{"id":41853,"date":"2019-08-08T12:51:53","date_gmt":"2019-08-08T12:51:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=41853"},"modified":"2021-09-08T09:52:44","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T09:52:44","slug":"8-ottime-ragioni-per-cui-i-ragazzi-devono-smettere-di-giocare-con-le-donne","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/8-ottime-ragioni-per-cui-i-ragazzi-devono-smettere-di-giocare-con-le-donne\/","title":{"rendered":"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se ricevessi un dollaro ogni volta che sento parlare di un ragazzo che gioca con le mie amiche donne, a quest'ora sarei pi\u00f9 ricco di Oprah. Davvero, viviamo in un mondo in cui gli appuntamenti sono diventati una battaglia per la sopravvivenza.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I maschi sono diventati come iene che perseguitano le donne per tutte le ragioni sbagliate e per la loro insaziabile avidit\u00e0 (con l'eccezione dei bravi ragazzi, che sono cos\u00ec rari). Attirano le donne nel loro nido tossico solo per giocare con loro.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>They are no longer even shy about just wanting sex and sex only; they\u2019re ready to use every single dirty trick in the book to get you into bed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And, guys, you know what the worst of all is? You think we don\u2019t notice things \u2013 that we\u2019re too naive to believe your manipulative nature. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sorry, but you have no idea that we\u2019ve always been one step ahead of you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Prevediamo ogni vostra mossa, riusciamo a capire quando ci mentite e abbiamo persino ideato dei radar immaginari in grado di misurare i livelli di tossicit\u00e0 di alcuni maschi. (Ok, scherzo sull'ultima. O forse no?).<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, I think this is a pretty good reason for you to finally stop playing games with us women because it\u2019s no longer fun and we don\u2019t fall for any of it anymore. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ma se avete bisogno di altri motivi per smettere di essere dei veri e propri stronzi (ancora una volta, con l'eccezione di tutti i bravi ragazzi), ecco l'intera lista!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">1. We don\u2019t buy your bullshit anymore<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_610355321-1.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41859\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_610355321-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_610355321-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_610355321-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Come gi\u00e0 detto, il motivo principale per cui dovreste smettere seriamente di giocare con le donne \u00e8 che non si bevono pi\u00f9 le vostre stronzate. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Women are perfectly aware of every single trick you\u2019re using against them to appease your selfishness and they no longer fall for it. So, why waste your time being an asshole when no one is buying that shit anymore?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">2. You\u2019re ruining it for all the genuinely nice guys<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41856\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-735x491.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-335x224.jpg 335w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-347x232.jpg 347w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-520x347.jpg 520w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_297773465-1-150x100.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Yup. When you pretend that you\u2019re all nice only to jump into our pants, you\u2019re deliberately ruining it for all the genuinely decent guys out there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Do you know why? Because we\u2019ll no longer trust anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While you may fool us once, you\u2019ll definitely not fool us twice, yet still there will be this suspicion in the air every time a genuinely good guy does or says something nice. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La nostra ragione ci avverte che sono proprio come voi, anche se non \u00e8 cos\u00ec. Quindi, perch\u00e9 rovinare tutto solo per soddisfare il proprio ego?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">3. Playing with someone\u2019s emotions is the lamest thing you can do<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1363683755.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41862\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1363683755.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1363683755-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1363683755-768x432.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Seriously, we\u2019re no longer in elementary school. Gone are the days when little boys were teasing and playing games with little girls. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s high time you become grown-ass men and behave accordingly; playing with someone\u2019s emotions is definitely the lamest thing you can do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ma essere un uomo adulto che sa cosa vuole e rispetta le donne \u00e8 una cosa completamente diversa. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You should understand that no one likes douchebags and it\u2019s about time you understand the serious consequences of playing with someone\u2019s emotions and heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">4. Essere se stessi vi porter\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 lontano<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_595715426.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41871\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_595715426.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_595715426-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_595715426-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you think that the only way to get what you want is by playing an asshole, you\u2019ve definitely got it all wrong. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che essere se stessi vi porter\u00e0 molto pi\u00f9 lontano. Volete sapere perch\u00e9? Perch\u00e9 ogni donna rispetter\u00e0 un uomo che rispetta se stesso; ogni donna dar\u00e0 prima una possibilit\u00e0 a un uomo che non \u00e8 uno stronzo definitivo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Being yourself will change your life and your game. You\u2019ll be appreciated, respected, and wanted for who you are. Remember that no woman alive likes jerks, so seriously consider stopping being one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">5. Anche le donne sono in grado di giocare a questi giochi, e probabilmente molto meglio di voi.<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1323021359.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41876\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1323021359.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1323021359-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_1323021359-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you think that women are incapable of playing the same games that you\u2019re playing, you\u2019re sadly mistaken. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anche le donne sono in grado di fare questi giochi, e la verit\u00e0 \u00e8 che probabilmente sarebbero molto pi\u00f9 brave di voi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le donne sono state benedette con il dono di comprendere le emozioni complesse e potrebbero facilmente usarlo contro di voi, ma scelgono di non farlo. Perch\u00e9? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Because they aren\u2019t assholes \u2013 they care about how others feel. They are neither selfish nor narcissistic to only think about themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">6. La vostra reputazione vi perseguiter\u00e0<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_679911928.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41877\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_679911928.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_679911928-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_679911928-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cOnce a cheater, always a cheater.\u201d When you break a woman\u2019s heart, she will definitely never forgive you. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But, to make matters worse, no woman out there will ever forgive you because we live in a small world where people talk and everyone seems to know everyone else\u2019s dirty laundry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Il vostro gioco con le donne dannegger\u00e0 la vostra reputazione e questo vi perseguiter\u00e0 per molto tempo dopo le vostre azioni peccaminose. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And even when you change your mind about being an asshole and start treating women with the respect they deserve, they still won\u2019t believe you. Do you know why? Because \u201cOnce a cheater, always a cheater.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">7. Potreste davvero fare del male a qualcuno<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_91193036.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41878\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_91193036.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_91193036-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_91193036-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Pensate mai alle possibili conseguenze mentre giocate ai vostri stupidi giochi? Immagino di no. Beh, sapevate che potreste davvero ferire qualcuno mentalmente e persino fisicamente con tutte le vostre stronzate?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E questo non \u00e8 affatto divertente. Nessuna persona l\u00e0 fuori (sia essa maschio o femmina) merita di essere manipolata o trattata come una merda. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>No person out there deserves to deal with your toxic nature because you\u2019re not the one entitled to destroy other people\u2019s lives. Playing God is a dangerous thing, you know.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">8. It\u2019s just a waste of time for all of us<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_601906364.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donne\" class=\"wp-image-41879\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_601906364.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_601906364-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_601906364-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re still not convinced why you should stop playing games with women, just think about how the world would look like if there were no assholes, manipulators, toxic people, liars, and narcissists.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sarebbe come il paradiso in terra, perch\u00e9 i livelli di infelicit\u00e0 e di persone di merda diminuirebbero notevolmente. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>E risparmiereste tonnellate di tempo facendo cose buone invece che solo cose di merda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Quindi, perch\u00e9 sprecare il vostro tempo e quello degli altri con giochi stupidi quando potete iniziare a rendere il mondo un posto migliore semplicemente cambiando voi stessi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As Mahatma Gandhi said: \u201cBe the change you wish to see in the world.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-08T145133.388-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"8 ottime ragioni per cui i ragazzi devono smettere di giocare con le donnev\" class=\"wp-image-41881\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-08T145133.388-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-08T145133.388-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/PINTEREST-2019-08-08T145133.388.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If I got a dollar every time I heard about some guy playing games with my female friends, I would be richer than Oprah by now. Seriously, we live in a world where dating has become a battle for survival. Males have become like hyenas stalking women for all the wrong reasons and their insatiable&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":41880,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-41853","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/shutterstock_782366032.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/it\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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