me and I wouldn&#8217;t care less for him. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ma il mio migliore amico, che \u00e8 la persona pi\u00f9 buona e fantastica che esista, continua a parlare con lui e la sua nuova ragazza.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In realt\u00e0 hanno trascorso pi\u00f9 tempo insieme subito dopo l'accaduto. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The worst part was that due to my job, I had to move to another city where I was alone and couldn&#8217;t &#8220;control&#8221; who was hanging out with whom, so they spent the entire summer having a great time while I was crying myself to sleep.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Ho cercato di spiegare alla mia amica che questa cosa che stava facendo non era giusta e che sapevo che lo stava facendo solo perch\u00e9 \u00e8 una persona cos\u00ec buona e si dispiace per tutti.<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"532\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg\" alt=\"Come affrontare il fatto che la tua migliore amica \u00e8 amica del tuo ex\" class=\"wp-image-41233\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_99289220-768x511.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Con il passare del tempo, la loro amicizia si \u00e8 indebolita. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I thought that this was because of me, but it turned out it was because of his new girlfriend. My friend didn&#8217;t like her company.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>A chiunque abbia a che fare con questo problema, ho un paio di suggerimenti da dare:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. Non importa quanto sia gentile la vostra amica e quanto sia forte la sua amicizia con il vostro ex, se lui ha fatto qualcosa di simile a voi, e lei non \u00e8 l\u00ec in piedi a sgridarlo, ma sorride come una stupida ragazzina, tagliatela fuori. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t mean cut her off for good, but at least for some time until she realizes what\u2019s right and what\u2019s wrong.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2. Play it cool. Don&#8217;t freak out and try to point out something to her if it seems like you are talking to a wall. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Be a lady and wait. Everything will come out eventually; everyone&#8217;s personality and deeds will show up in the end.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>3. Se lei \u00e8 una tua buona amica e una persona gentile, e se lui \u00e8 cos\u00ec com'\u00e8, alla fine se ne render\u00e0 conto e torner\u00e0 da te e lo taglier\u00e0 fuori dalla sua vita.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Credetemi, \u00e8 successo anche a me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Because at the end, everyone&#8217;s intentions become clear and everyone shows their actual face.<\/strong><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Come affrontare il fatto che la tua migliore amica \u00e8 amica del tuo ex\" class=\"wp-image-41247\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/PINTEREST-2019-07-29T142527.390.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A year ago, I broke up with my boyfriend who really hurt me. He cheated on me and actually humiliated me in front of all of our friends because he brought his new lover in at this cafe where all of us were hanging.\u00a0 He told me right there that he was now seeing her&#8230;.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":41243,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41230","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&amp;family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/07\/shutterstock_1055032637.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&amp;family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? 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