Questo \u00e8 stato il primo indizio che mi ha deteriorato. Non sono mai stata abbastanza per lui per essere la sua fidanzata legale. Si \u00e8 impegnato totalmente con quest'altra ragazza. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Of course he did. Why shouldn\u2019t he when he made clear that she was better than me.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Ricordo che una volta mi sono licenziata da un lavoro in cui la mia busta paga non era mai puntuale e avevo un capo terribile. <\/p>\n\n\n\n He made a comment that made me feel like I was the laziest person ever. We were talking about my friend and he said something like, \u201cWell, at least she has a job.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sapeva cosa stavo affrontando al lavoro e sapeva anche che la mia condizione di disoccupato era temporanea, fino a quando non avrei trovato una nuova opportunit\u00e0 di lavoro. <\/p>\n\n\n\n It wasn\u2019t like I was asking for money or anything from him. Instead of his support, though, he downgraded me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Within a month and a half, I found another job and it was in this really great firm. They loved me in the interview and it wasn\u2019t like I slept with someone to get that position. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Non si \u00e8 mai congratulato con me. Anzi, credo proprio che fosse geloso di me.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I suoi amici si congratulavano con me, dicendo quanto fossi indipendente, affascinante e simpatica. Lui non ha mai commentato nulla. Cos\u00ec ho continuato a pensare di non essere nulla di tutto ci\u00f2.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n So di essere attraente e investo in bei vestiti, soprattutto in lingerie sexy. Sapevo che mi vedeva molto attraente, ma non mi ha mai detto nulla. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Okay, I\u2019m sorry for my vanity, but I am a woman and you need to tell me that you love my thighs and hair and lips.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Sometimes it\u2019s not enough just to have sex with someone. It proves nothing except for the fact that you satisfied your primal need. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Compared to him, I was a Victoria\u2019s Secret model, but I never had a problem with stating I loved his beer belly and strong hands.<\/p>\n\n\n\n I am aware now that he was a jealous and narcissist person, that he never appreciated me, and how better off I am without him, but it\u2019s just hard to appreciate myself. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n If he \u2013 the one with the beer belly and mediocre accomplishments \u2013 never appreciated me, how is someone else who is a far better catch than he was, going to appreciate me?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n So che piaccio ai suoi amici e ai miei amici e dico di essere una brava donna, ma faccio ancora fatica a crederci. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Lo odio per avermi fatto questo. Odio il fatto che quest'altra persona che si imbatter\u00e0 in me avr\u00e0 a che fare con molti pezzi rotti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n Spero solo che questa futura persona sia davvero paziente e piena di comprensione.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n E spero per lui che esista un universo karmico che livelli tutte le cose che ha fatto a me o a qualsiasi altra ragazza, e che lui sia 10 volte meno sicuro di s\u00e9 di quanto lo sia io adesso.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n I was involved with this very narcissistic man who never directly said anything mean to me or was ever aggressive, but the actions and hints he used to give me totally crushed my entire being. 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