{"id":41399,"date":"2020-07-01T13:16:57","date_gmt":"2020-07-01T13:16:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41399"},"modified":"2021-08-11T10:01:51","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T10:01:51","slug":"9-segni-che-lamore-che-hai-non-e-quello-che-meriti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/9-segni-che-lamore-che-hai-non-e-quello-che-meriti\/","title":{"rendered":"9 segni che l'amore che provi non \u00e8 quello che meriti"},"content":{"rendered":"

L'amore \u00e8 cieco. Sono sicuro che molti di voi conoscono gi\u00e0 questo detto, ma in qualche modo, quando siamo innamorati, tendiamo a dimenticarne il vero significato.<\/p>\n

Quando innamorarsi<\/a>, our way of thinking significantly changes and we become literally blind to some red flags and other things indicating that something\u2019s not right.<\/p>\n

We get deluded into believing that everything is perfect and that we\u2019re happier than ever but is this really true? Is the love you have the love you actually deserve?<\/p>\n

Well, there\u2019s one way to find out. If you\u2019re in love, you\u2019re probably already doing everything you can to maintain your relationship.<\/p>\n

You love each other a lot and you\u2019re really determined to succeed. But there are some things that you probably haven\u2019t paid much attention to.<\/p>\n

If these 9 things are happening in your relationship, it means you\u2019re not with the right person and the love you have is not the love you actually deserve!<\/p>\n

Ti censuri da solo<\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

Do you ever feel like you shouldn\u2019t say something in front of your partner because he might judge you or misinterpret it? Well, if you feel like this once in a while, it\u2019s not a big deal. <\/p>\n

But if you\u2019re constantly weighing up in your head if you should say something or do something because you feel anxious about your partner\u2019s reaction, then it is a huge problem in a relationship.<\/p>\n

Non sentirsi a proprio agio con il partner per essere chi si \u00e8 veramente \u00e8 la bandiera rossa numero uno che non si dovrebbe mai evitare, perch\u00e9 essere innamorati significa essere genuini con se stessi e accettare le differenze.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 10 differenze fondamentali tra amare qualcuno ed essere innamorati<\/a><\/p>\n

Your partner doesn\u2019t give you the right support<\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

This one is really easy to miss because we all mostly pay attention to how our partner is treating us when we\u2019re going through rough times and we seldom ask ourselves how our partner is treating us when we\u2019re nailing it.<\/p>\n

Se il vostro partner mostra segni di gelosia e non \u00e8 davvero felice del vostro successo, potete essere certi che non vi sta dando il giusto sostegno.<\/p>\n

You can easily notice them faking it by their body language and their choice of words when they are \u2018showing you support\u2019.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re the only one who sees any good traits in your partner<\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

I vostri amici e familiari approvano il vostro partner o pensano che non vada bene per voi?<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the only one who sees any good traits in your partner, the chances are that you\u2019re living in an illusion.<\/p>\n

So, if the majority of the people you know don\u2019t really like your partner, then there must be a valid reason for such thinking.<\/p>\n

When you\u2019re in love, it\u2019s easy for you to foresee all the red flags and fatal flaws because you\u2019re blinded by love and that is why it is good to think about the opinions of others as well.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 6 bandiere rosse nel suo comportamento che non dovreste mai interpretare in modo errato<\/a><\/p>\n

Cercate scuse per il vostro partner<\/h2>\n
\"L'uomo<\/figure>\n

S\u00ec. Quando amiamo davvero qualcuno, tendiamo a trovare delle scuse per lui quando ci tratta male o fa qualcosa di egoistico.<\/p>\n

By doing so, we\u2019re turning a blind eye to the real problems and issues in our relationship.<\/p>\n

We do this because we want to continue living in our imaginative fairy tale. We don\u2019t want to accept the fact that something needs to be changed.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re guilty of doing this and you can relate to everything said above, then you can be sure the love you have isn\u2019t the love you actually deserve.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always the one who has to initiate everything<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

Siete sempre voi a mandare messaggi, a chiamare e a dare inizio a tutto per primi?<\/p>\n

If you are, it means you\u2019re making way more effort than your partner and you should never even think of finding excuses for that.<\/p>\n

After all,\u2019it takes two to tango\u2019 and going out of your way to keep things functioning can never work in the long run.<\/p>\n

Il vostro partner si scusa raramente<\/h2>\n
\"uomo<\/figure>\n

It\u2019s completely normal to make mistakes in a relationship but if your partner never or seldom ever apologizes for it, it means non vi trattano nel modo in cui meritate<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Se vi assicurate sempre di scusarvi dopo aver detto o fatto qualcosa di sbagliato, allora siete sicuri di meritare lo stesso trattamento in cambio.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t feel beautiful around your partner<\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

If you can\u2019t remember the last time your partner complimented your outfit, hair, behavior or something else, then it means they are not making enough effort to make you feel special. <\/p>\n

If you\u2019re always giving your best to look beautiful and to amaze your partner with your choices and they never say anything that will show their appreciation, know that this is not the love that you deserve.<\/p>\n

Meritate di sentirvi belle cos\u00ec come siete e meritate di ricevere complimenti ogni giorno (soprattutto se vi assicurate sempre di dire qualcosa di carino per farle sentire meglio).<\/p>\n

Il partner frequenta altre persone<\/h2>\n
\"Amici<\/figure>\n

Avete notato che il vostro partner si comporta in modo diverso quando \u00e8 circondato da amici o da altre persone a lui vicine?<\/p>\n

Se questo \u00e8 il caso, significa che non vi trattano con lo stesso rispetto che hanno per gli altri.<\/p>\n

It means they are taking you for granted and you certainly don\u2019t deserve that.<\/p>\n

Vedi anche: 7 cose da fare quando comincia a darti per scontata<\/a><\/p>\n

You feel like you don\u2019t know where you stand<\/h2>\n
\"donna<\/figure>\n

Do you ever feel like you have no idea where you stand in the relationship and you\u2019re kind of confused about everything your partner does or says?<\/p>\n

If you do, it means you\u2019re feeling in your gut that something\u2019s not right in your relationship and you\u2019re kind of lost in all that.<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re feeling it in your gut, it likely means it\u2019s true and you definitely should never settle for anything less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

Meritate di sperimentare un amore che vi faccia sentire beati e sinceramente felici, invece che confusi o preoccupati.<\/p>\n

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