{"id":4170,"date":"2020-07-06T20:50:31","date_gmt":"2020-07-06T20:50:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/herway.net\/?p=4170"},"modified":"2022-02-23T10:44:35","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T10:44:35","slug":"come-amare-una-ragazza-distrutta-come-shell-ti-ama-indietro","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/come-amare-una-ragazza-distrutta-come-shell-ti-ama-indietro\/","title":{"rendered":"Come amare una ragazza distrutta e come lei vi amer\u00e0 a sua volta"},"content":{"rendered":"

Amare una ragazza distrutta sar\u00e0 difficile.<\/strong> I don\u2019t want to lie to you.<\/p>\n

Loving her, in fact, will be the hardest thing there is. It will require a lot of effort and many times you\u2019ll wonder if it\u2019s even worth it.<\/p>\n

The beautiful part about loving a broken-hearted girl is that only those who think it\u2019s worth it get to see a butterfly born from the cocoon.<\/p>\n

Solo chi rimane abbastanza a lungo, riesce a vedere la bellezza che si cela dietro l'amore. una ragazza distrutta<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Amare una ragazza distrutta sar\u00e0 pieno di insicurezze e dubbi.<\/strong>anche, ma non solo, da parte vostra.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have a hard time believing you\u2019ll stay.<\/p>\n

She\u2019ll have a hard time trusting you because her past made her insecure; because her past made her doubt every single thing there is.<\/p>\n

Ha un cuore fragile, il cuore di una bambina, insicuro e innocente come un fiore delicato.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The easiest thing you could do right now is break her. She’d snap like a twig, aching silently…in peace…all alone.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Even if you say you\u2019ll stay, even when you promise you\u2019ll be different, even though you do your best to hug and kiss out each and every doubt she has from her bones, there will always be a small dose of fear that you might turn out to be the same as the person that broke her.<\/p>\n

\"uomo<\/p>\n

Un tempo bellissima dimostrazione di una donna forte, ora si \u00e8 trasformata in una ragazza timida e spaventata.<\/p>\n

Il dolore cambia le persone <\/a>e questo l'ha certamente cambiata nel profondo.<\/p>\n

Doubt will be haunting her, and she\u2019ll fight it, but there will be days when she won\u2019t be able to be brave anymore, and even though you do make her happy, she\u2019ll end up lying on her bedroom floor, crying her soul out because of the fear she feels.<\/p>\n

Nessuno potr\u00e0 mai capirlo, ma il suo mondo \u00e8 un mondo crudele e freddo in cui vivere.<\/p>\n

Few are those who could find the courage to live with and survive the emotional pain she’s feeling every minute of every hour of every day.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sometimes, when you\u2019re with her, she won\u2019t be able to give you all she has<\/strong>. Sometimes, she\u2019ll fail to be the best version of herself.<\/p>\n

A volte she won’t be able to take it anymore <\/a>. Sometimes, she\u2019ll forget to smile. Sometimes, she will want to be alone. And then you\u2019ll know what\u2019s she thinking about.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to fix her<\/strong>. Ma come riparare una ragazza distrutta? \u00c8 possibile?<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to make her do things that she isn\u2019t sure she wants, thinking you\u2019re helping.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll try to make her be another version of herself, and you\u2019ll do your best to fix what broke her.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t. That won\u2019t help. You\u2019ll only push her away. You can\u2019t fix her\u2014only she can do that.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 l'unica che pu\u00f2 prendere la sua fragile vita e ricostruirla dalle ceneri per diventare pi\u00f9 forte che mai.<\/p>\n

Instead of wasting your energy on fixing her, why don\u2019t you try and love her<\/strong>? Use your words to make her believe you\u2019re staying.<\/p>\n

Then turn your words into actions, and actually show her you\u2019re staying.<\/p>\n

Show her you love her. Give her more than words. Give her hope. Give her hope in tomorrow. Give her hope that one day, she\u2019ll be complete again.<\/p>\n

\"coppia<\/p>\n

Fatele credere che le sue cicatrici svaniranno. E quando fai tutto questo,   don\u2019t let her go. <\/a><\/p>\n

Make her a part of the story of your life\u2014a story with a happy ending for the both of you, especially her.<\/p>\n

Se le dimostrate che vi fidate di lei e se le date spazio per fidarsi a sua volta, vi amer\u00e0 come nessuno vi ha mai amato prima. Vi amer\u00e0 in modo diverso.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Sa cosa si merita.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Despite everything she’s been through, she is still a ragazza romantica <\/a> in profondit\u00e0.<\/p>\n

And although she’s still a bit scared to sail on the sea of love, she will try once again because she’s not a quitter.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Solo che questa volta i suoi occhi saranno spalancati e tutti i suoi sensi saranno pronti a percepire il pericolo.<\/p>\n

At the first sign of possible heartbreak, she will be out! This time, this lucky broken girl knows how much she’s worth.<\/p>\n

This time, she’s aware of how strong she is.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She won’t allow tears of pain to touch her face anymore. She won’t cry because she’s helpless, alone, and hurt!<\/p>\n

Non pu\u00f2 che piangere di felicit\u00e0 e di orgoglio. \u00c8 riuscita ad alzarsi, a raccogliere i pezzi della sua vita distrutta e ad andare avanti. Non aveva mai pensato di poterlo fare.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

If you want her to love her, you’ll have to respect her strength and her stubbornness. She was once burnt because she trusted someone.<\/p>\n

She has lost her strength because she gave herself to someone else. Don’t expect her to do the same this time, too.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 guardinga.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Her shields are up all the time because she’s not quite sure what to feel. She can hold you up one moment and move you away from her the other.<\/p>\n

She only does this because she’s scared you’ll hurt her, so she tries to jump ahead of you by ‘removing’ you from her life before something bad happens to her.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

She’s not lying about why she does it. She is very honest when it comes to her feelings and her reasons.<\/p>\n

She is keeping her guard up for one simple reason\u2014she’s been hurt like hell before and she’s not hiding it.<\/p>\n

Combatte le sue battaglie.<\/p>\n

Honestly, it’s pretty challenging to keep up with her. It’s challenging to understand her all of the time. But, it’s all worth her love.<\/p>\n

She isn’t needy, and she’s not annoying.<\/p>\n

Al contrario, non vi disturber\u00e0 mai con i suoi problemi perch\u00e9 combatte le sue battaglie da sola.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Sometimes her independence will bother you because she will keep everything to herself. You’ll have to drag everything out of her because she won’t say it to you all by herself.<\/p>\n

When she’s hurting, she backs down.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Maybe her hurting has nothing to do with you, so don’t make a big deal out of it.<\/p>\n

Don’t pressure her into confessing what is wrong with her, never get her in that situation because you’re only going to make things worse.<\/p>\n

Quando si oscura e si ritira, bisogna fare attenzione. In queste situazioni, La pazienza \u00e8 la chiave <\/a>.<\/p>\n

Lasciatela stare. Lasciatela piangere quelle lacrime che stanno uscendo a forza.<\/p>\n

\"donna<\/p>\n

Don’t let her keep her pain inside her, and don’t force her to open up to you. She will do that all by herself. There is no need for you to pressure her into doing anything.<\/p>\n

Non ti lascer\u00e0 mai andare.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She has found love in you after a devastating heartbreak. Do you really think she’s going to give up on you at the first sign of trouble?<\/p>\n

She would never do that because you already know she’s a fighter, and she doesn’t give up.<\/p>\n

Far\u00e0 tutto il possibile per trattenervi, ma potreste leggere le sue intenzioni nel modo sbagliato.<\/p>\n

\u00c8 diversa da chiunque vi abbia amato finora. Fa le cose in modo diverso e ama in modo diverso.<\/p>\n

\"giovane<\/p>\n

Maybe you won’t recognize her fighting for you in the beginning, but believe me, she is.<\/p>\n

Non rinuncer\u00e0 mai all'amore.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She will always have faith in love. Whether she’s left with just a few pieces of her broken heart, she will use them to love someone again.<\/p>\n

She will be scared, she will be terrified to the bone, but she will go for it anyway. It’s because she has faith and she believes. She will never stop believing.<\/p>\n

Rimanete abbastanza a lungo per vedere il bozzolo trasformarsi in una bellissima farfalla. Rimanete abbastanza a lungo per vedere la bellezza che c'\u00e8 dietro l'amore per una ragazza distrutta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Perch\u00e9 ogni donna ha un'enorme bellezza, ma quelle distrutte nascondono la loro bellezza.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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